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Online Borderline Personality Disorder therapists in Pauma Valley, CA

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Nashville, Tennessee therapist: Emily St. Amant, licensed professional counselor
BPD

Emily St. Amant

Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC-MHSP-S (TN), LPCC (CA)
I have worked with many people who have BDP, or signs of BDP, many of whom have also experienced abuse and trauma.  
18 Years Experience
Online in Pauma Valley, CA (Online Only)
Irvine, California therapist: Monica M. Huston, marriage and family therapist
BPD

Monica M. Huston

Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
Individuals with borderline personality disorder often experience intense emotions, relationship instability, and a deep sensitivity to connection and loss. I provide a steady, consistent therapeutic space to help make sense of these experiences, strengthen emotional regulation, and build more stable and meaningful relationships over time.  
9 Years Experience
Online in Pauma Valley, CA
San Jose, California therapist: Growth and Change Counseling, marriage and family therapist
BPD

Growth and Change Counseling

Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
It has been said that when you have Borderline Personality disorder (BPD), its hard to tell where your emotions end and your loved ones emotions start. In BPD, I look to my loved one to validate me, to tell me I am okay because my own sense of self worth is so fragile or non-existent. If a loved one gets mad at me or has negative emotions I go into an emotional spiral that is crazy making because I end up in an identity crisis. If you can relate to this, give us a call, we would like to help you.  
8 Years Experience
Online in Pauma Valley, CA (Online Only)
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San Diego, California therapist: Patricia Fahmy, licensed professional counselor
BPD

Patricia Fahmy

Licensed Professional Counselor, LPCC
Living with intense emotions can feel exhausting. You may experience overwhelming fears of abandonment, difficulty trusting others, rapid shifts in emotions, relationship struggles, or a constant fear of being left, rejected, or misunderstood. Many people feel ashamed of these experiences or believe something is wrong with them. In reality, these patterns often make sense in the context of attachment wounds, relational trauma, and painful life experiences. Together, we'll work to better understand these patterns, strengthen emotional regulation, improve relationships, and help you feel more stable, secure, and connected.  
7 Years Experience
Online in Pauma Valley, CA (Online Only)
Carlsbad, California therapist: Diaspora Therapy Group, marriage and family therapist
BPD

Diaspora Therapy Group

Marriage and Family Therapist, DSW, LMFT
We provide compassionate, trauma-informed care for individuals living with borderline personality disorder. We focus on emotional regulation, identity development, relationship patterns, and distress tolerance using collaborative, skills-based approaches. Our work is non-judgmental and centers safety, stability, and empowerment.  
7 Years Experience
Online in Pauma Valley, CA
Los Angeles, California therapist: Daniel Slavin, marriage and family therapist
BPD

Daniel Slavin

Marriage and Family Therapist
I work with individuals who experience intense emotions and relationship difficulties in a steady, structured, and compassionate way. Therapy focuses on increasing emotional awareness, stability, and the ability to feel safer and more connected in relationships.  
41 Years Experience
Online in Pauma Valley, CA
Pasadena, California therapist: Mind Study Center, counselor/therapist
BPD

Mind Study Center

Counselor/Therapist, LMFT, M.D., Ph.D.,
At Mind Study Center, we specialize in supporting individuals with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) through compassionate, evidence-based care. Our team uses a combination of therapies, including Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), to help clients develop healthier coping skills, manage intense emotions, and improve relationships. We work closely with each individual to foster emotional stability, self-awareness, and a sense of empowerment, supporting their journey toward a balanced and fulfilling life.  
10 Years Experience
Online in Pauma Valley, CA
Pleasanton, California therapist: Dr. Rebecca Scott, Psy.D, psychologist
BPD

Dr. Rebecca Scott, Psy.D

Psychologist, Clinical Psychologist, Certified in Holistic Health
I have a subspecialty in severe mental illness and can support BPD well and teach DBT skills training.  
17 Years Experience
Online in Pauma Valley, CA
Arcata, California therapist: Viktoria Walda Byczkiewicz, Ph.D., pre-licensed professional
BPD

Viktoria Walda Byczkiewicz, Ph.D.

Pre-Licensed Professional, PhD
Borderline Personality Disorder is generally characterized by difficulty in maintaining stable primary relationships due to unmet needs that show up as symptoms, such as being demanding or trying to control another person. People with BPD may truly desire intimacy, while at the same time, fear exposing their vulnerability and risking more pain and abandonment. If you suffer from BPD, you may be ambivalent in your relationships with others, often resulting in ongoing chaos or "drama." I can help you to uncover what lies beneath the behaviors that propel your interactions with others, and learn how to foster stable, reciprocal relationships.  
10 Years Experience
Online in Pauma Valley, CA (Online Only)
Oakland, California therapist: Octave Therapy Licensed Clinical Social Work Inc, licensed clinical social worker
BPD

Octave Therapy Licensed Clinical Social Work Inc

Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
Clients who are struggling with emotional sensitivity and setting healthy boundaries.Borderline Personality Disorder get a bad rap.  
13 Years Experience
Online in Pauma Valley, CA (Online Only)
Long Beach, California therapist: Dorit Saberi-Thrive Psychological Services, psychologist
BPD

