Infidelity therapists in Bend, Oregon OR
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Chuck Chapman
Counselor/Therapist, LPC
Infidelity creates a rupture that changes everything. Whether you were the one who stepped outside the relationship or the one who discovered the betrayal, the impact is profound. Trust is shaken, identity is questioned, and the future suddenly feels uncertain. Many men feel overwhelmed by guilt, shame, anger, confusion, or the fear that they have destroyed something that mattered. Others feel blindsided, devastated, and unsure how to make sense of what happened or how to move forward. Infidelity is not just about the act—it is about the loneliness, unmet needs, emotional disconnection, and silent suffering that often existed long before.
My work in this area is grounded in honesty, compassion, and slow, steady repair. We begin by understanding what was happening before the infidelity—what was missing, what was avoided, what went unspoken, and what pain or patterns were already living beneath the surface. For the partner who betrayed, we work with accountability that is rooted in courage, not self-condemnation. For the partner who was betrayed, we create space to grieve, express anger, and rebuild a sense of personal safety and self-worth. The goal is not to erase what happened or rush toward a false sense of forgiveness. The goal is to understand, heal, and make choices with clarity and integrity.
Healing from infidelity is possible, but it requires presence. It requires being willing to face the pain instead of running from it. Whether the relationship continues or not, this work is about helping you reclaim your voice, your truth, and your capacity to love—yourself and others—with greater depth and honesty. You do not have to navigate this alone. We walk this slowly, together.
16 Years Experience
Online in Bend, OR Oregon (Online Only)
Julien Moe
Hypnotherapist, Diploma in Clinical and Applied Hypnosis, Diploma in Life Coaching
Patients with this disorder are getting resilient in no time. I will make sure you'll get it over. I will train you or your partner for loyalty. I use both therapies and hypnotherapies. Time to be a new you. Life is too short to lead a twisted, unheathy life. Let me straighten out your views and behaviors of infidelity.
Hypnotherapy is a valuable tool for treating the emotional, psychological, and behavioral impacts of infidelity. It helps individuals process trauma, release resentment, and rebuild trust by calming triggers, reducing anxiety.
How Hypnotherapy Helps After Infidelity:Healing Trauma: It addresses PTSD-like symptoms such as intrusive thoughts, flashbacks, and hypervigilance. Emotional Regulation: It helps release intense anger, resentment, and betrayal trauma.Rebuilding Trust: It can help both partners re-establish communication and emotional safety.Changing Perspectives: Clients often use hypnotherapy to change how they feel about the infidelity and stop rumination.Ending Affairs: It can be used to help individuals break the addiction to an affair.
10 Years Experience
Online in Bend, OR Oregon
Kari Carter
Life Coach, APSATS certified, ACC, CPC, ADOH
Infidelity is more than a breach of trust - it is often experienced as trauma. Discovery can trigger shock, hypervigilance, intrusive thoughts, and a deep loss of safety. I specialize in working with individuals impacted by affairs, and relational deception using a partner-sensitive, trauma-informed approach. Rather than minimizing the harm or rushing toward forgiveness, my work prioritizes stabilization, validation, and clarity.
Whether you are seeking answers, rebuilding trust, or discerning the future of your relationship, I provide structured support to help you regulate your nervous system, establish boundaries, and reclaim your voice. Healing from infidelity requires more than communication tools - it requires safety, truth, and steady guidance.
3 Years Experience
Online in Bend, OR Oregon (Online Only)
Lesley Lacny
Licensed Professional Counselor, M.A, Psych.R, C.Psych, LPC
Infidelity can be a deeply painful and destabilizing experience, often bringing shock, grief, anger, confusion, and a loss of trust. It can raise questions about the relationship, yourself, and what comes next.
I provide therapy for individuals navigating infidelity to help you process the emotional impact and make sense of your experience. Together, we will explore the deeper feelings and patterns that arise, while also supporting you in staying grounded through the intensity of the process.
The focus is on helping you regain emotional stability, clarity, and self-trust so you can move forward in a way that feels informed and aligned with your needs, whether that means rebuilding, redefining, or letting go of the relationship.
20 Years Experience
Online in Bend, OR Oregon (Online Only)
Dr. Stéphanie Gamache, PhD
Hypnotherapist, PhD
Infidelity raises complex emotional questions about desire, attachment, betrayal, and identity. My work integrates psychoanalytic and relational approaches to explore the deeper emotional and relational dynamics underlying affairs. Together, we work toward understanding, integration, and the possibility of renewed intimacy and trust.
7 Years Experience
Online in Bend, OR Oregon (Online Only)
Infidelity therapists in Bend, Oregon Statistics
Infidelity therapists in Bend, Oregon average 14 years of experience and charge around $201 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The top treatment approaches are Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) (58%), Integrative Therapy (42%), and Psychodynamic Therapy (37%).
Average years in practice
14 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$201
Accept insurance
32%
Offer sliding scale
47%
Gender ID
| 55% |
Female |
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| 45% |
Male |
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Session Type
| 58% |
Online Only |
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| 42% |
In Person and Online |
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Top Treatment Approaches
| 58% | Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) |
| 42% | Integrative Therapy |
| 37% | Psychodynamic Therapy |
| 37% | Somatic Therapy |
| 32% | Acceptance & Commitment Therapy (ACT) |
| 32% | Eclectic Therapy |
| 32% | Internal Family Systems (IFS) |
Ages Served
| 100% | Adult |
| 79% | Senior |
| 74% | Young Adult |
| 21% | Teen |
| 16% | Children |
Client Focus
| 84% | LGBTQ+ |
| 79% | Men |
| 74% | Women |
| 58% | Military / Veterans |
| 58% | Christian |