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Online Borderline Personality Disorder therapists in San Anselmo, CA

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San Diego, California therapist: Melissa Quinn Pollock, licensed clinical social worker
BPD

Melissa Quinn Pollock

Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
Attachment and nervous system dysregulation gets labeled as personality disorders in the therapeutic world. While some diagnoses can be helpful to understand ourselves, we can work on a holistic approach that includes but is not limited to DBT.  
13 Years Experience
Online in San Anselmo, CA (Online Only)
Westlake Village, California therapist: Bruce L. Whitney, psychologist
BPD

Bruce L. Whitney

Psychologist, Ph.D., QME
Evaluation and treatment of all major mental and emotional disorders, with focused expertise in: depression, anxiety, traumatic stress, dissociative disorders, attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD), oppositional defiant disorder (ODD), obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD), sexual trauma victims, marital and relationship issues, educational and executive coaching.  
37 Years Experience
Online in San Anselmo, CA
Sacramento, California therapist: Sandy Kong, marriage and family therapist
BPD

Sandy Kong

Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT 119380
Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) can be a hugely mis-conceptualized disorder. Since it's root problem stems from attachment, therapy is relational. Clients learn how to develop a healthy, secure, and safe relationship with themselves and with a safe adult (therapist), sometimes for the first time. Clients learn to unpack, understand, and increase awareness to how their attachment styles impacts their emotions, their thoughts, and their behavior. Learning how to build a better foundation by restructuring certain thoughts and behaviors, while also regulating emotions, setting boundaries, and developing effective communication skills is.  
11 Years Experience
Online in San Anselmo, CA
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Oakland, California therapist: Octave Therapy Licensed Clinical Social Work Inc, licensed clinical social worker
BPD

Octave Therapy Licensed Clinical Social Work Inc

Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
Clients who are struggling with emotional sensitivity and setting healthy boundaries.Borderline Personality Disorder get a bad rap.  
13 Years Experience
Online in San Anselmo, CA (Online Only)
Denver, Colorado therapist: Higher Sights Counseling, counselor/therapist
BPD

Higher Sights Counseling

Counselor/Therapist
We have a staff of psychotherapists and med prescribers that work with clients who have BPD symptoms. We offer CBT, DBT, EMDR, IFS (to name a few treatment modalities) and medication in addition to many problem-solving therapies to help you learn new coping skills to improve your life.  
16 Years Experience
Online in San Anselmo, CA
Sacramento, California therapist: Abigail (Abi) Zarate Ramsay, pre-licensed professional
BPD

Abigail (Abi) Zarate Ramsay

Pre-Licensed Professional, Marriage and Family Therapist Trainee, Professional Clinical Counselor Trainee
I work with clients who experience intense emotions, fears of abandonment, and unstable relationships, offering steady, validating support and skills for regulation and connection.  
0 Years Experience
Online in San Anselmo, CA (Online Only)
Beverly Hills, California therapist: Dr. Cassidy Blair, PSY.D., psychologist
BPD

Dr. Cassidy Blair, PSY.D.

Psychologist, B.A., M.A., Psy.D.
In approaching this particular disorder, psychodynamic therapy, dialectical behavioral therapy, and cognitive behavioral therapy are effecting in re-orienting the client's attitudes and behavior towards other people.  
18 Years Experience
Online in San Anselmo, CA
Olympia, Washington therapist: Dr. Mandi Maycumber, therapist
BPD

Dr. Mandi Maycumber

Therapist, PsyD, LPCC, LMHC, SUDP
Having worked in addictions, community mental health, and forensic facilities, I have experience working with people who have borderline traits and complex PTSD.  
13 Years Experience
Online in San Anselmo, CA
San Diego, California therapist: Dr. Jen Bachtold, psychologist
BPD

Dr. Jen Bachtold

Psychologist, Ph.D., Certified Alcohol & Drug Counselor-II (CADC-II), Certified Clinical Trauma Professional, Specialist in Anger Management
As a licensed psychologist with experience working with those with borderline personality disorder (BPD), I am dedicated to providing compassionate and effective support to individuals living with this condition. My approach is based on evidence-based therapies and personalized strategies to help you manage symptoms and improve your quality of life.  
11 Years Experience
Online in San Anselmo, CA (Online Only)
Nashville, Tennessee therapist: PSYCHe, PLLC, psychologist
BPD

PSYCHe, PLLC

Psychologist, PhD, DBT-LBC™, LPC, PsyD, MSW, Marriage and Family Counselor, LCSW
Helping clients and families identify what they can change and what they can’t change is a major goal in DBT. In therapy, we help loved ones minimize their contributions to the problems (by invalidating) while also helping coach them in how to be real, transparent, and how to set their own limits. Learning how and when to validate is a huge part of the process.  
12 Years Experience
Online in San Anselmo, CA
San Francisco, California therapist: Dr. Lori Lynn Mann, marriage and family therapist
BPD

Dr. Lori Lynn Mann

Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, Psy.D.
I have extensive experience working with BPD.  
14 Years Experience
Online in San Anselmo, CA (Online Only)
Encino, California therapist: Sam Naimi, licensed clinical social worker
BPD

