Perfectionism therapists in Murfreesboro, TN
Browse Perfectionism therapists in Murfreesboro, Tennessee. Compare credentials, specialties and therapeutic approach. Contact a therapist to learn more.
Perfectionism
Becca Edwards
Therapist, LMSW, Ed.S., M.ed
Perfectionism can look like achievement on the outside while feeling like constant pressure on the inside. I work with clients who struggle with unrealistic expectations, self-criticism, fear of failure, or feeling that they are never doing enough. Therapy can help create more space for self-compassion, flexibility, and being human.
4 Years Experience
In-Person Near Murfreesboro, TN
Online in Murfreesboro, TN
Perfectionism
Patricia McGuire
Counselor/Therapist, LPC-MHSP, NCC
That pesky, exacting standard that seems to never leave us alone. Together, we will dismantle and challenge perfectionism to help you find freedom.
11 Years Experience
In-Person Near Murfreesboro, TN
Online in Murfreesboro, TN
Perfectionism
Emily Stone
Marriage and Family Therapist, MA, MDiv, PhD, LMFT-S
Perfectionism: The High Cost of Being "Flawless"
Moving from Performance to Presence
Perfectionism is often rewarded by society, but internally, it can feel like a relentless taskmaster. It is the persistent whisper that says you are only as good as your last achievement, leading to a life of high-functioning burnout and a profound disconnection from your true self. In my practice, we don’t just "lower your standards"; we investigate the attachment roots of why "being perfect" became your primary strategy for safety and belonging.
The Perfectionist’s Paradox
Perfectionism isn't actually about excellence—it’s about protection. We work together to untangle:
The Procrastination Loop: Addressing the "all-or-nothing" thinking that leads to demand avoidance and paralyzing anxiety when a task feels too important to start.
Rejection Sensitivity: Understanding how the fear of a "flaw" is actually a fear of disconnection. If you aren't perfect, will you still be worthy of love and respect?
The "Shame-Vigilance" Cycle: The exhausting effort of "masking" your struggles to maintain a composed exterior, leading to a systemic shut down.
A Systems-Rooted Clinical Approach
With over 20 years of experience, I use a deep-reaching framework to help you trade "perfection" for "wholeness":
IFS-Informed Parts Work: We get curious about the "Perfectionist Part" of your system. This part likely took on its job very early to protect you from criticism or instability. We work to help this part feel safe enough to finally rest.
EMDR for Performance Anxiety: We use EMDR to process past memories of "failure" or moments where your worth was tied to your performance, neutralizing the triggers that fuel today's perfectionism.
Somatic Regulation: We learn to recognize the physical tension of "trying too hard" and use grounding tools to expand your Window of Tolerance, allowing you to be present even when things are messy.
For the "Professional" Perfectionists
As someone who works extensively with therapists, pastors, and professors, I understand the unique pressure of having to be a "model" of wellness or wisdom. I provide a confidential, courageous space where you can drop the "expert" mask and explore the messy, beautiful reality of being human.
21 Years Experience
Online in Murfreesboro, TN (Online Only)
Perfectionism
Lauren Chavis
Psychologist, PsyD, PMH-C
Perfectionism often looks successful from the outside while feeling exhausting on the inside. You may set incredibly high standards for yourself, struggle with mistakes, overthink decisions, or feel that what you accomplish is never quite enough. Therapy can help you loosen these patterns without giving up the ambition and values that are important to you.
16 Years Experience
Online in Murfreesboro, TN
Perfectionism
Chasity Goddard
Marriage and Family Therapist, AMFT
At the heart of perfectionism is self-doubt. The remedy is self-love and acceptance. I use AAIT to help you heal from those traumas that created your desire for perfection and the task paralysis that keeps you from achieving your goals.
1 Years Experience
Online in Murfreesboro, TN (Online Only)
Murfreesboro is one of the fastest-growing cities in Tennessee, a Rutherford County suburb of Nashville that has attracted families and young professionals drawn by more affordable housing than Nashville offers, and Middle Tennessee State University (MTSU) brings a substantial student population that creates significant demand for young adult and academic mental health services. The city's rapid growth has outpaced the development of mental health infrastructure, and demand for private therapy has grown significantly as the population has expanded. Common therapy concerns include relocation and community-building stress, student and young adult mental health, relationship and family issues, and the anxiety of navigating a city in rapid and sometimes disorienting transformation. Vanderbilt Psychiatric Hospital and other Nashville-area resources are accessible to Murfreesboro residents for more intensive needs, and telehealth extends the reach of Nashville's larger therapy market.
Perfectionism therapists in Murfreesboro, TN Statistics
Perfectionism therapists in Murfreesboro, TN average 13 years of experience and charge around $219 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The top treatment approaches are Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) (82%), Acceptance & Commitment Therapy (ACT) (57%), and Existential / Humanistic Therapy (35%).
Average years in practice
13 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$219
Accept insurance
33%
Offer sliding scale
33%
Gender ID
| 73% |
Female |
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| 23% |
Male |
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| 2% |
Gender Fluid |
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| 2% |
Non-Binary |
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Session Type
| 55% |
In Person and Online |
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| 45% |
Online Only |
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Top Treatment Approaches
| 82% | Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) |
| 57% | Acceptance & Commitment Therapy (ACT) |
| 35% | Existential / Humanistic Therapy |
| 33% | Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) |
| 33% | Person-Centered Therapy (Rogerian) |
| 29% | Behavioral Therapy |
| 29% | Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) |
Ages Served
| 98% | Adult |
| 73% | Young Adult |
| 39% | Senior |
| 33% | Teen |
| 14% | Children |
Client Focus
| 47% | Women |
| 35% | LGBTQ+ |
| 27% | Men |
| 22% | Military / Veterans |
| 18% | Christian |