Codependency therapists in Godfrey, IL
Browse Codependency therapists in Godfrey, Illinois. Compare credentials, specialties and therapeutic approach. Contact a therapist to learn more.
Juliette Grantham
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
I'm Juliette Grantham, a psychoanalytic psychotherapist specializing in codependency.
You might recognize yourself in a pattern of taking responsibility for other people's feelings, sensing what someone needs before they ask and providing it automatically, or finding that you cannot locate your own preferences once you are in a relationship. Saying no may feel dangerous rather than merely uncomfortable. Often there is quiet resentment underneath the caretaking, and guilt about the resentment.
I work psychoanalytically, which means we go past boundary-setting as a technique and into why the boundary feels unavailable. This pattern carries an unconscious logic worth understanding: attending to others was likely the most reliable way to stay safe or stay close in an environment where your own needs were not workable. In sessions we trace how that arrangement was learned, including how it appears between us.
If you keep disappearing into other people's needs, I would be glad to talk.
2 Years Experience
Online in Godfrey, IL
Dr. Brittany Jacobson
Psychologist, PhD, CST
You may find yourself prioritizing others’ needs, emotions, or expectations at the expense of your own. Together, we explore the patterns that keep you overextended or disconnected from yourself, often rooted in early relationships or learned roles. I will help you honor your own needs and voice, develop clearer boundaries, and connect to others without abandoning yourself.
10 Years Experience
Online in Godfrey, IL
Bravura Therapy
Counselor/Therapist, LMFT, LCSW, LCPC
We all learn how to be people as we grow up. Some of us learn that safety only exists when everyone else is okay. Codependency can feel very connecting, until it feels empty. We can work together to unwind codependency so everyone can live more freely and fulfilled.
14 Years Experience
Online in Godfrey, IL
Margo Tirado MA LCPC
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LCPC
In my work with codependency, I help people see how the urge to over-give and put others first didn’t come out of nowhere. These patterns often begin early in life, when learning to be helpful, agreeable, or self-sacrificing felt like the safest way to stay connected. Over time, that can turn into setting your own needs aside and measuring your worth by how much you do for others. Therapy offers a compassionate space to slow this down, understand it, and begin responding to yourself with more honesty and care.
Drawing from my book - Own Your Voice, I help clients reconnect with their inner voice and create better boundaries. Together, we focus on noticing where you’ve been accepting too little, giving too much, or silencing yourself to keep the peace. As you learn to trust your voice and respect your limits, relationships start to feel less draining and more mutual—rooted in choice, self-respect, and real connection.
31 Years Experience
Online in Godfrey, IL
Alan Brandis, Ph.D.
Psychologist, Ph.D., Licensed Psychologist
The concept of Co-Dependency was developed as a way of explaining how family members of alcoholics, especially their spouses, became emotionally ill apparently as a result of living with an alcoholic for years.
"Co" is a prefix that means "like" or "with" - the family member becomes sick like and with "the dependent" (the person dependent on a chemical). There are several common problems that often go along with life with an alcoholic or drug abuser, including their unpredictable moods, selfish and irresponsible behavior, angry outbursts which may include verbal or physical abuse, broken promises and commitments, embarrassing public behavior, financial irresponsibility, legal problems, and inability to return love or affection. However, most chemically dependent people have periods when they function well, and this generates the hope that they will stay well, quit or control their chemical use, and become responsible and loving for good.
36 Years Experience
Online in Godfrey, IL
Codependency therapists in Godfrey, IL Statistics
Codependency therapists in Godfrey, IL average 16 years of experience and charge around $200 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The top treatment approaches are Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) (60%), Person-Centered Therapy (Rogerian) (42%), and Acceptance & Commitment Therapy (ACT) (40%).
Average years in practice
16 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$200
Accept insurance
44%
Offer sliding scale
46%
Gender ID
| 62% |
Female |
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| 34% |
Male |
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| 3% |
Non-Binary |
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| 1% |
Gender Fluid |
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Session Type
| 52% |
In Person and Online |
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| 48% |
Online Only |
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Top Treatment Approaches
| 60% | Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) |
| 42% | Person-Centered Therapy (Rogerian) |
| 40% | Acceptance & Commitment Therapy (ACT) |
| 40% | Psychodynamic Therapy |
| 37% | Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) |
| 36% | Relational Psychotherapy |
| 35% | Behavioral Therapy |
Ages Served
| 96% | Adult |
| 71% | Young Adult |
| 61% | Senior |
| 39% | Teen |
| 19% | Children |
Client Focus
| 64% | Women |
| 52% | LGBTQ+ |
| 49% | Men |
| 33% | Military / Veterans |
| 28% | Hispanic / Latino |