Online Codependency therapists in Orland Park, Illinois IL
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Dr. Megan Marks
Psychologist, PhD
You might be the one everyone leans on—always available, endlessly supportive, and quick to smooth things over. But underneath that strength, there’s a quiet exhaustion. Maybe you’ve spent so long tending to others that you’ve lost touch with your own voice. You may struggle to set boundaries, prioritize your own needs, or feel okay when someone else is upset. Maybe you define your worth through how much you give or help, but deep down, you’re craving space to just be… without performing, fixing, or proving.
At The Momentum Practice, I help clients untangle patterns of codependency that often start early—growing up in families where your worth was tied to being helpful, agreeable, or emotionally attuned to others. These patterns can show up in adult life in all kinds of relationships: romantic partnerships, friendships, caregiving roles, family systems, and even the workplace, where over-functioning often gets mistaken for excellence. You might find yourself constantly people-pleasing, second-guessing your instincts, or feeling panicked at the thought of being left behind. They can be especially layered for LGBTQ+ and neurodivergent folks who’ve had to mask parts of themselves to stay safe, loved, or accepted.
We’ll explore how these ways of relating helped you survive—and how they might be keeping you stuck now. Together, we’ll work on building boundaries that feel empowering (not selfish), tuning into your own needs and desires, and letting go of the belief that your value comes from how much you give. We’ll also look at how systemic pressures may have reinforced these patterns over time. Our work might include unlearning perfectionism, quieting the inner critic, and cultivating self-trust that isn’t tied to how much you do for others.
With over 15 years of experience, I offer a compassionate space to reconnect with your own voice and needs. You don’t have to keep disappearing in your relationships. Whether we’re working one-on-one or navigating these dynamics in couples therapy, you’ll have a space to explore what healthier, more mutual connection can look like. If you're ready to show up more fully for yourself and build connections that don’t come at the cost of your own well-being, I’d be honored to journey alongside you. Contact me for a free 15 minute consultation!
21 Years Experience
Online in Orland Park, IL
Jason Holland
Psychologist, Ph.D.
Codependency often involves over-functioning, people-pleasing, or feeling responsible for other people’s emotions and choices. We will sort through where these patterns came from, what they have cost you, and why they have been so hard to change. I help clients build healthier boundaries, stronger self-trust, and more balanced relationships that do not depend on guilt, fear, or over-responsibility.
25 Years Experience
Online in Orland Park, IL
Merrisa Dawn Santos
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, NCC, CCTMHP, CCTP
In helping patients struggling with codependency, I provide a supportive and nonjudgmental environment for them to explore their thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. Through therapy, we work together to identify patterns of codependent behavior and the underlying beliefs that drive them. I offer guidance and tools to help patients develop healthier coping mechanisms, set boundaries, and prioritize their own needs and well-being. Additionally, I provide education about healthy relationships and communication skills, empowering patients to cultivate more fulfilling connections with others while maintaining their sense of self. My goal is to support patients in breaking free from codependency, fostering self-compassion, and building a life based on authenticity, autonomy, and resilience.
5 Years Experience
Online in Orland Park, IL (Online Only)
Natalie A Shafer
Counselor/Therapist, MA, NCC, LPC
Codependency and enmeshment can gradually blur the boundaries between self and others, making it difficult to recognize your own needs, feelings, and identity. Over time, this can lead to a sense of losing yourself in relationships. We will work to explore these patterns, strengthen your sense of self, and create more balanced ways of relating that allow for both connection and individuality.
2 Years Experience
Online in Orland Park, IL
Nostos Psychotherapy
Psychologist, PsyD
We work from a relational perspective to help individuals find healthy boundaries and independence.
12 Years Experience
Online in Orland Park, IL
Dr. Elizabeth Coldren
Psychologist, PSYD, PSYPACT
I work with young adults and adults who have learned to orient themselves around other people’s needs, emotions, or expectations at the expense of their own. This can look like being the reliable one, the steady one, the person others turn to, while privately feeling depleted, unseen, or unsure where your own preferences begin. Many people I see have spent years managing relationships, smoothing conflict, or carrying more than their share because it felt safer than disappointing someone or risking disconnection.
