Codependency therapists in Lawton, OK
Browse Codependency therapists in Lawton, Oklahoma. Compare credentials, specialties and therapeutic approach. Contact a therapist to learn more.
Dr. Elizabeth Coldren
Psychologist, PSYD, PSYPACT
I work with young adults and adults who have learned to orient themselves around other people’s needs, emotions, or expectations at the expense of their own. This can look like being the reliable one, the steady one, the person others turn to, while privately feeling depleted, unseen, or unsure where your own preferences begin. Many people I see have spent years managing relationships, smoothing conflict, or carrying more than their share because it felt safer than disappointing someone or risking disconnection.
Codependent patterns often develop in situations where you had to stay attuned to others to keep the peace, where your worth was tied to being helpful or accommodating, or where expressing your own needs led to tension, withdrawal, or criticism. Over time, this can make it hard to trust your internal signals, set boundaries without guilt, or believe that your needs matter as much as anyone else’s.
In our work together, we look at how these patterns formed, what they have protected you from, and how they show up in your relationships today. We make space for the part of you that learned to stay small, agreeable, or over responsible in order to feel safe, and for the part of you that is tired of doing so much emotional labor. From there, we explore what it means to move through relationships with more clarity, self‑respect, and choice, without abandoning the parts of you that have worked so hard to keep things stable. Supporting people who have organized themselves around others for a long time is central to my practice, and I have deep respect for how much you have carried.
26 Years Experience
Online in Lawton, OK
Dr. Joe Rustum
Psychologist, PsyD, License Psychologist
You may find yourself focusing heavily on others’ needs, feeling responsible for how they feel, or having a hard time saying no. This can lead to overextending yourself, resentment, or feeling like your own needs get pushed aside.
Our work focuses on helping you understand these patterns and begin shifting them in a way that feels realistic and sustainable. You’ll build clearer boundaries, strengthen your sense of self, and make decisions that better reflect what you actually want.
The goal is to help you create more balanced relationships, feel more confident in your choices, and show up in a way that feels healthier and more consistent over time.
9 Years Experience
Online in Lawton, OK
Authentic Counseling Services- Richard Turnham
Counselor/Therapist, LPC-S, LADC-S
Despite what people might say, we all care about what other's think about us. An issue arises when we lack internal sources of self-worth and search outside of ourselves to find worth. We rely on others to make us feel "good" or find ourselves trapped in a relationship with someone else that relies on us to make them feel good. Either way the result is an emotionally draining, unfulfilling relationship filled with resentments. I'd love to help you work through this.
17 Years Experience
Online in Lawton, OK
Fusion Behavioral Health, LLC
Licensed Clinical Social Worker
Assessments and treatment for teens and adults, in person or telehealth, several in person and telehealth therapists available
12 Years Experience
Online in Lawton, OK
Kelsey Ellis
Psychologist, Ph.D., LCP
Codependent patterns often develop from a deep sensitivity to others and a strong desire to maintain connection. Over time, this can lead to prioritizing others’ needs while losing sight of your own boundaries or identity. Many women find themselves over-giving, people-pleasing, or feeling responsible for others’ emotions. In our work together, we focus on understanding how these patterns formed, strengthening your sense of self, and building ways of relating that allow for connection without self-sacrifice.
2 Years Experience
Online in Lawton, OK (Online Only)
Codependency therapists in Lawton, OK Statistics
Codependency therapists in Lawton, OK average 17 years of experience and charge around $206 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The top treatment approaches are Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) (60%), Person-Centered Therapy (Rogerian) (46%), and Psychodynamic Therapy (41%).
Average years in practice
17 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$206
Accept insurance
41%
Offer sliding scale
49%
Gender ID
| 56% |
Female |
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| 39% |
Male |
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| 4% |
Non-Binary |
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| 1% |
Gender Fluid |
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Session Type
| 52% |
Online Only |
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| 48% |
In Person and Online |
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Top Treatment Approaches
| 60% | Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) |
| 46% | Person-Centered Therapy (Rogerian) |
| 41% | Psychodynamic Therapy |
| 38% | Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) |
| 37% | Acceptance & Commitment Therapy (ACT) |
| 37% | Existential / Humanistic Therapy |
| 32% | Family Systems Therapy |
Ages Served
| 97% | Adult |
| 70% | Young Adult |
| 59% | Senior |
| 37% | Teen |
| 14% | Children |
Client Focus
| 65% | Women |
| 52% | Men |
| 48% | LGBTQ+ |
| 37% | Military / Veterans |
| 33% | Hispanic / Latino |