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Denver, Colorado therapist: Margaret Graham, licensed professional counselor
Perfectionism

Margaret Graham

Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Perfectionism isn't actually about having high standards – it's about never feeling good enough no matter what you achieve. You set impossible bars, beat yourself up when you inevitably fall short, and exhaust yourself trying to control outcomes that aren't fully controllable. You might procrastinate because if you can't do something perfectly, why start? Or you might over-prepare to the point of diminishing returns, triple-checking work that was fine three versions ago. The anxiety underneath perfectionism is relentless: the fear of being exposed as inadequate, the worry that one mistake will unravel everything, the belief that your worth depends on flawless performance. I work with clients to understand where perfectionism took root (often it developed as a survival strategy in childhood), distinguish between healthy striving and self-punishing standards, and learn to tolerate the discomfort of "good enough." We'll explore what you're actually afraid will happen if you're not perfect, practice self-compassion when you mess up, and build tolerance for the vulnerability of being imperfect and still worthy. The goal isn't lowering your standards – it's unhooking your self-worth from impossible ones.  
13 Years Experience
Online in California, Colorado, Maryland (Online Only)
Grand Junction, Colorado therapist: Joanna Rogers, licensed clinical social worker
Perfectionism

Joanna Rogers

Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
I help moms challenge perfectionism and embrace a “good enough” mother.  
10 Years Experience
Online in Arizona, Colorado
Denver, Colorado therapist: Dr. Elizabeth Coldren, psychologist
Perfectionism

Dr. Elizabeth Coldren

Psychologist, PSYD, PSYPACT
I work with people who hold themselves to very high standards and feel the cost of that internally. Perfectionism can look like overworking, difficulty stopping, constant self‑criticism, or a sense that nothing is ever quite enough. It can also look like procrastination, avoidance, or shutting down when something feels too overwhelming or too important to get wrong. Many people I see are highly responsible and often successful on the outside, but feel tense, depleted, or quietly anxious much of the time. Perfectionism often develops as a way to stay safe, cope with unpredictability, or manage early experiences where being competent, careful, or invisible felt necessary. Over time, these strategies can become exhausting. You may notice that you rarely feel satisfied, that rest feels undeserved, or that you are harder on yourself than anyone else would ever be, even when you are doing your best. In our work together, we make space for the part of you that strives and the part of you that is tired of striving. Rather than forcing you to “let go” of high standards, we get curious about what perfectionism has been protecting and what it is costing you now. We pay attention to how perfectionism shows up in your body, thoughts, and relationships, and look for ways of relating to yourself that are still responsible and thoughtful but less punishing, so you can experience more ease, satisfaction, and permission to be human in your work, relationships, and inner life. Working with perfectionism is a central part of my practice, and I have deep respect for how hard you’ve been working to hold everything together.  
26 Years Experience
In-Person in Denver, CO 80205
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Denver, Colorado therapist: Sarah Malone, licensed professional counselor
Perfectionism

Sarah Malone

Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Perfectionism often hides behind high achievement, self-doubt or relentless inner criticism. It can feel like carrying a checklist that never ends and chasing impossible standards. I will work with you to break these cycles using evidence-based approaches like ACT and CBT, teaching practical strategies, setting realistic expectations and building strategies that will let you breathe, perform and enjoy life without feeling "not enough".  
25 Years Experience
Online in Colorado, Oklahoma (Online Only)
Arvada, Colorado therapist: Assessing Alternatives Counseling, licensed clinical social worker
Perfectionism

Assessing Alternatives Counseling

Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
AAC provides supportive, insight-oriented care for individuals struggling with perfectionism and high self-criticism. Treatment focuses on identifying rigid standards, reducing all-or-nothing thinking, and building more flexible, balanced expectations. Clinicians use evidence-based approaches such as CBT and self-compassion work to support sustainable change. The goal is to help clients reduce pressure, increase resilience, and feel more satisfied and confident in their daily lives.  
7 Years Experience
In-Person in Arvada, CO 80002
In-Person in Lakewood, CO 80227
Online in Colorado

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