Perfectionism therapists in Lufkin, TX
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Perfectionism
Andrew Oshobu
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW), Licensed Chemical Dependency Counselor (LCDC)
Perfectionism comes because of various reasons and I hope to support your needs by finding what can be done to challenge that perfectionism not to be lose your functionality but to gain the ability to succeed but not be stuck in a stage that you lack movement in your life.
3 Years Experience
Online in Lufkin, TX (Online Only)
Perfectionism
Emily Stone
Marriage and Family Therapist, MA, MDiv, PhD, LMFT-S
Perfectionism: The High Cost of Being "Flawless"
Moving from Performance to Presence
Perfectionism is often rewarded by society, but internally, it can feel like a relentless taskmaster. It is the persistent whisper that says you are only as good as your last achievement, leading to a life of high-functioning burnout and a profound disconnection from your true self. In my practice, we don’t just "lower your standards"; we investigate the attachment roots of why "being perfect" became your primary strategy for safety and belonging.
The Perfectionist’s Paradox
Perfectionism isn't actually about excellence—it’s about protection. We work together to untangle:
The Procrastination Loop: Addressing the "all-or-nothing" thinking that leads to demand avoidance and paralyzing anxiety when a task feels too important to start.
Rejection Sensitivity: Understanding how the fear of a "flaw" is actually a fear of disconnection. If you aren't perfect, will you still be worthy of love and respect?
The "Shame-Vigilance" Cycle: The exhausting effort of "masking" your struggles to maintain a composed exterior, leading to a systemic shut down.
A Systems-Rooted Clinical Approach
With over 20 years of experience, I use a deep-reaching framework to help you trade "perfection" for "wholeness":
IFS-Informed Parts Work: We get curious about the "Perfectionist Part" of your system. This part likely took on its job very early to protect you from criticism or instability. We work to help this part feel safe enough to finally rest.
EMDR for Performance Anxiety: We use EMDR to process past memories of "failure" or moments where your worth was tied to your performance, neutralizing the triggers that fuel today's perfectionism.
Somatic Regulation: We learn to recognize the physical tension of "trying too hard" and use grounding tools to expand your Window of Tolerance, allowing you to be present even when things are messy.
For the "Professional" Perfectionists
As someone who works extensively with therapists, pastors, and professors, I understand the unique pressure of having to be a "model" of wellness or wisdom. I provide a confidential, courageous space where you can drop the "expert" mask and explore the messy, beautiful reality of being human.
21 Years Experience
Online in Lufkin, TX (Online Only)
Perfectionism
Lindsey Lucius
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW-S
Perfectionism often begins as a smart strategy for earning love, safety, or approval, and later becomes exhausting. We'll get to know the parts of you that push so hard, understand what they're afraid of, and help you grow kinder toward yourself so that good enough can finally feel like enough.
15 Years Experience
Online in Lufkin, TX (Online Only)
Perfectionism
Jacinda Andrews
Licensed Professional Counselor, PhD-C, LPC, NCC
Perfectionism can create constant pressure to meet impossibly high standards, leaving you feeling anxious, overwhelmed, or never "good enough." Fear of making mistakes may lead to overthinking, procrastination, or self-criticism that keeps you stuck. Together, we'll challenge unhelpful patterns, cultivate self-compassion, and develop healthier ways to pursue your goals so you can find greater balance, confidence, and peace without sacrificing what matters most.
9 Years Experience
Online in Lufkin, TX (Online Only)
Perfectionism
Resilience Therapy Group
Therapist, LCSW, LMHC, LMSW, MHC-LP, PMH-C
When nothing ever feels good enough, success can come at a steep cost to your peace. Our clinicians help you understand where the pressure comes from, soften the relentless inner critic, and build standards that motivate you without running you into the ground.
11 Years Experience
Online in Lufkin, TX
Perfectionism therapists in Lufkin, TX Statistics
Perfectionism therapists in Lufkin, TX average 13 years of experience and charge around $200 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The top treatment approaches are Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) (79%), Acceptance & Commitment Therapy (ACT) (53%), and Internal Family Systems (IFS) (36%).
Average years in practice
13 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$200
Accept insurance
46%
Offer sliding scale
32%
Gender ID
| 70% |
Female |
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| 28% |
Male |
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| 1% |
Gender Fluid |
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| 1% |
Non-Binary |
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Session Type
| 52% |
In Person and Online |
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| 48% |
Online Only |
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Top Treatment Approaches
| 79% | Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) |
| 53% | Acceptance & Commitment Therapy (ACT) |
| 36% | Internal Family Systems (IFS) |
| 35% | Motivational Interviewing (MI) |
| 35% | Person-Centered Therapy (Rogerian) |
| 33% | Psychodynamic Therapy |
| 31% | Existential / Humanistic Therapy |
Ages Served
| 99% | Adult |
| 75% | Young Adult |
| 46% | Senior |
| 37% | Teen |
| 14% | Children |
Client Focus
| 52% | Women |
| 33% | LGBTQ+ |
| 31% | Men |
| 26% | Black / African American |
| 22% | Christian |