Online Infidelity therapists in San Martin, California CA
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Heidi Hartston
Psychologist, PhD
Infidelity creates deep pain, triggers trauma, breaks trust, and destabilizes a relationship and family. There can be heartbreak, guilt, mistrust and loss for all parties involved. Affair recovery involves re-committing to each other by first rebuilding trust, safety, accountability, and establishing good communication skills. A caring connection can be reestablished once the affair is behind you and each of you feel prioritized and listened to. I combine insightful, caring depth work with evidence based techniques that effectively free you from trauma and old patterns, and help you to reclaim a happy, secure relationship.
35 Years Experience
Online in San Martin, CA (Online Only)
Matthew Bishop
Marriage and Family Therapist, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Doctorate in Behavioral Health Leadership
After infidelity, couples face raw pain and uncertainty about whether to repair or part ways. I help partners talk honestly about the hurt, rebuild trust if possible, and clarify what they want for the relationship moving forward.
10 Years Experience
Online in San Martin, CA
Shirley Johnson,
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, CYT
After betrayal, couples often feel shattered. I provide structured, compassionate guidance to rebuild trust, process pain, and determine whether and how to repair the relationship with honesty.
11 Years Experience
Online in San Martin, CA (Online Only)
Dorit Saberi-Thrive Psychological Services
Psychologist, Ph.D, Diplomate-Academy of Cognitive Therapy; Trainer- Prolonged Exposure for PTSD- CTSA
Emotion focused as well Cognitive Behavior Therapy and Dialectical Behavior Therapy informed therapy
24 Years Experience
Online in San Martin, CA (Online Only)
Jennifer Warkentin
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
Infidelity can be one of the most cruel and painful experiences. I work with both betrayed partners and those who did the betraying to better understand how the cheating happened and then how to heal from it. We don't "move on" from infidelity but we can "move through" it and create stronger relationships.
18 Years Experience
Online in San Martin, CA (Online Only)
Chris Tickner
Marriage and Family Therapist, PhD, MFT
When one partner cheats, the other can be left in a world of confusion, terror, trauma, and anxiety. There are few things more difficult to overcome than infidelity. Sometimes it is the straw that breaks the camel's back. Other times it is the very thing that starts a process of healing and reunification. I work with couples every day who are trying to find their way back from betrayal. It is possible! It takes hard work though and dedication to the relationship. The person who cheated needs to do some very deep exploration of themselves to figure out why they strayed. They need to be to explain their behavior in a way that makes sense to their partner such that they can begin to forgive and trust again. This can take a long time. Couples therapy can really help to make this go much smoother and more quickly. Sometimes, out of the worst crisis, a new relationship emerges, one that is happier, more stable, more open, and more loving.
30 Years Experience
Online in San Martin, CA
Marina Edelman | TrueMe Counseling
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
We specialize in affair recovery, helping couples and individuals heal from betrayal and rebuild trust. Our structured approach supports accountability, clarity, and emotional repair.
20 Years Experience
Online in San Martin, CA
Allie Michie, MS
Marriage and Family Therapist, AMFT159347
Infidelity can shake the foundation of a relationship and bring up some of the most painful emotions a person can experience. Whether you're working through a betrayal as a couple or individually, I provide a space that holds the complexity of what happened without rushing toward a predetermined outcome. Healing looks different for everyone, and I follow your lead.
2 Years Experience
Online in San Martin, CA
Rising Pines Counseling Services
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW)
I work with individuals impacted by infidelity, helping them process betrayal, rebuild trust, and clarify next steps. Therapy supports emotional healing, boundary setting, and informed decision-making.
11 Years Experience
Online in San Martin, CA (Online Only)
J. Rosalyn Diehl
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, MA, LMHC, LPPC, LPC
Infidelity can leave you feeling betrayed, confused, and questioning both the relationship and yourself. Many women find themselves overthinking, struggling with trust, or wondering how to move forward. I provide a supportive space to process these experiences, rebuild self-worth, strengthen self-trust, and develop healthier relationship patterns so you can move forward with greater clarity and confidence.
12 Years Experience
Online in San Martin, CA (Online Only)
Jeanette Abney
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, SAP
I have many years of experience as it relates to working with individuals regarding infidelity issues.
27 Years Experience
Online in San Martin, CA
Monica M. Huston
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
Infidelity can be deeply painful and destabilizing for both individuals and relationships. I work with individuals and couples to understand the context in which it occurred, including unmet needs, patterns, and relational dynamics. Therapy focuses on processing the impact, rebuilding trust where possible, and creating a clearer path forward.