Sam Naimi

Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Psychotherapist & Psychoanalyst
What is often labeled as “borderline” or a "personality disorder" reflects adaptations to early relational environments that were chronically intense and inconsistent, not a defective person. Heightened emotional sensitivity and fears around closeness often develop as ways of staying connected and safe. In therapy, we focus on understanding how these patterns show up in the present, especially in relationships that matter. Over time, this work supports greater emotional stability, depth, and a more secure sense of self rather than short-term symptom control.  
8 Years Experience
Online in San Anselmo, CA
San Diego, California therapist: Heather Marriatori, psychologist
BPD

Heather Marriatori

Psychologist, PhD
I work with all personality disorders, with Borderline PD being at the forefront of trauma.  
13 Years Experience
Online in San Anselmo, CA
Carlsbad, California therapist: Diaspora Therapy Group, marriage and family therapist
BPD

Diaspora Therapy Group

Marriage and Family Therapist, DSW, LMFT
We provide compassionate, trauma-informed care for individuals living with borderline personality disorder. We focus on emotional regulation, identity development, relationship patterns, and distress tolerance using collaborative, skills-based approaches. Our work is non-judgmental and centers safety, stability, and empowerment.  
7 Years Experience
Online in San Anselmo, CA
Los Angeles, California therapist: Daniel Slavin, marriage and family therapist
BPD

Daniel Slavin

Marriage and Family Therapist
I work with individuals who experience intense emotions and relationship difficulties in a steady, structured, and compassionate way. Therapy focuses on increasing emotional awareness, stability, and the ability to feel safer and more connected in relationships.  
41 Years Experience
Online in San Anselmo, CA
Arcata, California therapist: Viktoria Walda Byczkiewicz, Ph.D., pre-licensed professional
BPD

Viktoria Walda Byczkiewicz, Ph.D.

Pre-Licensed Professional, PhD
Borderline Personality Disorder is generally characterized by difficulty in maintaining stable primary relationships due to unmet needs that show up as symptoms, such as being demanding or trying to control another person. People with BPD may truly desire intimacy, while at the same time, fear exposing their vulnerability and risking more pain and abandonment. If you suffer from BPD, you may be ambivalent in your relationships with others, often resulting in ongoing chaos or "drama." I can help you to uncover what lies beneath the behaviors that propel your interactions with others, and learn how to foster stable, reciprocal relationships.  
10 Years Experience
Online in San Anselmo, CA (Online Only)
Irvine, California therapist: Barry Ross, psychologist
BPD

Barry Ross

Psychologist, Ph.D.
I am a psychologist, marriage family therapist, bioenergetic analyst, and psychoanalyst with more than 30 years of clinical experience in treating adolescents, adults, and marital couples. I am skilled in helping a person to feel understood and related to in a new and helpful way.  
42 Years Experience
Online in San Anselmo, CA
Carlsbad, California therapist: Melanie Goetz, marriage and family therapist
BPD

Melanie Goetz

Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
I take an Ambivalent Attachment perspective, meaning that my view of BPD is that is a more severe expression of an Ambivalent Attachment style. In sessions, I will maintain a safe and predictable environment, supporting a space for each of us to be in charge of our own stories and emotional states. I'll be gentle in nonverbal and verbal communication, and, will model personal boundaries between and in sessions. We may incorporate EMDR or parts work into a primarily DARE approach of being with the felt-sense of connection, highlighting what feels safe and unsafe, trusting and mistrusting, predicable and chaotic. From a place of safe connection, we'll revisit the wounded parts from your past with nurturing openness and adaptability, while maintaining integrity and authenticity of your Core Self.  
10 Years Experience
Online in San Anselmo, CA
Fair Oaks, California therapist: Danielle Greenspan, LMFT, LPCC, marriage and family therapist
BPD

Danielle Greenspan, LMFT, LPCC

Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT 104395, LPCC 4889
I have extensive experience working with individuals with Borderline Personality Disorder. I use a client-centered approach to tailor interventions to fit my clients' needs. I particularly like using Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT) and use a strong therapeutic alliance to build trust within the therapeutic relationship to decrease symptoms and problem behaviors.  
11 Years Experience
Online in San Anselmo, CA
Queens, New York therapist: Julien Moe, hypnotherapist
BPD

Julien Moe

Hypnotherapist, Diploma in Clinical and Applied Hypnosis, Diploma in Life Coaching
BPD is a common disorder among many of my patients and my patients with this disorder are getting resilient in no time when I use my Integrated Dicit hypnotherapy. I train them to be self-aware when symptoms arise.  
10 Years Experience
Online in San Anselmo, CA

Borderline Personality Disorder therapists in San Anselmo, California Statistics

Borderline Personality Disorder therapists in San Anselmo, California average 15 years of experience and charge around $217 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The most commonly treated issues are Borderline Personality Disorder (100%), Anxiety or Fears (92%), and Depression (90%).

Average years in practice

15 Years Experience

Average cost per session

$217

Gender ID

60% Female
28% Male
7% Non-Binary
5% Gender Fluid

Session Type

65% In Person and Online
35% Online Only

Top Specialties

100% Borderline Personality Disorder
92% Anxiety or Fears
90% Depression
85% Trauma and PTSD
67% Codependency
65% Loss or Grief
65% Social Anxiety

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