Codependency therapists in Shirley, England
Browse Codependency therapists in Shirley, England, United Kingdom. Compare credentials, specialties and therapeutic approach. Contact a therapist to learn more.
Codependency
Ummayah Sidhu
Counsellor/Therapist, BACP Accredited Psychotherapist | Senior Clincal and Culturally Attuned Online Therapy
If you find yourself constantly fixing others at the expense of your own needs, we can work together to establish healthy boundaries. We will focus on discovering your own identity and building balanced, mutual relationships.
10 Years Experience
Online in Shirley, England (Online Only)
Codependency
Jonathan Livingstone Therapy & Coaching
Psychologist, MSc, MA, PGCE, GMBPsS
Every therapeutic problem will find an expression in the person's most significant relationship - that is, the relationship with the person's partner. Codependency is therefore an almost inevitable consequence of therapeutic problems in the individual. I will help you to resolve these problems by finding and resolving the causes of them in your past.
28 Years Experience
In-Person Near Shirley, ENG
Online in Shirley, England
Codependency
Mandy Randall-Gavin MBACP, UKATA
Counsellor/Therapist, BA Hons, Dip TA Prac: UKATA
If you are codependent, this can seep into every aspect of your life, not necessarily healthily. A codependent relationship can make you feel like you're giving everything of yourself, until there's nothing left to give. Many people don't realize they're in a codependent relationship cycle until the exhaustion and resentment issues become overwhelming and are too much to ignore. Even then, they may not recognize that codependency is the culprit. At its core, codependency means losing touch with your own needs while over-investing in the needs of others. Even if it feels familiar and comfortable, it's not a sustainable way to live.
14 Years Experience
Online in Shirley, England
Codependency
Kat Pachana-Pereira
Registered Psychotherapist, Integrative Therapist (CBT), Couples Therapist, EMDR Therapist
We will work on understanding causes of codependency and strengthening a sense of of self
9 Years Experience
Online in Shirley, England
Codependency
Kevin Martin
Counsellor/Therapist, Psychotherapist Psychodynamic Analysis & Transactional Analysis, BACP, ITTA, EA
Codependency in a Relationship (often mistyped as "codepemency nlurb") is a dynamic in which one person relies excessively on another for approval, identity, and self-worth—often prioritising their partner's needs, emotions, and problems over their own to a harmful degree.
Key Characteristics
Enmeshment & Poor Boundaries: Difficulty recognising where your emotions end and your partner's begin, leading to an inability to say "no."
Caretaking & Control: A compulsive need to fix, rescue, or control the partner's behaviour, often under the guise of helping.
Low Self-Esteem & Fear of Abandonment: Seeking constant validation from the partner while harbouring a deep fear of rejection or being left alone.
Self-Neglect: Suppressing personal desires, goals, and values to maintain peace or keep the relationship intact.
Breaking the Cycle
Develop Self-Awareness: Identify times when you sacrifice your well-being to manage your partner's state or behaviour.
Establish Clear Boundaries: Practice saying "no" to unreasonable demands and communicate personal limits clearly.
Reclaim Autonomy: Make time for individual hobbies, friendships, and goals outside the relationship.
10 Years Experience
Online in Shirley, England (Online Only)
Codependency therapists in Shirley, England Statistics
Codependency therapists in Shirley, England average 15 years of experience and charge around ¤129 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The top treatment approaches are Integrative Therapy (61%), Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) (51%), and Person-Centered Therapy (Rogerian) (51%).
Average years in practice
15 Years Experience
Average cost per session
¤129
Accept insurance
41%
Offer sliding scale
57%
Gender ID
| 71% |
Female |
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| 27% |
Male |
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| 2% |
Non-Binary |
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Session Type
| 67% |
In Person and Online |
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| 33% |
Online Only |
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Top Treatment Approaches
| 61% | Integrative Therapy |
| 51% | Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) |
| 51% | Person-Centered Therapy (Rogerian) |
| 41% | Existential / Humanistic Therapy |
| 37% | Psychodynamic Therapy |
| 37% | Somatic Therapy |
| 33% | Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT) |
Ages Served
| 100% | Adult |
| 69% | Young Adult |
| 61% | Senior |
| 49% | Teen |
| 16% | Children |
Client Focus
| 73% | Women |
| 53% | Men |
| 45% | LGBTQ+ |
| 43% | Jewish |
| 43% | Persons with Disabilities |