Dorit Saberi-Thrive Psychological Services

Psychologist, Ph.D, Diplomate-Academy of Cognitive Therapy; Trainer- Prolonged Exposure for PTSD- CTSA
As an Intensively trained DBT therapist using DBT for over 20 years in individual, group, phone coaching and DBT for families.  
24 Years Experience
Online in Pauma Valley, CA (Online Only)
Encino, California therapist: Sam Naimi, licensed clinical social worker
BPD

Sam Naimi

Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Psychotherapist & Psychoanalyst
What is often labeled as “borderline” or a "personality disorder" reflects adaptations to early relational environments that were chronically intense and inconsistent, not a defective person. Heightened emotional sensitivity and fears around closeness often develop as ways of staying connected and safe. In therapy, we focus on understanding how these patterns show up in the present, especially in relationships that matter. Over time, this work supports greater emotional stability, depth, and a more secure sense of self rather than short-term symptom control.  
8 Years Experience
Online in Pauma Valley, CA
Rancho Mirage, California therapist: Dr. Claire Vines, Psy.D., Psychologist / Licensed /Psychotherapy / Psychoanalytic/, marriage and family therapist
BPD

Dr. Claire Vines, Psy.D., Psychologist / Licensed /Psychotherapy / Psychoanalytic/

Marriage and Family Therapist, Marriage, Couples, LMFT. Psy.D. Trauma-Focused CBT
Borderline personality Disorder will make it very difficult for an individual to interact with others on a daily basis due to that person feeling confused about themselves. The emotions can become extreme, such as in impulsivity, as well as, instability and intensity within one’s relationships.  
21 Years Experience
Online in Pauma Valley, CA
Westlake Village, California therapist: Bruce L. Whitney, psychologist
BPD

Bruce L. Whitney

Psychologist, Ph.D., QME
Evaluation and treatment of all major mental and emotional disorders, with focused expertise in: depression, anxiety, traumatic stress, dissociative disorders, attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD), oppositional defiant disorder (ODD), obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD), sexual trauma victims, marital and relationship issues, educational and executive coaching.  
37 Years Experience
Online in Pauma Valley, CA
Olympia, Washington therapist: Dr. Mandi Maycumber, therapist
BPD

Dr. Mandi Maycumber

Therapist, PsyD, LPCC, LMHC, SUDP
Having worked in addictions, community mental health, and forensic facilities, I have experience working with people who have borderline traits and complex PTSD.  
13 Years Experience
Online in Pauma Valley, CA
San Diego, California therapist: Heather Marriatori, psychologist
BPD

Heather Marriatori

Psychologist, PhD
I work with all personality disorders, with Borderline PD being at the forefront of trauma.  
13 Years Experience
Online in Pauma Valley, CA
Santa Barbara, California therapist: Dr. Trevor Alleman, psychologist
BPD

Dr. Trevor Alleman

Psychologist, PsyD, MA
BPD is not something to be ashamed of - it is something to get help for. I have received advanced training in Mentalization Based Therapy (MBT), a treatment modality designed to help people with Borderline Personality Disorder. The goal of this therapy is to help people become more self-aware of their emotional reactions and more skilled at regulating anxiety.  
13 Years Experience
Online in Pauma Valley, CA
Westlake Village, California therapist: Sloane Fabricius, marriage and family therapist
BPD

Sloane Fabricius

Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, LPCC, Clinical Supervisor
My hope and intent is for you to feel heard, seen, supported and hopeful about you and your circumstances. Van Gogh said it best, "I feel there is nothing more truly artistic than loving people." Our creative collaboration will equip you in getting your needs met in healthy ways.  
29 Years Experience
Online in Pauma Valley, CA
Denver, Colorado therapist: Higher Sights Counseling, counselor/therapist
BPD

Higher Sights Counseling

Counselor/Therapist
We have a staff of psychotherapists and med prescribers that work with clients who have BPD symptoms. We offer CBT, DBT, EMDR, IFS (to name a few treatment modalities) and medication in addition to many problem-solving therapies to help you learn new coping skills to improve your life.  
16 Years Experience
Online in Pauma Valley, CA
Beverly Hills, California therapist: Integrative Psychotherapy Group, marriage and family therapist
BPD

Integrative Psychotherapy Group

Marriage and Family Therapist
We work with clients who express issues or concerns with Borderline Personality Disorder.  
10 Years Experience
Online in Pauma Valley, CA

Borderline Personality Disorder therapists in Pauma Valley, California Statistics

Borderline Personality Disorder therapists in Pauma Valley, California average 15 years of experience and charge around $216 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The most commonly treated issues are Borderline Personality Disorder (100%), Depression (91%), and Anxiety or Fears (91%).

Average years in practice

15 Years Experience

Average cost per session

$216

Gender ID

60% Female
28% Male
7% Non-Binary
5% Gender Fluid

Session Type

64% In Person and Online
36% Online Only

Top Specialties

100% Borderline Personality Disorder
91% Depression
91% Anxiety or Fears
85% Trauma and PTSD
68% Codependency
66% Social Anxiety
66% Loss or Grief

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