9 Years Experience
Online in San Martin, CA
Phillip McCulley
Marriage and Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CSAT
I work with individuals and couples dealing with the impact of infidelity, including situations where cheating is connected to sexual compulsivity or out of control sexual behavior. These experiences often bring intense emotions such as shock, anger, shame, grief, and confusion, and can leave both partners feeling unsure about what comes next.
In therapy, we focus on understanding what led to the infidelity and how compulsive sexual behavior may have played a role. This includes addressing patterns of secrecy, impulsivity, and emotional avoidance, while also helping the partner who was hurt process betrayal and regain a sense of stability and safety. I work with couples to slow the process down, create clearer boundaries, and begin rebuilding trust when repair is possible.
For some couples, therapy becomes a space to decide whether and how to continue the relationship. For others, it is about healing individually and establishing healthier patterns moving forward. My goal is to support honest accountability, emotional repair, and decision making that aligns with each person’s values and long term wellbeing.
22 Years Experience
Online in San Martin, CA
G. Roman Gupta, LCSW
Therapist, LCSW
I have been practicing for almost 20 years and I have a strength-based, trauma-informed, culturally aware, LGBTQ+ affirmative, sex positive, kink positive, poly affirming, feminist perspective. I have trained and practiced in a variety of treatment methods that offer us a variety of ways to meet your goals whether as an individual, couple, or family.
18 Years Experience
Online in San Martin, CA
Anat Sideman
Marriage and Family Therapist, JD, MA, LMFT
Discovering that your partner has been unfaithful can feel like the ultimate betrayal. An affair can trigger past injuries and set off a relationship war. Where children are involved, the escalation of conflict can devastate the entire family. Gone untreated, infidelity can damage the relationship irreparably. As your therapist, I can help support you by creating a safe space where you can be heard and begin to understand each other’s feelings and actions. Divorce is not inevitable. Insight, repair, healing, renewed intimacy and commitment are possible.
11 Years Experience
Online in San Martin, CA
San Francisco Counseling Collective
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPCC, LMFT, LCSW
At San Francisco Counseling Collective ("SFCC"), we help individuals and couples navigate the emotional impact of infidelity with care, honesty, and skill. Work may include processing betrayal, clarifying values and needs, and exploring paths to repair or redefine the relationship.
9 Years Experience
Online in San Martin, CA
Bonnie Rae
Marriage and Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Many years ago, I took a workshop with Esther Perel called the State of Affairs: A Clinical Approach to Infidelity Workshop. This helped inspire my work with infidelity, creating a shame and judgement free environment to explore infidelity and affairs with both couples and individuals.
14 Years Experience
Online in San Martin, CA
Barry Ross
Psychologist, Ph.D.
I am a psychologist, marriage family therapist, bioenergetic analyst, and psychoanalyst with more than 30 years of clinical experience in treating adolescents, adults, and marital couples. I am skilled in helping a person to feel understood and related to in a new and helpful way.
42 Years Experience
Online in San Martin, CA
Jennifer Pudlo Therapy & Wellness Consulting
Marriage and Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Infidelity can be one of the most painful experiences a couple faces, leaving both partners feeling overwhelmed by hurt, anger, grief, and uncertainty about the future. Using a compassionate, structured, and evidence-based approach, I help couples process the impact of betrayal, improve communication, rebuild trust, and better understand the patterns that contributed to the rupture. Whether your goal is to repair and strengthen your relationship or gain clarity about the path forward, I provide a safe, balanced space where healing and honest conversations can begin.
16 Years Experience
Online in San Martin, CA (Online Only)
Dr. Shawn V Giammattei
Psychologist, PhD
Infidelity has been an area we have been working with as long as we have worked with couples. We have been able to help partners navigate the betrayal and repair required to recover. This is true for polyamorous partners as well when there is a break of trust.
17 Years Experience
Online in San Martin, CA
Infidelity therapists in San Martin, California Statistics
Infidelity therapists in San Martin, California average 16 years of experience and charge around $211 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The most commonly treated issues are Infidelity (100%), Relationship and Marriage Counseling (85%), and Anxiety or Fears (77%).
Average years in practice
16 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$211
Gender ID
| 56% |
Female |
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| 37% |
Male |
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| 4% |
Non-Binary |
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| 3% |
Gender Fluid |
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Session Type
| 61% |
In Person and Online |
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| 39% |
Online Only |
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Top Specialties
| 100% | Infidelity |
| 85% | Relationship and Marriage Counseling |
| 77% | Anxiety or Fears |
| 73% | Divorce |
| 71% | Depression |
| 68% | Trauma and PTSD |
| 66% | Loss or Grief |