Online Self Esteem therapists in Ireland
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Self Esteem
Mairead Cleary
Registered Psychotherapist, Masters in Gestalt Therapy
When our self-esteem is low it can feel like everyone else in the world is 'getting it' but us. To my mind, low self-esteem, self-judgement, shame and isolation all co-exist cosily together and create fertile ground for each other. Because self-judgement will undermine our self-esteem, and lead to us feeling ashamed of ourselves. This happy combination then naturally leads us to draw inwards, away from the gaze of the world around us, and into isolation where nobody can see how 'worthless' we are (or believe ourselves to be).
Addressing this inner critic or inner judge is one of the keys to reclaiming our self-esteem.
8 Years Experience
Online in Australia, Ireland, New Zealand
(Online Only)
Self Esteem
John Castleford
Registered Psychotherapist, MA, MIAEB, FRAI
Self esteem is a measure of your relationship with yourself.
I can help you redefine that relationship by reviewing your core values, personal expectations and influences on you and your current state, and by providing guidance on how to be kinder to yourself. If confidence levels are low, I can help with very simple but effective ways to help you regain previous levels of self-belief, particularly if underpinned by excessive dependence on negative perceptions
18 Years Experience
In-Person in Dereham, England
Online in Australia, Ireland, United Kingdom
Self Esteem
Aleksandra Pamphlett - Cert. Coach & Psychologist
Life Coach, MAC, MSc, BSc Hons,
Empowerment begins with embracing your unique worth. As a dedicated psychologist specializing in women's self-esteem, I'm here to guide you on a journey of self-discovery and confidence building. Together, we'll navigate the intricacies of self-esteem, address limiting beliefs, and develop personalized strategies to amplify your sense of self-worth. Whether you're seeking to break free from self-doubt, define your identity, or foster a positive self-image, our collaborative work aims to empower you on the path to embracing your authentic, empowered self.
12 Years Experience
Online in Germany, Ireland, United Kingdom
(Online Only)
Self Esteem
Lakis Elezoglou
Counselor/Therapist, Life Transitions & Feeling Stuck
The techniques I use and my personal experience of low self-esteem are essential to help you.
6 Years Experience
Online in Cyprus, Ireland, United Kingdom
(Online Only)
Self Esteem
Saffron Marriner
Counselor/Therapist, MBACP (Accred)
I work with clients regarding building self esteem both in a person centred way, feeling heard and validated, as well as at times using CBT in order to reframe thoughts in order to change feelings and work towards more empowering behaviours. These behaviours in turn encourage more supportive and compassionate self talk which enables the client to feel better about themselves.
22 Years Experience
In-Person in Christchurch, England BH23 3NE
Online in Ireland, United Kingdom
Self Esteem
Clive Rooney CLIVECARE
Registered Psychotherapist, BA (HONS) Psych, H Dip Psychsis, Bsc Counselling & Psychotherapy, MA Cognitive Behavioural therapy
People don't have low self esteem, we just fail to develop high self esteem! Learn through CBT to do what is right for you, as you see it according to your values and the life you want to live. Learn to base self respect on intrinsic worth and develop high self esteem.
12 Years Experience
Self Esteem
Sudeva Hawkes
Registered Psychotherapist, Registered Clinical Counsellor, B.Couns., MNCPS Accred. , PACFA Reg.
When things go wrong, it’s easy to blame yourself. With compassionate guidance, we’ll explore self-acceptance and honesty, helping you rebuild confidence and self-worth at your own pace.
29 Years Experience
Online in Australia, Ireland, United Kingdom
(Online Only)
Self Esteem
Louise Perry
Registered Psychotherapist, IFS UKCP HCCP
I work with adults who struggle with low self-esteem, including persistent self-doubt, harsh self-criticism, and a tendency to hold back in relationships or opportunities. Difficulties with self-esteem often develop over time in response to early experiences, expectations, and the roles people have learned to occupy.
