Online Borderline Personality Disorder therapists in Costa Mesa, California CA
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BPD
Empowered Wellbeing, Decolonizing Intersectional and Integrative Complex Trauma & Dissociation Recovery Support
Life Coach, view my credentials online at: www.recoveringfromwithin.com/credentialslongform
We work with this from a trauma and dyadic or family systems parts work perspective or attachment trauma recovery framework, and or a functional health perspective depending on whether the expression seems to stem from trauma, relational/systemic adaptation, or physiological impacts. For example, often BPD is an adaptive response to living or being in intensive proximity with someone with NPD, so in that case the approach might be more dyadic/systems parts work based. Please feel free to ask if you have further questions.
15 Years Experience
Online in Costa Mesa, CA (Online Only)
BPD
Melissa Quinn Pollock
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
Attachment and nervous system dysregulation gets labeled as personality disorders in the therapeutic world. While some diagnoses can be helpful to understand ourselves, we can work on a holistic approach that includes but is not limited to DBT.
13 Years Experience
Online in Costa Mesa, CA (Online Only)
BPD
Sam Naimi
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Psychotherapist & Psychoanalyst
What is often labeled as “borderline” or a "personality disorder" reflects adaptations to early relational environments that were chronically intense and inconsistent, not a defective person. Heightened emotional sensitivity and fears around closeness often develop as ways of staying connected and safe.
In therapy, we focus on understanding how these patterns show up in the present, especially in relationships that matter. Over time, this work supports greater emotional stability, depth, and a more secure sense of self rather than short-term symptom control.
8 Years Experience
Online in Costa Mesa, CA
BPD
Matthew Kijak, LCSW
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
Borderline personality disorder (BPD) can be a challenging and complex condition to navigate. As a therapist, I understand that living with BPD can cause difficulties in your relationships and daily life. My goal is to support you in managing the symptoms of BPD and to help you live a more fulfilling life. By utilizing evidence-based techniques such as Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and other therapies that incorporate mindfulness and emotion regulation techniques we can work together to develop a personalized treatment plan tailored to your specific needs.
We will explore the root causes of your behavior, find solutions to current problems, and build healthy coping skills that will help you manage the symptoms of BPD, such as impulsivity, emotional instability, and difficulty in relationships. We will work together to develop a better understanding of yourself and to improve your interpersonal relationships. My ultimate goal is to empower you to live a more fulfilling life and to help you build a brighter, more stable future for yourself.
BPD is a difficult condition to manage, but with the right support, you can learn to manage your symptoms and lead a more fulfilling life. I am here to provide that support and guidance, so don't hesitate to reach out to me today.
8 Years Experience
Online in Costa Mesa, CA
BPD
Ross Kellogg, LMFT
Marriage and Family Therapist, Licensed Individual, Marriage, and Family Therapist (LMFT)
I provide Dialectical Behavioral Therapy, the standardized and most effective approach to address symptoms related to Borderline Personality Disorder.
12 Years Experience
Online in Costa Mesa, CA (Online Only)
BPD
Dr. Lori Lynn Mann
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, Psy.D.
I have extensive experience working with BPD.
14 Years Experience
Online in Costa Mesa, CA (Online Only)
BPD
Three Oaks Behavioral Health & Wellness
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW, LCMHC, LCAS
Supporting emotional regulation, relationship stability, and self-identity through structured therapeutic approaches.
7 Years Experience
Online in Costa Mesa, CA
BPD
Sloane Fabricius
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, LPCC, Clinical Supervisor
My hope and intent is for you to feel heard, seen, supported and hopeful about you and your circumstances. Van Gogh said it best, "I feel there is nothing more truly artistic than loving people." Our creative collaboration will equip you in getting your needs met in healthy ways.
29 Years Experience
Online in Costa Mesa, CA
BPD
Viktoria Walda Byczkiewicz, Ph.D.
Pre-Licensed Professional, PhD
Borderline Personality Disorder is generally characterized by difficulty in maintaining stable primary relationships due to unmet needs that show up as symptoms, such as being demanding or trying to control another person. People with BPD may truly desire intimacy, while at the same time, fear exposing their vulnerability and risking more pain and abandonment. If you suffer from BPD, you may be ambivalent in your relationships with others, often resulting in ongoing chaos or "drama." I can help you to uncover what lies beneath the behaviors that propel your interactions with others, and learn how to foster stable, reciprocal relationships.
10 Years Experience
Online in Costa Mesa, CA (Online Only)
BPD
Emily St. Amant
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC-MHSP-S (TN), LPCC (CA)
I have worked with many people who have BDP, or signs of BDP, many of whom have also experienced abuse and trauma.
18 Years Experience
Online in Costa Mesa, CA (Online Only)
BPD
Melanie Goetz
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
I take an Ambivalent Attachment perspective, meaning that my view of BPD is that is a more severe expression of an Ambivalent Attachment style. In sessions, I will maintain a safe and predictable environment, supporting a space for each of us to be in charge of our own stories and emotional states. I'll be gentle in nonverbal and verbal communication, and, will model personal boundaries between and in sessions. We may incorporate EMDR or parts work into a primarily DARE approach of being with the felt-sense of connection, highlighting what feels safe and unsafe, trusting and mistrusting, predicable and chaotic. From a place of safe connection, we'll revisit the wounded parts from your past with nurturing openness and adaptability, while maintaining integrity and authenticity of your Core Self.
