Self Esteem therapists in Elgin, Scotland
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Self Esteem
Kevin Martin
Counsellor/Therapist, Psychotherapist Psychodynamic Analysis & Transactional Analysis, BACP, ITTA, EA
Self-esteem is your overall subjective evaluation of your worth, value, and competence. It reflects how much you respect, appreciate, and believe in yourself. While self-confidence relates specifically to your belief in your ability to succeed in a particular task or situation, self-esteem is a deeper, foundational sense of whether you feel worthy of happiness, love, and respect just as you are.
High vs Low Self-Esteem
Healthy Self-Esteem: Involves an accurate, balanced view of yourself. You recognise your strengths while accepting your flaws and limitations without harsh judgment. It allows you to bounce back from setbacks and set healthy boundaries.
Low Self-Esteem: Involves chronic self-doubt, harsh internal criticism, and a persistent belief that you are inadequate, unlovable, or a burden. People with low self-esteem often measure their worth entirely by external achievements, others' approval, or perfection.
Common Signs of Low Self-Esteem
Habitual Comparison: Constantly comparing yourself to others and always feeling like you fall short.
Fear of Failure & Rejection: Avoiding new challenges, social gatherings, or opportunities because you assume you will fail or that people won't like you.
Difficulty Accepting Praise: Downplaying compliments or attributing your successes to luck rather than your own skill and effort.
People-Pleasing: Prioritising everyone else's needs, opinions, and comfort over your own out of fear of conflict or rejection.
Internalised Blame: Automatically blaming yourself when things go wrong, even if it was outside of your control.
Where Does Self-Esteem Come From?
Self-esteem is shaped over a lifetime by early childhood experiences (such as parenting styles, family dynamics, and peer relationships), school or work environments, major life events, and ongoing internal self-talk. Because it is learned over time, you can also unlearn and rebuild it.
Cultivating Self-Compassion
Building healthier self-esteem isn't about forced positivity or pretending you are flawless; it is about developing self-compassion—treating yourself with the same kindness, understanding, and patience you would offer to a good friend when things get difficult.
Remember: Your worth is not up for negotiation, and it does not fluctuate based on your productivity, mistakes, or other people's opinions. You are inherently worthy of care and respect simply because you exist.
10 Years Experience
Online in Elgin, Scotland (Online Only)
Self Esteem
Adima Hawkes
Counsellor/Therapist, Psychotherapist, Spiritual Teacher, Gene Keys Guide, Trainer Tibetan Acupressure & Iridology
Self-Esteem or self worth is one of the most targeted issues for humans beings, unless they live in truly natural communities. We are all growing up in neurotic and untrue conditioning on how we should be, rather than supporting each other in how we are. The uniqueness of each person get sacrificed for silly idealism and children are being hindered to develop naturally. So far so bad. The good news is: your true worthiness, your self-esteem was never really destroyed. IT IS INSIDE. It simply takes taking away the lies and illusions on 'how I should be' and become how you are. I can help with that! it is much simpler than it sounds but it may not be always easy.
30 Years Experience
Online in Elgin, Scotland
Self Esteem
Lavinia May
Counsellor/Therapist, MNCPS (Acc.)
Hi, I'm Lavinia and I am a Psychotherapist, working with both individuals and couples. Part of LGBTQ+ Community. I have worked in Mental Heath services for over nine years , helping people manage their emotional health and wellbeing. I offer a safe non judgemental therapeutic environment for you to process your thoughts and feelings. Our sessions will be empowering, liberating and can even be life changing, giving you the opportunity to gain the confidence to make positive changes to uncover your full potential.
My therapy style is warm and interactive and the pace will always be set by you. I am passionate about delivering exceptional care and the promotion of emotional wellbeing, with extensive experience of working in a range of various settings including NHS, Corporate, and Private Practice.
I understand each person is unique&I tailor-make sessions for each individual I am working with.I work using both time limited sessions or open ended, allowing us to work as flexibly as you require. I want to acknowledge that beginning therapy is often a supreme act of courage,strength,and self-care. I’m so glad you’re here. Please feel welcome to reach out
12 Years Experience
Online in Elgin, Scotland
Self Esteem
Filipa Marques
Hypnotherapist
Initiating on the empowering journey of enhancing self-esteem is a significant step towards personal growth and fulfillment. In my specialized hypnotherapy practice, I offer a comprehensive and personalized approach to address the intricate layers of self-perception. Together, we navigate the depths of the subconscious mind, gently unveiling and challenging limiting beliefs that may be contributing to low self-esteem.
Through a series of carefully crafted hypnotherapy sessions, we delve into the root causes of self-doubt, fostering a compassionate exploration of your inner world. Utilizing advanced hypnotherapy techniques, we work collaboratively to reframe negative thought patterns, promoting a positive self-image and instilling a sense of confidence that extends into various aspects of your life.
The transformative journey towards building lasting self-esteem involves not just addressing surface-level challenges but fostering a holistic understanding of your unique strengths and capabilities. Our sessions are designed to provide a safe and supportive space where you can express and explore your emotions, encouraging a profound shift towards self-acceptance and empowerment.
Together, we unravel the layers that may be hindering your self-esteem, replacing them with a renewed sense of worth and confidence. As we navigate this transformative process, the power of hypnotherapy becomes a guiding force, helping you unlock your true potential and embark on a journey towards becoming the best version of yourself. Join me on this empowering path, where self-esteem isn't just a goal but a foundation for a more fulfilled and confident life.
4 Years Experience
Online in Elgin, Scotland (Online Only)
Self Esteem
Tricia Bernard-Hector
Counsellor/Therapist, BSc (Hons), MBACP
Struggling with self-esteem can impact many areas of your life, from relationships to career aspirations. I can help you challenge negative self-beliefs, reconnect with your inherent worth and build confidence in yourself and your abilities. Together we will explore the root causes of your self-doubt and work towards creating a stronger sense of self.
4 Years Experience
Online in Elgin, Scotland (Online Only)
Self Esteem therapists in Elgin, Scotland Statistics
Self Esteem therapists in Elgin, Scotland average 13 years of experience and charge around ¤124 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The top treatment approaches are Integrative Therapy (59%), Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) (49%), and Person-Centered Therapy (Rogerian) (49%).
Average years in practice
13 Years Experience
Average cost per session
¤124
Accept insurance
30%
Offer sliding scale
48%
Gender ID
| 63% |
Female |
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| 35% |
Male |
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| 1% |
Gender Fluid |
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| 1% |
Non-Binary |
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Session Type
| 60% |
In Person and Online |
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| 40% |
Online Only |
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Top Treatment Approaches
| 59% | Integrative Therapy |
| 49% | Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) |
| 49% | Person-Centered Therapy (Rogerian) |
| 36% | Psychodynamic Therapy |
| 29% | Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT) |
| 28% | Existential / Humanistic Therapy |
| 28% | Somatic Therapy |
Ages Served
| 100% | Adult |
| 60% | Young Adult |
| 55% | Senior |
| 47% | Teen |
| 20% | Children |
Client Focus
| 62% | Women |
| 49% | Men |
| 45% | LGBTQ+ |
| 35% | Christian |
| 33% | Persons with Disabilities |