My work draws on Integrative Art Psychotherapy and Internal Family Systems (IFS), offering ways to understand how these inner patterns are organised and what they may be protecting. Rather than trying to build confidence directly, the focus is on exploring how different parts relate to one another and how beliefs about self-worth have formed. Sessions may involve conversation, creative exploration, or a combination of both, depending on what feels most useful.
8 Years Experience
In-Person in London, England NW1 2PB
Online in Ireland, United Kingdom, Multiple States
Alabama, California, Connecticut, New York, Washington
Self Esteem
Kevin Martin
Counselor/Therapist, Psychotherapist Psychodynamic Analysis & Transactional Analysis, BACP, ITTA, EA
Self-esteem is your overall subjective evaluation of your worth, value, and competence. It reflects how much you respect, appreciate, and believe in yourself. While self-confidence relates specifically to your belief in your ability to succeed in a particular task or situation, self-esteem is a deeper, foundational sense of whether you feel worthy of happiness, love, and respect just as you are.
High vs Low Self-Esteem
Healthy Self-Esteem: Involves an accurate, balanced view of yourself. You recognise your strengths while accepting your flaws and limitations without harsh judgment. It allows you to bounce back from setbacks and set healthy boundaries.
Low Self-Esteem: Involves chronic self-doubt, harsh internal criticism, and a persistent belief that you are inadequate, unlovable, or a burden. People with low self-esteem often measure their worth entirely by external achievements, others' approval, or perfection.
Common Signs of Low Self-Esteem
Habitual Comparison: Constantly comparing yourself to others and always feeling like you fall short.
Fear of Failure & Rejection: Avoiding new challenges, social gatherings, or opportunities because you assume you will fail or that people won't like you.
Difficulty Accepting Praise: Downplaying compliments or attributing your successes to luck rather than your own skill and effort.
People-Pleasing: Prioritising everyone else's needs, opinions, and comfort over your own out of fear of conflict or rejection.
Internalised Blame: Automatically blaming yourself when things go wrong, even if it was outside of your control.
Where Does Self-Esteem Come From?
Self-esteem is shaped over a lifetime by early childhood experiences (such as parenting styles, family dynamics, and peer relationships), school or work environments, major life events, and ongoing internal self-talk. Because it is learned over time, you can also unlearn and rebuild it.
Cultivating Self-Compassion
Building healthier self-esteem isn't about forced positivity or pretending you are flawless; it is about developing self-compassion—treating yourself with the same kindness, understanding, and patience you would offer to a good friend when things get difficult.
Remember: Your worth is not up for negotiation, and it does not fluctuate based on your productivity, mistakes, or other people's opinions. You are inherently worthy of care and respect simply because you exist.
10 Years Experience
Online in Ireland, United Kingdom
(Online Only)
Self Esteem
Liam West
Registered Psychotherapist, MA, Adv Dip MBACP
Our sense of ourselves greatly impacts how we interact in the world and the type of experiences we have. Our views on ourselves does not have to be set in stone though and is something that can be continually improved and worked upon allowing us to begin to engage in the world in a much more satisfying and enjoyable way
13 Years Experience
Online in France, Ireland, United Kingdom
(Online Only)
Self Esteem
Kelly McAleer
Psychologist, Psy.D.
Self-esteem is often woven into many of the concerns I treat, including anxiety, depression, perfectionism, imposter syndrome, and difficult relationship patterns. I help clients understand the experiences and beliefs that have shaped how they see themselves, while developing a more stable sense of self-worth that is less dependent on achievement, approval, or meeting impossible standards.
17 Years Experience
Online in Ireland, United Kingdom, New York,
PSYPACT states
Alabama, Arizona, Arkansas, CNMI, Colorado, Connecticut, Delaware, Florida, Georgia, Idaho, Illinois, Indiana, Kansas, Kentucky, Maine, Maryland, Michigan, Minnesota, Mississippi, Missouri, Montana, Nebraska, Nevada, New Hampshire, New Jersey, North Carolina, North Dakota, Ohio, Oklahoma, Pennsylvania, Rhode Island, South Carolina, South Dakota, Tennessee, Texas, Utah, Vermont, Virginia, Washington, Washington, D.C., West Virginia, Wisconsin, Wyoming
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