Perfectionism therapists in Harlem, NY
Browse Perfectionism therapists in Harlem, New York. Compare credentials, specialties and therapeutic approach. Contact a therapist to learn more.
Eve Picower
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
This may sound strange, but perfectionism is not perfect! Perfectionism is actually linked to high stress levels, procrastination, poor sleep, anxiety, depression and harsh self criticism, fear of failure, difficulty making decisions, and even interpersonal challenges. Does this sound like you? I hope you won't let perfectionism get in the way of reaching out to me for help.
30 Years Experience
In-Person Near Harlem, NY
Online in Harlem, NY
Resilience Therapy Group
Therapist, LCSW, LMHC, LMSW, MHC-LP, PMH-C
When nothing ever feels good enough, success can come at a steep cost to your peace. Our clinicians help you understand where the pressure comes from, soften the relentless inner critic, and build standards that motivate you without running you into the ground.
11 Years Experience
In-Person Near Harlem, NY
Online in Harlem, NY
Jonathan Schnapp
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
Perfectionism can create constant pressure to get things “just right,” often leading to stress, self-criticism, and difficulty feeling satisfied or at ease. In therapy, we’ll look at what drives these patterns and how they’ve taken shape over time. By developing a more flexible, compassionate way of relating to yourself, you can begin to ease the pressure, take healthier risks, and engage with your work and relationships in a way that feels more balanced and sustainable.
15 Years Experience
In-Person Near Harlem, NY
Online in Harlem, NY
Dianne Gallo, LCSW
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
Are you a perfectionist? Do your high expectations of yourself and others make you miserable? If so, I can help. I love working with perfectionists to help soften into self compassion and learn to live with more freedom and flexibility from entrenched patterns.
12 Years Experience
In-Person Near Harlem, NY
Online in Harlem, NY
Farzana Rahman
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC-D
As the eldest daughter and child of South Asian immigrants, I have worked extensively with Asian American clients who are recovering people pleasers and perfectionists. Perfectionism often overlaps with depression and anxiety, and part of the work we will do together is understanding and identifying which ingrained beliefs are contributing towards specific habits or patterns.
11 Years Experience
In-Person Near Harlem, NY
Online in Harlem, NY
Taylor Lee
Pre-Licensed Professional, MHC-LP, Ed.M., M.A.
I specialize in working with clients struggling with perfectionism, especially those who feel driven by self-criticism, fear of mistakes, or pressure to meet high expectations. Many of my clients have spent years holding themselves to rigid standards or tying their worth to achievement. Together, we explore the roots of these patterns, soften harsh inner dialogue, and build a more compassionate, flexible way of relating to yourself.
2 Years Experience
Online in Harlem, NY (Online Only)
Jamilet Calderon
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC-D
We will work collaboratively to quiet the constant need to "have it all together" and replace relentless self-criticism with self-compassion and realistic growth.
14 Years Experience
Online in Harlem, NY (Online Only)
Chrissie Chua- Ly van manh
Counselor/Therapist, LMHC-D, LPC
I work with many high-achieving, hardworking individuals who often define their identity, worth, and sense of meaning through productivity, performance, and external success. While these strengths can lead to accomplishment and reliability, they can also create pressure, burnout, and a persistent sense of never feeling “enough,” no matter how much is achieved.
Perfectionism often shows up as self-criticism, difficulty resting, fear of failure, people-pleasing, or feeling anxious even during moments of success. Many clients come to me feeling exhausted by their own standards, yet unsure how to slow down or step away from the patterns that have helped them succeed.
In our work together, we explore the deeper roots of perfectionism- often shaped by past experiences, family expectations, or learned beliefs about worth and achievement. At the same time, we focus on practical ways to challenge rigid thinking patterns, reduce anxiety, and develop a more balanced and compassionate relationship with oneself.
My goal is to help clients begin to separate their identity from their productivity, reconnect with what actually matters to them, and build a life that feels not only successful on the outside, but also grounded, sustainable, and meaningful on the inside.
10 Years Experience
Online in Harlem, NY (Online Only)
Liberation Therapy
Counselor/Therapist, LMHC
Perfectionism is often driven by fear, shame, and a belief that you are only worthy if you do things perfectly. Together we work on understanding the roots of perfectionism, reducing the anxiety around mistakes, and helping you build a life that is more flexible, creative, and humane.
5 Years Experience
Online in Harlem, NY (Online Only)
Merry Alijoski
Therapist, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist -LMFT
I truly enjoy working with perfectionism and treating it at it’s core with deeper insight to reach unperfectionism ⚡️Is that a word? lol
3 Years Experience
Online in Harlem, NY (Online Only)
Harlem is the historic capital of Black American culture, a Manhattan neighborhood whose churches, music, and institutions shaped a century of American life, now navigating intense gentrification alongside enduring community strength. Mental health needs include racial stress and historical trauma, economic displacement pressure, and a legacy of historically rooted caution toward medical institutions — met by strong community organizations and a growing cohort of Black therapists in the city. Harlem Hospital, community health networks, and NYC's broad market provide care.
Perfectionism therapists in Harlem, NY Statistics
Perfectionism therapists in Harlem, NY average 12 years of experience and charge around $217 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The top treatment approaches are Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) (69%), Psychodynamic Therapy (48%), and Acceptance & Commitment Therapy (ACT) (40%).
Average years in practice
12 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$217
Accept insurance
43%
Offer sliding scale
48%
Gender ID
| 63% |
Female |
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| 25% |
Male |
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| 6% |
Gender Fluid |
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| 6% |
Non-Binary |
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Session Type
| 50% |
In Person and Online |
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| 50% |
Online Only |
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Top Treatment Approaches
| 69% | Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) |
| 48% | Psychodynamic Therapy |
| 40% | Acceptance & Commitment Therapy (ACT) |
| 40% | Relational Psychotherapy |
| 36% | Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) |
| 36% | Internal Family Systems (IFS) |
| 29% | Somatic Therapy |
Ages Served
| 98% | Adult |
| 81% | Young Adult |
| 38% | Teen |
| 36% | Senior |
| 19% | Children |
Client Focus
| 60% | Women |
| 38% | LGBTQ+ |
| 33% | Men |
| 31% | Asian |
| 31% | Persons with Disabilities |