Codependency therapists in Vacaville, California CA
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Julie Levin
Marriage and Family Therapist, MFT
My amazing therapist once told me that codependency is giving away the care you most long for in the hope that the person receiving it will reciprocate. We learn this strategy of connecting to others when being direct about our own needs made others feel burdened or annoyed or if they became a little more available if we took care of them in some way. Understanding this is the first step in healing. In therapy, we go deeper, really listening to what you most need and long for to feel nurtured and supported. We explore ways you can nurture yourself. And then, as you feel ready, we look at safe ways to be more direct in telling others what you need. This work isn't easy. It can feel risky to be honest about your real feelings and needs. It can feel scary to set boundaries when you don't have the energy or desire to care for others. But the freedom that comes with letting go of this old pattern feels so good. It lets you find the people who can engage in mutual relationships. More than that, it builds a deep sense of trust in yourself, knowing that you will always treat yourself with respect and care - because you matter to the one person who will always be with you - yourself.
27 Years Experience
In-Person Near Vacaville, CA
Online in Vacaville, CA California
Stephanie Brumfield
Therapist, LCSW
In my therapeutic practice, I address codependency as a complex interplay of emotional dynamics that often stems from deep-seated needs for approval, validation, and love. This pattern of behavior, while initially developed as a survival strategy in response to challenging relational environments, can lead to a loss of self-identity, boundary issues, and an overarching sense of dissatisfaction in one's relationships and personal life. Recognizing codependency as a sign of the soul's longing for genuine connection and self-realization, I offer a compassionate space for individuals to explore and understand these patterns, fostering a journey towards healing and autonomy.
The focus of our work together is on unraveling the layers of codependency, identifying its roots in past experiences, and understanding its impact on current relationships and self-perception. By cultivating self-awareness and self-compassion, clients are guided towards reclaiming their independence, establishing healthier boundaries, and developing a stronger sense of self-worth. This transformative process not only improves relationships with others but also deepens the connection to oneself, enabling a life lived with more authenticity and fulfillment.
Emphasizing the importance of personal growth and empowerment, my approach seeks to empower individuals to break free from the cycles of codependency, leading to a life marked by healthier relationships, emotional resilience, and a profound sense of inner freedom. Together, we work to create a future where one can engage in relationships not out of neediness or fear, but from a place of strength, wholeness, and genuine love.
8 Years Experience
Online in Vacaville, CA California (Online Only)
Mary Knoblock, DNH
Hypnotherapist, DNH, RTT Practitioner, Hypnotist, Holistic Naturopath Practitioner, Spiritual Counselor
I can help you work through codependency issues with a lot of different tools, specifically RTT, Emotion Code and many more.
11 Years Experience
Online in Vacaville, CA California (Online Only)
Victoria Miller
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
You're trying to make a loved one's life better but nothing seems to change. You're trying to have lasting friendships and relationships but things always seem off balance and a struggle. Without healthy boundaries eventually these relationships can go off the rails leaving you devastated and wondering "what did I do wrong?" I will help you understand how codependent patterns develop and how these patterns have transferred to other relationships. I will help you explore what it means to have healthy boundaries and help your relationships grow stronger, be more balanced, eventually helping you to feel less anxiety and stress.
20 Years Experience
In-Person Near Vacaville, CA
Online in Vacaville, CA California
Sandy Kong
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT 119380
Ever feel like your worth is attached to someone else's behavior? What they do or don't do for you? Or what you can or can't do for them? Codependency is when your sense of self-worth and identity starts to depend too much on someone else. Healthy relationships are mutually beneficial, providing love and support to both parties. Codependent relationships, on the other hand, are lopsided, casting one person in the role of constant caregiver. Over time, this dynamic can lead to emotional burnout, resentment, low self-esteem, and difficulty forming mutually healthy relationships. In a healthy relationship, both parties give and receive equally and are able to retain their own identity separate from the other person.