Codependent patterns often develop in situations where you had to stay attuned to others to keep the peace, where your worth was tied to being helpful or accommodating, or where expressing your own needs led to tension, withdrawal, or criticism. Over time, this can make it hard to trust your internal signals, set boundaries without guilt, or believe that your needs matter as much as anyone else’s.
In our work together, we look at how these patterns formed, what they have protected you from, and how they show up in your relationships today. We make space for the part of you that learned to stay small, agreeable, or over responsible in order to feel safe, and for the part of you that is tired of doing so much emotional labor. From there, we explore what it means to move through relationships with more clarity, self‑respect, and choice, without abandoning the parts of you that have worked so hard to keep things stable. Supporting people who have organized themselves around others for a long time is central to my practice, and I have deep respect for how much you have carried.
26 Years Experience
Online in Orland Park, IL
Dr. Amanda Roberts
Psychologist, PhD Clinical Psychology, Masters in Marriage Family Therapy
Dr Roberts worked in the codependency-family program at Stanford drug and alcohol clinic on an inpatient and outpatient basis through all phases of recovery. She has a thorough understanding of the 12-step program and addictions and has helped hundreds of individuals in early, middle and late stages of recovery stay clean and sober.
41 Years Experience
Online in Orland Park, IL (Online Only)
Mind Lodge
Therapist, LCPC
Struggling with codependency can leave you feeling stuck. Our therapists work with clients to break unhealthy patterns, set boundaries, and build healthier relationships.
21 Years Experience
Online in Orland Park, IL
Peter Gould
Psychologist, Ph.D.
As a licensed clinical psychologist specializing in codependency, I provide compassionate and effective treatment for individuals involved in enmeshed relationships who seek to develop a stronger sense of self and establish healthier boundaries. My approach, informed by evidence-based therapies such as CBT and interpersonal therapy, is customized to address the unique needs of each individual.
22 Years Experience
Online in Orland Park, IL (Online Only)
Dr. Brittany Jacobson
Psychologist, PhD, CST
You may find yourself prioritizing others’ needs, emotions, or expectations at the expense of your own. Together, we explore the patterns that keep you overextended or disconnected from yourself, often rooted in early relationships or learned roles. I will help you honor your own needs and voice, develop clearer boundaries, and connect to others without abandoning yourself.
10 Years Experience
Online in Orland Park, IL
Cook Counseling and Consulting Inc.
Counselor/Therapist, LISW-S, LCSW-QS, CCTP
Codependency therapy, also known as codependency counseling or codependency treatment, is a specialized form of counseling that focuses on assisting individuals to break codependent patterns and develop healthier relationships and boundaries. Codependency is a dysfunctional and facilitating relationship pattern in which individuals place the demands and desires of others above their own.
The therapeutic approach for codependency can vary based on the individual's unique requirements, the severity of their codependency, and their treatment objectives. Individuals can break free from codependent patterns, develop healthier relationship skills, and improve their emotional well-being through therapy.
If codependency is significantly affecting your relationships and well-being, it is recommended that you seek the assistance of a qualified mental health professional with experience in codependency therapy in order to address your specific needs and work towards building healthier relationships and a more satisfying life.
9 Years Experience
Online in Orland Park, IL
Dr. Brian M. Berman
Psychologist, Psy.D.
I specialize in the treatment of codependency and utilize elements of self-compassion, communications skills and emotion focused therapy (EFT) to help clients improve boundary setting .
22 Years Experience
Online in Orland Park, IL
Salvadore Coaching LLC
Life Coach, Holistic Life Coach, Certified Breathwork Instructor, Certified Hypnotist
Codependency often begins as care, loyalty, or sensitivity—but over time it can become self-abandonment. And when you abandon yourself, you don’t actually protect the relationship—you weaken it.
Oftentimes, many people find themselves over-functioning, people-pleasing, managing another’s emotions, or staying in relationships that require them to shrink their needs in order to keep connection. The result is often a combination of anxiety, resentment, exhaustion, and a loss of clarity about what they actually want.
