Perfectionism therapists in Oklahoma City, OK
Browse Perfectionism therapists in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma. Compare credentials, specialties and therapeutic approach. Contact a therapist to learn more.
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Devon Davasher
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW, CCM, CFSW, Master ART Practitioner
I help adults who feel trapped by pressure, overthinking, self-criticism, and the constant sense that nothing they do is ever good enough. Therapy can help you loosen rigid standards, reduce shame, and build a healthier way of relating to yourself, your work, and your goals.
13 Years Experience
Online in Oklahoma City, OK (Online Only)
Alyssa Smyth
Psychologist, PhD
If you hold yourself to very high standards yet rarely feel satisfied with your efforts, perfectionism may be driving constant pressure beneath the surface. While striving for excellence can be a strength, perfectionism often brings self-criticism, worry about mistakes, and difficulty slowing down. Therapy focuses on understanding these patterns and developing healthier ways to pursue high standards without the chronic strain.
6 Years Experience
Online in Oklahoma City, OK
Michael Brustein
Psychologist, Psy.D
I have spent an extensive amount of time researching, writing and working with patients with perfectionism. I am aware and address the many challenges perfectionists face when entering therapy. In general, perfectionists may be prone to terminating therapy prematurely. For example, a self-oriented perfectionist may interpret seeking help as though they are flawed and end the relationships quickly. Socially oriented perfectionists may want to please their therapist and thus not reveal thoughts and feelings and feel dissatisfied with the therapy process. By discussing the therapy relationship and monitoring thoughts and feelings throughout the process premature termination can be avoided. Through the therapy relationship perfectionists may also develop and internalize new coping skills to manage expectations. For example, new relationship experiences that occur in the therapy relationship (ex: expressing needs or being vulnerable) may generalize to other social settings. Other oriented perfectionists who can learn to accept the imperfections of their therapist can learn to possibly be more tolerant of others.
I also work with perfectionist patients on learning to manage anxiety regarding expectations and teach self-acceptance and compassion skills using mindfulness and Buddhist influenced interventions. I also help perfectionists identify and manage maladaptive cognitions and patterns that lead to distress. I help perfectionists develop more balanced thinking. I help teach self-oriented perfectionists how to set boundaries and say “no” to others. Many perfectionists, particularly self-oriented perfectionists are reluctant to let go of expectations fearing this will impair performance. Managing perfectionism however, does not necessarily mean desiring less, but changing one’s relationship and response to when expectations are not met.
22 Years Experience
Online in Oklahoma City, OK (Online Only)
Vickie Bhatia
Psychologist, Ph.D.
Perfectionism can often look like a good thing from the outside, but feel like a trap from the inside. Maybe that shows up as the inability to finish something because it's not good enough, maybe it's the exhausting internal critic that never seems to shut up, or maybe it's the fear that resting means falling behind. I help clients loosen perfectionism's grip without losing the drive and standards that matter to them.
10 Years Experience
Online in Oklahoma City, OK
Arianna Place, Somatic, Nature-Based, EMDR
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC-C
Maybe you were parentified as a child, or you were the "golden child" who did everything right. Maybe you were praised for high achievement, but now you're facing burnout and wondering how you got here. Together we'll discover the roots of perfectionism, how it has protected you, and learn ways to invite yourself into more ease.
2 Years Experience
Online in Oklahoma City, OK
Perfectionism therapists in Oklahoma City, OK Statistics
Perfectionism therapists in Oklahoma City, OK average 14 years of experience and charge around $209 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The top treatment approaches are Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) (81%), Acceptance & Commitment Therapy (ACT) (58%), and Existential / Humanistic Therapy (35%).
Average years in practice
14 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$209
Accept insurance
40%
Offer sliding scale
29%
Gender ID
| 69% |
Female |
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| 25% |
Male |
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| 4% |
Gender Fluid |
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| 2% |
Non-Binary |
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Session Type
| 56% |
In Person and Online |
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| 44% |
Online Only |
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Top Treatment Approaches
| 81% | Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) |
| 58% | Acceptance & Commitment Therapy (ACT) |
| 35% | Existential / Humanistic Therapy |
| 33% | Person-Centered Therapy (Rogerian) |
| 31% | Psychodynamic Therapy |
| 29% | Motivational Interviewing (MI) |
| 27% | Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) |
Ages Served
| 98% | Adult |
| 73% | Young Adult |
| 40% | Senior |
| 35% | Teen |
| 10% | Children |
Client Focus
| 46% | Women |
| 35% | LGBTQ+ |
| 23% | Men |
| 19% | Asian |
| 19% | Military / Veterans |