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Codependency therapists in New York City, NY

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New York City, New York therapist: Susana Scotti, Journey Psychotherapy, psychologist
Codependency

Susana Scotti, Journey Psychotherapy

Psychologist, PhD
Struggling with codependency can leave you feeling emotionally exhausted, stuck in unhealthy relationship patterns, and unsure of your own needs or boundaries. You may find yourself prioritizing others at the expense of your well-being, feeling responsible for fixing or rescuing those around you, or experiencing guilt when you try to put yourself first. As a licensed psychologist with expertise in trauma, addiction, and mood disorders, I understand how codependent patterns often develop as a way to cope with past experiences and relational wounds. In therapy, we work together to uncover these underlying dynamics, build self-awareness, and strengthen your sense of identity and self-worth. My approach is compassionate, collaborative, and grounded in evidence-based practices. I help clients develop healthier boundaries, improve communication, and learn how to engage in relationships from a place of balance rather than obligation or fear. Whether codependency is connected to past trauma, substance use, or ongoing anxiety or depression, our work will focus on helping you create more fulfilling, stable, and authentic connections, starting with the relationship you have with yourself.  
13 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY (Online Only)
New York City, New York therapist: Dr. Erica Gardner-Schuster, psychologist
Codependency

Dr. Erica Gardner-Schuster

Psychologist, PhD
Are you struggling with codependency? If so, Group Therapy may help.  
16 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY (Online Only)
New York City, New York therapist: Dina Matic, psychologist
Codependency

Dina Matic

Psychologist, PhD
Healthy social connection is vital, but it’s equally important to cultivate inner strength and self-reliance. I work with clients struggling with codependency to build awareness, set boundaries, and develop a balanced sense of self, so they can engage in relationships from a place of confidence and resilience.  
16 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY (Online Only)
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New York City, New York therapist: Alexis Smith, pre-licensed professional
Codependency

Alexis Smith

Pre-Licensed Professional, MHC-LP
I help clients recognize and shift patterns of people-pleasing, difficulty setting boundaries, and over-reliance on others for validation that can leave relationships feeling draining or unbalanced. Together, we explore where these patterns come from and work on building stronger self-worth, emotional independence, and healthier ways of relating to others. My approach is supportive and practical, focused on helping you develop clear boundaries, trust your own needs, and create more secure, reciprocal relationships. The goal is to feel more grounded in yourself while building connections that are balanced, respectful, and genuinely fulfilling. If you’re ready to move toward healthier relationship patterns, I invite you to reach out or explore my profile to learn more.  
2 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY (Online Only)
Paramus, New Jersey therapist: Lauren Bradley, licensed clinical social worker
Codependency

Lauren Bradley

Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
Patterns of overgiving, people-pleasing, or losing yourself in relationships often develop for a reason—but they can become overwhelming over time. You might notice difficulty saying no, fear of conflict, or a strong need to keep others happy. In our work together, we’ll explore these patterns with curiosity and without judgment, while building the skills needed to feel more secure, confident, and grounded in your relationships.  
10 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY (Online Only)
New York City, New York therapist: Liberation Therapy, counselor/therapist
Codependency

Liberation Therapy

Counselor/Therapist, LMHC
Codependency often develops in people who learned early in life to take care of others, manage other people’s emotions, or keep the peace in order to feel safe or loved. As adults, this can look like over-giving, difficulty setting boundaries, anxiety in relationships, or losing yourself in other people’s needs. In therapy, we focus on boundaries, self-trust, and learning how to be in relationships without abandoning yourself.  
5 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY (Online Only)
New York City, New York therapist: Jamilet Calderon, licensed mental health counselor
Codependency

Jamilet Calderon

Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC-D
I provide actionable tools to help you break free from people-pleasing habits, untangle complex family expectations, and learn to prioritize your own needs guilt-free.  
14 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY (Online Only)
New York City, New York therapist: Dr. Stéphanie Gamache, PhD, hypnotherapist
Codependency

