Codependency therapists in New York City, NY
Browse Codependency therapists in New York City, New York. Compare credentials, specialties and therapeutic approach. Contact a therapist to learn more.
Susana Scotti, Journey Psychotherapy
Psychologist, PhD
Struggling with codependency can leave you feeling emotionally exhausted, stuck in unhealthy relationship patterns, and unsure of your own needs or boundaries. You may find yourself prioritizing others at the expense of your well-being, feeling responsible for fixing or rescuing those around you, or experiencing guilt when you try to put yourself first. As a licensed psychologist with expertise in trauma, addiction, and mood disorders, I understand how codependent patterns often develop as a way to cope with past experiences and relational wounds. In therapy, we work together to uncover these underlying dynamics, build self-awareness, and strengthen your sense of identity and self-worth.
My approach is compassionate, collaborative, and grounded in evidence-based practices. I help clients develop healthier boundaries, improve communication, and learn how to engage in relationships from a place of balance rather than obligation or fear. Whether codependency is connected to past trauma, substance use, or ongoing anxiety or depression, our work will focus on helping you create more fulfilling, stable, and authentic connections, starting with the relationship you have with yourself.
13 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY (Online Only)
Dr. Erica Gardner-Schuster
Psychologist, PhD
Are you struggling with codependency? If so, Group Therapy may help.
16 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY (Online Only)
Dina Matic
Psychologist, PhD
Healthy social connection is vital, but it’s equally important to cultivate inner strength and self-reliance. I work with clients struggling with codependency to build awareness, set boundaries, and develop a balanced sense of self, so they can engage in relationships from a place of confidence and resilience.
16 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY (Online Only)
Alexis Smith
Pre-Licensed Professional, MHC-LP
I help clients recognize and shift patterns of people-pleasing, difficulty setting boundaries, and over-reliance on others for validation that can leave relationships feeling draining or unbalanced. Together, we explore where these patterns come from and work on building stronger self-worth, emotional independence, and healthier ways of relating to others. My approach is supportive and practical, focused on helping you develop clear boundaries, trust your own needs, and create more secure, reciprocal relationships. The goal is to feel more grounded in yourself while building connections that are balanced, respectful, and genuinely fulfilling. If you’re ready to move toward healthier relationship patterns, I invite you to reach out or explore my profile to learn more.
2 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY (Online Only)
Lauren Bradley
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
Patterns of overgiving, people-pleasing, or losing yourself in relationships often develop for a reason—but they can become overwhelming over time. You might notice difficulty saying no, fear of conflict, or a strong need to keep others happy. In our work together, we’ll explore these patterns with curiosity and without judgment, while building the skills needed to feel more secure, confident, and grounded in your relationships.
10 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY (Online Only)
Liberation Therapy
Counselor/Therapist, LMHC
Codependency often develops in people who learned early in life to take care of others, manage other people’s emotions, or keep the peace in order to feel safe or loved. As adults, this can look like over-giving, difficulty setting boundaries, anxiety in relationships, or losing yourself in other people’s needs. In therapy, we focus on boundaries, self-trust, and learning how to be in relationships without abandoning yourself.
5 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY (Online Only)
Jamilet Calderon
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC-D
I provide actionable tools to help you break free from people-pleasing habits, untangle complex family expectations, and learn to prioritize your own needs guilt-free.
14 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY (Online Only)
Dr. Stéphanie Gamache, PhD
Hypnotherapist, PhD
Codependency often reflects early relational patterns in which emotional needs, boundaries, and self-worth became entangled with the needs of others. My work integrates psychoanalytic exploration and somatic awareness to understand how these patterns continue to shape adult relationships. Together, we work toward greater emotional autonomy, clarity, and the capacity to remain connected to oneself while being close to others.
7 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY (Online Only)
Nancy Burns
Counselor/Therapist, JD, LMHC, LPC, MA, EMDR Certified
Do you have trouble setting boundaries with others? Do you find yourself taking care of everyone, leaving no time or energy left to care for yourself? Does your opinion of yourself shift based on what others think of you? I can help. Using a variety of mind - body approaches, we will non-judgmentally and with much compassion explore your patterns and help you build confidence in yourself, which will ultimately lead to you living an authentic life and better, more fulfilling relationships. - - - "Often a problem is like a knot with many strands, and looking at those strands can make the problem seem different." Fred Rogers
6 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY (Online Only)
Shayda Ewalt
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
Codependency often develops as a survival strategy, especially for those who grew up needing to prioritize others' emotions or safety over their own. You may struggle with boundaries, guilt, people-pleasing, or losing yourself in relationships. In therapy, we explore where these patterns began, strengthen your sense of self, and build capacity for relationships rooted in mutual respect rather than self-abandonment.
10 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY (Online Only)
Robert dos Santos Teixeira
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, SMF, MPIA, MA, MSW, LCSW
A measure of codependency exists in ever kind or type of human relationship.
22 Years Experience
In-Person in New York City, NY
Online in New York City, NY
Ebony Woney
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC
If you find yourself overextending, prioritizing others at the expense of yourself, or struggling to set boundaries, you may be experiencing patterns of codependency. I help clients understand the root of these patterns, reconnect with their own needs, and develop healthier, more balanced relationships. Healing is about learning that you can care for others without losing yourself.