Codependency can start for many different reasons, often going back to your early life and the relationships you had growing up. For many people, codependency begins in childhood, particularly in environments marked by addiction, neglect, emotional volatility, or inconsistent caregiving. If you grew up in a home where one or both caregivers were emotionally unavailable, unpredictable, or overly dependent on you for support, you may have learned, consciously or not, that love and safety were earned by putting others’ needs before your own. Cultural messages, especially ones that tell you always to put others’ needs before your own, can also play a big role, especially for women. If you struggle with low self-esteem or have trouble setting boundaries, it can make you more likely to fall into codependent patterns in your relationships.
11 Years Experience
In-Person Near Vacaville, CA
Online in Vacaville, CA California
Dr. Rebecca Scott, Psy.D
Psychologist, Clinical Psychologist, Certified in Holistic Health
I can support learning ways to foster independence and break codependent patterns.
17 Years Experience
In-Person Near Vacaville, CA
Online in Vacaville, CA California
San Francisco Counseling Collective
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPCC, LMFT, LCSW
At San Francisco Counseling Collective ("SFCC"), when working with codependency issues, we help clients identify relational patterns rooted in overresponsibility, difficulty with boundaries, and self-sacrifice. Together we strengthen self-awareness, autonomy, and relational balance.
9 Years Experience
In-Person Near Vacaville, CA
Online in Vacaville, CA California
Nes Pinar Psychotherapy
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
I help clients untangle patterns of codependency by slowing down, getting curious, and reconnecting with their own needs, boundaries, and inner wisdom. Together, we explore the stories and survival strategies that once kept you safe but now keep you stuck, making space for more choice, agency, and self‑trust. My approach is warm, relational, and steady—supporting you as you practice new ways of relating that feel authentic, mutual, and sustainable.
15 Years Experience
In-Person Near Vacaville, CA
Online in Vacaville, CA California
Shohreh Schmuecker
Marriage and Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Struggling with Codependency? You're Not Alone.
Do you find yourself constantly putting others’ needs before your own, struggling with boundaries, or feeling responsible for other people's emotions? Codependency can quietly affect your relationships, self-esteem, and overall well-being, but healing is possible.
As a compassionate and experienced counselor, I offer a safe, nonjudgmental space to explore the patterns that keep you stuck. Together, we can work to support you in building healthier relationships, strengthen your sense of self, and help you reconnect with your own needs and desires.
Take the first step toward freedom and self-empowerment. Reach out today for a confidential consultation.
12 Years Experience
Online in Vacaville, CA California (Online Only)
LAH Therapy Services
Marriage and Family Therapist, Ph.D., LMFT, CAS, EMDR-2
Codependency as it relates to addiction especially. But codependency is also a relationship issue that I work with many different relationships and individuals in relationships.
37 Years Experience
Online in Vacaville, CA California (Online Only)
Codependency therapists in Vacaville, California Statistics
Codependency therapists in Vacaville, California average 15 years of experience and charge around $201 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The top treatment approaches are Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) (64%), Psychodynamic Therapy (48%), and Existential / Humanistic Therapy (44%).
Average years in practice
15 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$201
Accept insurance
34%
Offer sliding scale
57%
Gender ID
| 68% |
Female |
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| 26% |
Male |
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| 3% |
Non-Binary |
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| 3% |
Gender Fluid |
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Session Type
| 64% |
In Person and Online |
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| 36% |
Online Only |
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Top Treatment Approaches
| 64% | Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) |
| 48% | Psychodynamic Therapy |
| 44% | Existential / Humanistic Therapy |
| 41% | Person-Centered Therapy (Rogerian) |
| 39% | Somatic Therapy |
| 38% | Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) |
| 33% | Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT) |
Ages Served
| 96% | Adult |
| 61% | Young Adult |
| 58% | Senior |
| 53% | Teen |
| 24% | Children |
Client Focus
| 66% | Women |
| 51% | LGBTQ+ |
| 49% | Men |
| 33% | Christian |
| 32% | Hispanic / Latino |