Dr. Stéphanie Gamache, PhD

Hypnotherapist, PhD
Codependency often reflects early relational patterns in which emotional needs, boundaries, and self-worth became entangled with the needs of others. My work integrates psychoanalytic exploration and somatic awareness to understand how these patterns continue to shape adult relationships. Together, we work toward greater emotional autonomy, clarity, and the capacity to remain connected to oneself while being close to others.  
7 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY (Online Only)
New York City, New York therapist: Nancy Burns, counselor/therapist
Codependency

Nancy Burns

Counselor/Therapist, JD, LMHC, LPC, MA, EMDR Certified
Do you have trouble setting boundaries with others? Do you find yourself taking care of everyone, leaving no time or energy left to care for yourself? Does your opinion of yourself shift based on what others think of you? I can help. Using a variety of mind - body approaches, we will non-judgmentally and with much compassion explore your patterns and help you build confidence in yourself, which will ultimately lead to you living an authentic life and better, more fulfilling relationships. - - - "Often a problem is like a knot with many strands, and looking at those strands can make the problem seem different." Fred Rogers  
6 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY (Online Only)
Brooklyn, New York therapist: Shayda Ewalt, marriage and family therapist
Codependency

Shayda Ewalt

Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
Codependency often develops as a survival strategy, especially for those who grew up needing to prioritize others' emotions or safety over their own. You may struggle with boundaries, guilt, people-pleasing, or losing yourself in relationships. In therapy, we explore where these patterns began, strengthen your sense of self, and build capacity for relationships rooted in mutual respect rather than self-abandonment.  
10 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY (Online Only)
New York City, New York therapist: Robert dos Santos Teixeira, licensed clinical social worker
Codependency

Robert dos Santos Teixeira

Licensed Clinical Social Worker, SMF, MPIA, MA, MSW, LCSW
A measure of codependency exists in ever kind or type of human relationship.  
22 Years Experience
In-Person in New York City, NY
Online in New York City, NY
New York City, New York therapist: Ebony Woney, licensed mental health counselor
Codependency

Ebony Woney

Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC
If you find yourself overextending, prioritizing others at the expense of yourself, or struggling to set boundaries, you may be experiencing patterns of codependency. I help clients understand the root of these patterns, reconnect with their own needs, and develop healthier, more balanced relationships. Healing is about learning that you can care for others without losing yourself.  
9 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY (Online Only)
New York City, New York therapist: Dr. Lyndsay Elliott, psychologist
Codependency

Dr. Lyndsay Elliott

Psychologist, PsyD.
Codependency often develops so gradually that most people don't recognize it until they are completely exhausted — emotionally drained by relationships that consistently prioritize everyone else's needs over their own. As a licensed clinical psychologist with 20+ years of experience, I help adults identify and break codependent relationship patterns, rebuild healthy boundaries, and develop a stronger, more secure sense of self. Using cognitive-behavioral therapy, psychodynamic insight, and trauma-informed care, I work with clients to untangle the deep-rooted beliefs driving codependent behavior and build genuinely healthier relationships. Telehealth therapy for codependency available across 40+ states.  
21 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY (Online Only)
New York City, New York therapist: Avena Psychological Services, psychologist
Codependency

Avena Psychological Services

Psychologist, PsyD, PhD, LCSW, LMHC, LMSW, MHC-LP
Treating codependency is a journey towards reclaiming your sense of self and fostering healthier, more balanced relationships. With a compassionate and insightful approach, the therapists at Avena Psychological Services will guide you through exploring the roots of your codependent patterns and uncovering the ways they impact your life. Utilizing a combination of therapeutic approaches, our therapists will help you rewrite your personal narrative, challenge limiting beliefs, and establish firm, healthy boundaries. Through this process, you will develop a stronger sense of self-worth and independence, learning to nurture relationships based on mutual respect rather than dependency. Together, we will work to transform your patterns of behavior, empowering you to build more fulfilling connections and embrace a life where you are truly at the center of your own story.  
11 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY (Online Only)
Philadelphia, Pennsylvania therapist: Valerie Rosen, psychologist
Codependency