9 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY (Online Only)
Dr. Lyndsay Elliott
Psychologist, PsyD.
Codependency often develops so gradually that most people don't recognize it until they are completely exhausted — emotionally drained by relationships that consistently prioritize everyone else's needs over their own. As a licensed clinical psychologist with 20+ years of experience, I help adults identify and break codependent relationship patterns, rebuild healthy boundaries, and develop a stronger, more secure sense of self. Using cognitive-behavioral therapy, psychodynamic insight, and trauma-informed care, I work with clients to untangle the deep-rooted beliefs driving codependent behavior and build genuinely healthier relationships. Telehealth therapy for codependency available across 40+ states.
21 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY (Online Only)
Avena Psychological Services
Psychologist, PsyD, PhD, LCSW, LMHC, LMSW, MHC-LP
Treating codependency is a journey towards reclaiming your sense of self and fostering healthier, more balanced relationships. With a compassionate and insightful approach, the therapists at Avena Psychological Services will guide you through exploring the roots of your codependent patterns and uncovering the ways they impact your life. Utilizing a combination of therapeutic approaches, our therapists will help you rewrite your personal narrative, challenge limiting beliefs, and establish firm, healthy boundaries. Through this process, you will develop a stronger sense of self-worth and independence, learning to nurture relationships based on mutual respect rather than dependency. Together, we will work to transform your patterns of behavior, empowering you to build more fulfilling connections and embrace a life where you are truly at the center of your own story.
11 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY (Online Only)
Valerie Rosen
Psychologist, Ph.D.
Codependency is a term that comes from treatment of addiction. It describes a person who sacrifices their own needs to try to fix or rescue a troubled partner or other important person in their life. As a relational therapist, I work with all kinds of relationship dynamics, including codependency. It's one way that people experience unhealthy boundaries in their relationships with other people, and you may be vulnerable to it if there were unhealthy patterns in your family of origin. We can work to understand where it comes from, what maintains it (what you get from it), and how to change it.
14 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY (Online Only)
Michael Nakhla
Psychiatrist, MD
Codependency patterns often develop as survival strategies but ultimately prevent authentic connection and self-fulfillment. I help clients identify and transform unhealthy relationship dynamics, establishing boundaries and rediscovering their own needs and identity. Through our work together, you'll develop the skills to maintain healthy interdependence while honoring your own values and well-being.
9 Years Experience
In-Person in New York City, NY
Online in New York City, NY
Nicole DeMarco
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
I help adults struggling with codependency to strengthen boundaries, reconnect with their own needs, and develop more secure relationships.
7 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY (Online Only)
Nadira Jackson - TherapyWithDira
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC
If you often feel responsible for other people’s emotions or lose sight of your own needs in relationships, you may be struggling with codependent patterns. Together, we’ll explore where these dynamics began, what they protect, and how to create healthier boundaries that honor both connection and self-respect. My approach supports you in finding balance, learning to love others without abandoning yourself.
5 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY (Online Only)
Denise Trainer
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, M.A., L.C.S.W., NCPsyA
Many people develop codependent relationships without being aware of the unique dynamics behind codependency. Together we would explore childhood experiences which play a role in developing codependent relationships.
34 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY (Online Only)
Forest Williams
Life Coach, ICF
Take the charge out of giving and receiving boundaries. What if boundaries weren't barriers, but bridges for connection?
7 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY (Online Only)
New York City has one of the largest and most diverse therapy communities in the world, with practitioners representing virtually every therapeutic modality, cultural background, and specialty area. The city's pace, density, and cost of living generate pervasive anxiety and burnout, while its diverse boroughs mean therapists fluent in dozens of languages serve communities from every corner of the globe. Columbia University Irving Medical Center, NYU Langone Health, and Weill Cornell Medicine anchor an extensive academic mental health infrastructure, supplemented by thousands of independent practitioners across Manhattan, Brooklyn, Queens, the Bronx, and Staten Island. New York's therapy culture is deeply embedded — many residents maintain years-long therapeutic relationships and consider finding the right therapist one of the more important decisions they make.
Codependency therapists in New York City, NY Statistics
Codependency therapists in New York City, NY average 16 years of experience and charge around $190 per session. 98% offer online sessions. The top treatment approaches are Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) (59%), Psychodynamic Therapy (46%), and Person-Centered Therapy (Rogerian) (42%).
Average years in practice
16 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$190
Accept insurance
51%
Offer sliding scale
68%
Gender ID
| 61% |
Female |
|
| 28% |
Male |
|
| 8% |
Non-Binary |
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| 3% |
Gender Fluid |
|
Session Type
| 55% |
In Person and Online |
|
| 43% |
Online Only |
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| 2% |
In Person Only |
|
Top Treatment Approaches
| 59% | Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) |
| 46% | Psychodynamic Therapy |
| 42% | Person-Centered Therapy (Rogerian) |
| 39% | Somatic Therapy |
| 37% | Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) |
| 33% | Interpersonal Therapy (IPT) |
| 32% | Behavioral Therapy |
Ages Served
| 100% | Adult |
| 69% | Young Adult |
| 65% | Senior |
| 39% | Teen |
| 24% | Children |
Client Focus
| 72% | Women |
| 59% | Men |
| 54% | LGBTQ+ |
| 44% | Hispanic / Latino |
| 40% | Black / African American |