10 Years Experience
Online in Costa Mesa, CA
BPD
Patricia Fahmy
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPCC
Living with intense emotions can feel exhausting. You may experience overwhelming fears of abandonment, difficulty trusting others, rapid shifts in emotions, relationship struggles, or a constant fear of being left, rejected, or misunderstood.
Many people feel ashamed of these experiences or believe something is wrong with them.
In reality, these patterns often make sense in the context of attachment wounds, relational trauma, and painful life experiences.
Together, we'll work to better understand these patterns, strengthen emotional regulation, improve relationships, and help you feel more stable, secure, and connected.
7 Years Experience
Online in Costa Mesa, CA (Online Only)
BPD
Dorit Saberi-Thrive Psychological Services
Psychologist, Ph.D, Diplomate-Academy of Cognitive Therapy; Trainer- Prolonged Exposure for PTSD- CTSA
As an Intensively trained DBT therapist using DBT for over 20 years in individual, group, phone coaching and DBT for families.
24 Years Experience
Online in Costa Mesa, CA (Online Only)
BPD
Growth and Change Counseling
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
It has been said that when you have Borderline Personality disorder (BPD), its hard to tell where your emotions end and your loved ones emotions start. In BPD, I look to my loved one to validate me, to tell me I am okay because my own sense of self worth is so fragile or non-existent. If a loved one gets mad at me or has negative emotions I go into an emotional spiral that is crazy making because I end up in an identity crisis. If you can relate to this, give us a call, we would like to help you.
8 Years Experience
Online in Costa Mesa, CA (Online Only)
BPD
Patricia Anna Martucci
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, SEP, EMDR Certified Therapist, RYT-200
I have worked with clients who have borderline personality disorder as well as their families and friends, supporting clients using Dialectic Behavioral Therapy (DBT) to establish a working stable foundational coping structure to support their lives, and provide the security to branch out and live their best life. I also have experience working with the children of parents with BPD and supported them through navigating life with some of the impacts of this unique experience.
16 Years Experience
Online in Costa Mesa, CA
BPD
Sandy Kong
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT 119380
Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) can be a hugely mis-conceptualized disorder. Since it's root problem stems from attachment, therapy is relational. Clients learn how to develop a healthy, secure, and safe relationship with themselves and with a safe adult (therapist), sometimes for the first time. Clients learn to unpack, understand, and increase awareness to how their attachment styles impacts their emotions, their thoughts, and their behavior. Learning how to build a better foundation by restructuring certain thoughts and behaviors, while also regulating emotions, setting boundaries, and developing effective communication skills is.
11 Years Experience
Online in Costa Mesa, CA
BPD
Dr. Jen Bachtold
Psychologist, Ph.D., Certified Alcohol & Drug Counselor-II (CADC-II), Certified Clinical Trauma Professional, Specialist in Anger Management
As a licensed psychologist with experience working with those with borderline personality disorder (BPD), I am dedicated to providing compassionate and effective support to individuals living with this condition. My approach is based on evidence-based therapies and personalized strategies to help you manage symptoms and improve your quality of life.
11 Years Experience
Online in Costa Mesa, CA (Online Only)
BPD
Danielle Esses
Psychologist, PsyD
Borderline personality disorder often involves intense emotions, painful relationship patterns, fear of abandonment, impulsivity, or feeling unsure of who you are. I have advanced training in DBT, the gold-standard treatment for BPD. Treatment focuses on helping you better understand these patterns, build more effective coping strategies, and create greater stability in your emotions and relationships.
8 Years Experience
Online in Costa Mesa, CA
BPD
Octave Therapy Licensed Clinical Social Work Inc
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
Clients who are struggling with emotional sensitivity and setting healthy boundaries.Borderline Personality Disorder get a bad rap.
13 Years Experience
Online in Costa Mesa, CA (Online Only)
BPD
Monica M. Huston
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
Individuals with borderline personality disorder often experience intense emotions, relationship instability, and a deep sensitivity to connection and loss. I provide a steady, consistent therapeutic space to help make sense of these experiences, strengthen emotional regulation, and build more stable and meaningful relationships over time.
9 Years Experience
Online in Costa Mesa, CA
Borderline Personality Disorder therapists in Costa Mesa, California Statistics
Borderline Personality Disorder therapists in Costa Mesa, California average 15 years of experience and charge around $217 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The most commonly treated issues are Borderline Personality Disorder (100%), Anxiety or Fears (92%), and Depression (90%).
Average years in practice
15 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$217
Gender ID
| 60% |
Female |
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| 28% |
Male |
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| 7% |
Non-Binary |
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| 5% |
Gender Fluid |
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Session Type
| 65% |
In Person and Online |
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| 35% |
Online Only |
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Top Specialties
| 100% | Borderline Personality Disorder |
| 92% | Anxiety or Fears |
| 90% | Depression |
| 85% | Trauma and PTSD |
| 67% | Codependency |
| 65% | Social Anxiety |
| 65% | Loss or Grief |