In our work together, we aim to de-escalate these patterns and explore what they’ve been protecting: perhaps a fear of conflict, abandonment, guilt, or the belief that love must be earned through sacrifice. We build practical skills for boundaries, self-trust, and direct communication, so you can stay connected without losing yourself. The goal is not to become “less caring,” but to create relationships that include you—relationships where care and reciprocity can coexist.
14 Years Experience
Online in Orland Park, IL
Margo Tirado MA LCPC
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LCPC
In my work with codependency, I help people see how the urge to over-give and put others first didn’t come out of nowhere. These patterns often begin early in life, when learning to be helpful, agreeable, or self-sacrificing felt like the safest way to stay connected. Over time, that can turn into setting your own needs aside and measuring your worth by how much you do for others. Therapy offers a compassionate space to slow this down, understand it, and begin responding to yourself with more honesty and care.
Drawing from my book - Own Your Voice, I help clients reconnect with their inner voice and create better boundaries. Together, we focus on noticing where you’ve been accepting too little, giving too much, or silencing yourself to keep the peace. As you learn to trust your voice and respect your limits, relationships start to feel less draining and more mutual—rooted in choice, self-respect, and real connection.
31 Years Experience
Online in Orland Park, IL
Mind Body Connections
Counselor/Therapist
As an underlying issue that so many individuals struggle with, education around this is imperative followed by psychoeducation around how to set healthy boundaries with others.
28 Years Experience
Online in Orland Park, IL
Eric Olsen
Life Coach, PTSD, Trauma Triage, BSc Social Sciences, DoD Career Councilor, SARC, DAPA, Pre Licensed Human Intelligence / Psychology, Life Coach. | Professional Support: LSSBB, PgM, Bluestone PMP,
We work through your codependency issues and behaviors and start to correct them.
17 Years Experience
Online in Orland Park, IL (Online Only)
Anthony S. Dillon
Licensed Professional Counselor, LCPC, CHt
Get help for codependency in the Chicago, IL area from experienced Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor Anthony S. Dillon. Anthony is a psychotherapist providing online and phone counseling for codependency, relationship and stressful interpersonal issues. Contact today for a free initial consultation.
30 Years Experience
Online in Orland Park, IL (Online Only)
Alicia Stalker-Gallichio LMFT
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, SAP
If you find yourself constantly prioritizing others' needs over your own, feeling responsible for other people's emotions or struggling to establish healthy boundaries, you are not alone. Codependency therapy is designed to help you break free from these patterns and cultivate a healthier more balanced approach to relationships.
21 Years Experience
Online in Orland Park, IL
Kelli Hall
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
I work with individuals who find themselves over-functioning or over-accommodating in relationships.
This often includes difficulty saying no, feeling responsible for others, or prioritizing others’ needs over your own.
Together, we focus on developing boundaries, clarifying needs, and building more balanced, authentic relationships.
13 Years Experience
Online in Orland Park, IL (Online Only)
Margaret Shouse
Counselor/Therapist, LPC
Codependency can be a very difficult thing to navigate. I want you to know that we will work through this together. There is nothing wrong with you and you are not broken. There is some warning signal going off that we need to pay attention to and work through together.
6 Years Experience
Online in Orland Park, IL
Codependency therapists in Orland Park, Illinois Statistics
Codependency therapists in Orland Park, Illinois average 18 years of experience and charge around $195 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The most commonly treated issues are Codependency (100%), Anxiety or Fears (91%), and Depression (83%).
Average years in practice
18 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$195
Gender ID
| 62% |
Female |
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| 31% |
Male |
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| 4% |
Non-Binary |
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| 3% |
Gender Fluid |
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Session Type
| 54% |
In Person and Online |
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| 46% |
Online Only |
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Top Specialties
| 100% | Codependency |
| 91% | Anxiety or Fears |
| 83% | Depression |
| 81% | Self Esteem |
| 72% | Stress |
| 67% | Loss or Grief |
| 63% | Social Anxiety |