Valerie Rosen

Psychologist, Ph.D.
Codependency is a term that comes from treatment of addiction. It describes a person who sacrifices their own needs to try to fix or rescue a troubled partner or other important person in their life. As a relational therapist, I work with all kinds of relationship dynamics, including codependency. It's one way that people experience unhealthy boundaries in their relationships with other people, and you may be vulnerable to it if there were unhealthy patterns in your family of origin. We can work to understand where it comes from, what maintains it (what you get from it), and how to change it.  
14 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY (Online Only)
Scarsdale, New York therapist: Michael Nakhla, psychiatrist
Codependency

Michael Nakhla

Psychiatrist, MD
Codependency patterns often develop as survival strategies but ultimately prevent authentic connection and self-fulfillment. I help clients identify and transform unhealthy relationship dynamics, establishing boundaries and rediscovering their own needs and identity. Through our work together, you'll develop the skills to maintain healthy interdependence while honoring your own values and well-being.  
9 Years Experience
In-Person in New York City, NY
Online in New York City, NY
New York City, New York therapist: Nicole DeMarco, licensed clinical social worker
Codependency

Nicole DeMarco

Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
I help adults struggling with codependency to strengthen boundaries, reconnect with their own needs, and develop more secure relationships.  
7 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY (Online Only)
Brooklyn, New York therapist: Nadira Jackson - TherapyWithDira, licensed mental health counselor
Codependency

Nadira Jackson - TherapyWithDira

Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC
If you often feel responsible for other people’s emotions or lose sight of your own needs in relationships, you may be struggling with codependent patterns. Together, we’ll explore where these dynamics began, what they protect, and how to create healthier boundaries that honor both connection and self-respect. My approach supports you in finding balance, learning to love others without abandoning yourself.  
5 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY (Online Only)
New York City, New York therapist: Denise Trainer, licensed clinical social worker
Codependency

Denise Trainer

Licensed Clinical Social Worker, M.A., L.C.S.W., NCPsyA
Many people develop codependent relationships without being aware of the unique dynamics behind codependency. Together we would explore childhood experiences which play a role in developing codependent relationships.  
34 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY (Online Only)
Los Angeles, California therapist: Forest Williams, life coach
Codependency

Forest Williams

Life Coach, ICF
Take the charge out of giving and receiving boundaries. What if boundaries weren't barriers, but bridges for connection?  
7 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY (Online Only)
New York City has one of the largest and most diverse therapy communities in the world, with practitioners representing virtually every therapeutic modality, cultural background, and specialty area. The city's pace, density, and cost of living generate pervasive anxiety and burnout, while its diverse boroughs mean therapists fluent in dozens of languages serve communities from every corner of the globe. Columbia University Irving Medical Center, NYU Langone Health, and Weill Cornell Medicine anchor an extensive academic mental health infrastructure, supplemented by thousands of independent practitioners across Manhattan, Brooklyn, Queens, the Bronx, and Staten Island. New York's therapy culture is deeply embedded — many residents maintain years-long therapeutic relationships and consider finding the right therapist one of the more important decisions they make.

Codependency therapists in New York City, NY Statistics

Codependency therapists in New York City, NY average 16 years of experience and charge around $190 per session. 98% offer online sessions. The top treatment approaches are Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) (59%), Psychodynamic Therapy (46%), and Person-Centered Therapy (Rogerian) (42%).

Average years in practice

16 Years Experience

Average cost per session

$190

Accept insurance

51%

Offer sliding scale

68%

Gender ID

61% Female
28% Male
8% Non-Binary
3% Gender Fluid

Session Type

55% In Person and Online
43% Online Only
2% In Person Only

Top Treatment Approaches

59% Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
46% Psychodynamic Therapy
42% Person-Centered Therapy (Rogerian)
39% Somatic Therapy
37% Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)
33% Interpersonal Therapy (IPT)
32% Behavioral Therapy

Ages Served

100% Adult
69% Young Adult
65% Senior
39% Teen
24% Children

Client Focus

72% Women
59% Men
54% LGBTQ+
44% Hispanic / Latino
40% Black / African American

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