Sex and Porn Addiction therapists in Carlsbad, New Mexico NM
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Jacob Hamlin
Marriage and Family Therapist, M.Ed., LMFT, CST
I work with clients who feel caught in patterns of compulsive sexual behavior, pornography use, secrecy, guilt, relapse, or conflict between sexual behavior and personal values. Rather than leading with shame or moral panic, I help clients understand the emotional and relational functions these behaviors may be serving. The goal is not simply behavior control, but greater honesty, accountability, self-understanding, and choice. Therapy may include exploring triggers, attachment needs, loneliness, stress, fantasy, avoidance, spirituality, boundaries, and repair in relationships impacted by secrecy or betrayal.
16 Years Experience
Online in Carlsbad, NM New Mexico (Online Only)
Daniel Gowan
Counselor/Therapist, LPC-S, LCDC, CSAT
As a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT), I’ve seen firsthand how shame and secrecy can hold people captive. Recovery is possible. Through structured support, honest conversation, and grace-filled accountability, I help individuals find freedom and reconnect with purpose and intimacy.
24 Years Experience
Online in Carlsbad, NM New Mexico
Laura Anderson LPCC, Eff Shame Therapy
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPCC
Problematic sexual behaviors — including compulsive porn use — are rarely about sex itself. They are most often about pain, disconnection, shame, or a nervous system looking for relief. I work from a harm reduction, client-centered approach using CBT, DBT, Motivational Interviewing, and trauma-focused methods to understand what's underneath the behavior and actually address it. I do not work from a twelve-step or "sex addiction" framework — not because I dismiss your struggle, but because shame-based models tend to create more of the very thing driving the behavior in the first place. You are not broken. Let's figure out what's actually going on.
12 Years Experience
Online in Carlsbad, NM New Mexico (Online Only)
John Burkin
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, LMHC, LPCC, LCPC, CPL, Registered Member MBACP
I prefer to describe this topic as Sexual Compulsion as there is no chemical or physiological dependence occurring. I believe there is a much higher affliction rate of persons engaged in some form of sexual compulsion than is truly known due to the stigma associated with sexual behavior. My belief and approach for persons who wish to address their sexual activity and what they may believe to be compulsive sexual activity is to create a safe, non-judgmental and non-stigmatic environment. I choose to approach sexual activity by normalizing with clients. This means I do not take a position on your personal beliefs nor wish to override or interfere with them. The boundaries I have are simple; legal and consensual. From there I will help work with you to identify what practices are interfering with your wellbeing and we can find solutions which work for you.
15 Years Experience
Online in Carlsbad, NM New Mexico (Online Only)
Kari Carter
Life Coach, APSATS certified, ACC, CPC, ADOH
The impact of sex and porn addiction on a partner is profound and often traumatic. Discovery can lead to shock, hypervigilance, intrusive thoughts, body image struggles, and a deep rupture of emotional safety. My work focuses specifically on supporting the betrayed partner - not treating the addiction itself, but addressing the trauma response that follows it.
Using a partner-sensitive, trauma-informed model, I help clients stabilize their nervous system, establish protective boundaries, process betrayal wounds, and regain clarity about their next steps. Partners deserve support that validate the harm experienced rather than minimizing it or pathologizing their response.
Living alongside sex or porn addiction can leave you feeling unseen, unsafe, and questioning your worth. I specialize in supporting partners as they navigate the trauma of addiction-related betrayal, helping them move from chaos and confusion toward strength, clarity, and empowered decision-making.
3 Years Experience
Online in Carlsbad, NM New Mexico (Online Only)
Sex and Porn Addiction therapists in Carlsbad, New Mexico Statistics
Sex and Porn Addiction therapists in Carlsbad, New Mexico average 13 years of experience and charge around $232 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The top treatment approaches are Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) (60%), Acceptance & Commitment Therapy (ACT) (40%), and Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) (40%).
Average years in practice
13 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$232
Accept insurance
30%
Offer sliding scale
20%
Gender ID
| 61% |
Male |
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| 23% |
Female |
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| 8% |
Non-Binary |
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| 8% |
Gender Fluid |
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Session Type
| 50% |
In Person and Online |
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| 50% |
Online Only |
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Top Treatment Approaches
| 60% | Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) |
| 40% | Acceptance & Commitment Therapy (ACT) |
| 40% | Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) |
| 40% | Behavioral Therapy |
| 30% | Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy (MBCT) |
| 30% | Psychodynamic Therapy |
| 30% | Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT) |
Ages Served
| 100% | Adult |
| 70% | Senior |
| 60% | Young Adult |
| 20% | Children |
| 10% | Teen |
Client Focus
| 80% | Men |
| 40% | Women |
| 40% | LGBTQ+ |
| 40% | Buddhist |
| 30% | Christian |