Infidelity therapists in Normal, IL
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Tim Jenkins
Counselor/Therapist, LCPC
Through the twenty year private practice career as a counselor, I have had a special interest in helping couples that were on the brink of divorce or separation. Many of them found themselves here due to infidelity. It is a special thing to help people to first understand infidelity; why it happens and what to do about it. Primarily, partners often feel that infidelity is their fault: that they did not do something well enough or that they are not attractive, pretty or handsome enough. That is the furthest thing from the truth. Infidelity most often happens due to sexual addiction, or due to the lack of feeling happy with one's self. When another shines their warm light of attention on you, and pays you lots of compliments, it can be very addictive to achieve that dopamine rush. There is also the element of the Coolidge effect. There is a biological thing that happens in animals. Males, (and to some extent females of the species) experience renewed sexual interest whenever a new partner is introduced.
This phenomenon comes about from an anecdote about Calvin Coolidge when he was President. The President and Mrs. Coolidge were being shown around an experimental government farm walking with two separate groups of reporters. When the first lady, whom was known to have a lot of moxie, came to the chicken yard she noticed that a rooster was mating very frequently. She asked the attendant how often that happened and was told, "Dozens of times each day." Mrs. Coolidge said, "Tell that to the President when he comes by." Upon being told this, President Coolidge asked, "Same hen every time?" The reply was, "Oh, no, Mr. President, a different hen every time." President: "Tell that to Mrs. Coolidge."
26 Years Experience
In-Person Near Normal, IL
Online in Normal, IL
Infidelity
Dr. Evelyn Comber
Psychologist, L.C.P.C., Ph.D., M.A., M.P.C., M.H.S., B.G.S.
Breaking trust is a major injury to relationships. Whether that relationship is a marriage, couple, friendship, parent/child, coworker - you need someone who will not be judgmental, someone who is safe to talk to about infidelity. Call me to discuss your situation.
31 Years Experience
Online in Normal, IL (Online Only)
Infidelity
Mind Lodge
Therapist, LCPC
Infidelity can shake the foundation of trust in a relationship, but recovery is possible. We help individuals and couples process the pain, rebuild communication, and work toward healing and understanding.
21 Years Experience
Online in Normal, IL
Infidelity
Emily Hurlin
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LISW, LCSW
Discovering an affair can shake the ground under both partners. The hurt partner is often flooded with questions and grief. The partner who strayed may feel shame, defensiveness, or confusion about how it happened. I help couples slow down and stabilize, understand what made the relationship vulnerable, and decide with clear eyes whether and how to rebuild. When a couple chooses to stay together, we work on restoring trust through consistent actions, not just promises.
8 Years Experience
Online in Normal, IL (Online Only)
Infidelity
Nostos Psychotherapy
Psychologist, PsyD
We work with individuals and couples to help them be able to work through the pain of infidelity and work towards rebuilding a sense of trust and connection within the relationship.
12 Years Experience
Online in Normal, IL
Infidelity therapists in Normal, IL Statistics
Infidelity therapists in Normal, IL average 18 years of experience and charge around $201 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The top treatment approaches are Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) (64%), Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) (44%), and Family Systems Therapy (39%).
Average years in practice
18 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$201
Accept insurance
40%
Offer sliding scale
30%
Gender ID
| 61% |
Female |
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| 38% |
Male |
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| 1% |
Gender Fluid |
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Session Type
| 61% |
In Person and Online |
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| 39% |
Online Only |
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Top Treatment Approaches
| 64% | Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) |
| 44% | Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) |
| 39% | Family Systems Therapy |
| 38% | Psychodynamic Therapy |
| 36% | Person-Centered Therapy (Rogerian) |
| 34% | Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT) |
| 31% | Gottman Method Couples Therapy |
Ages Served
| 99% | Adult |
| 71% | Young Adult |
| 61% | Senior |
| 44% | Teen |
| 23% | Children |
Client Focus
| 55% | Women |
| 51% | Men |
| 46% | LGBTQ+ |
| 28% | Military / Veterans |
| 26% | Christian |