Perfectionism therapists in Lily Dale, NY
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Perfectionism
Cicek Erdem
Psychologist, PhD
Perfectionism is often less about high standards and more about fear—fear of failure, disappointing others, losing control, or not feeling worthy. You may find yourself overworking, overthinking, people-pleasing, procrastinating, or struggling to feel satisfied with yourself no matter how much you accomplish. While perfectionism may once have helped you feel safe, accepted, or in control, over time it can become exhausting and isolating. Therapy can help you better understand what drives these patterns while creating more space for self-compassion, authenticity, balance, and a more flexible relationship with yourself.
12 Years Experience
Online in Lily Dale, NY
Perfectionism
Farzana Rahman
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC-D
As the eldest daughter and child of South Asian immigrants, I have worked extensively with Asian American clients who are recovering people pleasers and perfectionists. Perfectionism often overlaps with depression and anxiety, and part of the work we will do together is understanding and identifying which ingrained beliefs are contributing towards specific habits or patterns.
11 Years Experience
Online in Lily Dale, NY
Perfectionism
Alexis Smith
Pre-Licensed Professional, MHC-LP
I help clients recognize and work through perfectionistic thinking, self-criticism, and the pressure of unrealistic expectations that can create stress and burnout. Together, we explore the underlying fears driving these patterns and begin developing more flexible, balanced, and self-compassionate ways of thinking and responding. My approach is supportive and practical, focused on helping you reduce the constant sense of pressure, tolerate imperfection, and relate to yourself with more understanding. The goal is greater ease, emotional flexibility, and a stronger sense of self-acceptance in both daily life and personal goals. If you’re ready to step out of constant self-pressure, I invite you to reach out or explore my profile to learn more.
2 Years Experience
Online in Lily Dale, NY (Online Only)
Perfectionism
Madeline Salerno
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
Madeline works with clients struggling with perfectionism, self-pressure, and fear of failure to develop greater flexibility, self-compassion, and balance.
10 Years Experience
Online in Lily Dale, NY
Perfectionism
Fufan Chiang
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
Perfectionism isn't just a drive to do well; it is an exhausting survival strategy that tells you your worth is only earned by performing, pleasing, and never letting anyone down. Carrying the invisible burden of "never good enough" leaves you hypervigilant, deeply self-critical, and entirely disconnected from your own needs. Through specialized, body-centered trauma therapy, we will move past these rigid standards and quiet your inner critic. You can transition away from constant overextension and step into real, lasting self-trust and genuine, physical calm.
17 Years Experience
Online in Lily Dale, NY (Online Only)
Perfectionism therapists in Lily Dale, NY Statistics
Perfectionism therapists in Lily Dale, NY average 12 years of experience and charge around $220 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The top treatment approaches are Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) (64%), Psychodynamic Therapy (44%), and Acceptance & Commitment Therapy (ACT) (42%).
Average years in practice
12 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$220
Accept insurance
36%
Offer sliding scale
42%
Gender ID
| 68% |
Female |
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| 22% |
Male |
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| 5% |
Gender Fluid |
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| 5% |
Non-Binary |
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Session Type
| 50% |
In Person and Online |
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| 50% |
Online Only |
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Top Treatment Approaches
| 64% | Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) |
| 44% | Psychodynamic Therapy |
| 42% | Acceptance & Commitment Therapy (ACT) |
| 40% | Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) |
| 38% | Internal Family Systems (IFS) |
| 36% | Relational Psychotherapy |
| 26% | Behavioral Therapy |
Ages Served
| 98% | Adult |
| 84% | Young Adult |
| 44% | Senior |
| 42% | Teen |
| 18% | Children |
Client Focus
| 58% | Women |
| 42% | LGBTQ+ |
| 34% | Men |
| 30% | Persons with Disabilities |
| 28% | Asian |