Online Infidelity therapists in Santa Paula, California CA
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Hayden Dover MFT - Couples Therapy
Marriage and Family Therapist, MFT, CST
Dealing with infidelity is one of the most painful and confusing issues many couple have to deal with. I work with couples dealing with infidelity to do the challenging work of healing, addressing underlying issues and rebuilding trust. Often infidelity brings an end to the relationship but it can also bring to light underlying issues in the relationship that, when addressed, allow for a deeper more enduring connection.
22 Years Experience
Online in Santa Paula, CA
Anat Sideman
Marriage and Family Therapist, JD, MA, LMFT
Discovering that your partner has been unfaithful can feel like the ultimate betrayal. An affair can trigger past injuries and set off a relationship war. Where children are involved, the escalation of conflict can devastate the entire family. Gone untreated, infidelity can damage the relationship irreparably. As your therapist, I can help support you by creating a safe space where you can be heard and begin to understand each other’s feelings and actions. Divorce is not inevitable. Insight, repair, healing, renewed intimacy and commitment are possible.
11 Years Experience
Online in Santa Paula, CA
Russell Wilkie
Marriage and Family Therapist, MFT
Infidelity is one of the most complicated things I've ever dealt with as a therapist. It taps into so many areas that we feel deeply about: trust, faith, betrayal, self-esteem, self-doubt, true love, soul-mates, reconciliation, forgiveness, PTSD, and even our future. The most common question that I hear people ask is, "Why did it happen?" Unfortunately, the answer is often very complicated and hearing the answer is often less than soothing. We want to know why, because, we believe, if we understand it, we can prevent the pain of it happening again in the future. That is difficult to do, so we have to look at our understanding of how control plays a part in our psyche.
34 Years Experience
Online in Santa Paula, CA (Online Only)
Amy Price, AMP Family Therapy Inc.
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
When we are dealing with the rollercoaster of emotions following infidelity it is incredibly important to have someone walk alongside you or you and your spouse. A healing helper, a good listener, a person who can encourage you to go on and overcome betrayal is necessary.
23 Years Experience
Online in Santa Paula, CA
Integrative Psychotherapy Group
Marriage and Family Therapist
We work with clients who express issues or concerns with Infidelity.
10 Years Experience
Online in Santa Paula, CA
Brad Byrum
Marriage and Family Therapist, MA, MBA, LMFT
I support couples in recovering from the relationship trauma the occurs when emotional trust is destroyed through infidelity.
10 Years Experience
Online in Santa Paula, CA (Online Only)
Jennifer Warkentin
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
Infidelity can be one of the most cruel and painful experiences. I work with both betrayed partners and those who did the betraying to better understand how the cheating happened and then how to heal from it. We don't "move on" from infidelity but we can "move through" it and create stronger relationships.
18 Years Experience
Online in Santa Paula, CA (Online Only)
Michael Myette Therapy
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
I specialize in treatment for issues related to infidelity
19 Years Experience
Online in Santa Paula, CA (Online Only)
Piyola Derbarseghian- Sex & Relationship Therapist
Pre-Licensed Professional, MA, AMFT
Whether you're reeling from betrayal or working to repair trust after breaking it, healing from infidelity is possible. I help couples and individuals navigate the complex emotions, communication breakdowns, and identity shifts that often follow an affair. Together, we create a path forward, whether that's rebuilding the relationship with new foundations of honesty and connection, or finding clarity about next steps.
4 Years Experience
Online in Santa Paula, CA (Online Only)
Counseling For Couples, Families and Children, Dr Mickey
Marriage and Family Therapist, Ph.D., LMFT
I can help you rebuild trust after an affair
36 Years Experience
Online in Santa Paula, CA
Diaspora Therapy Group
Marriage and Family Therapist, DSW, LMFT
We support individuals and couples navigating the impact of infidelity. We help process betrayal, rebuild trust when desired, and clarify needs, boundaries, and next steps. Our work is structured, emotionally safe, and non-judgmental.
7 Years Experience
Online in Santa Paula, CA
Stefani Largent
Marriage and Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Affairs, Betrayal, Relationship Recovery, Reentering World of Dating
17 Years Experience
Online in Santa Paula, CA
Bonnie Rae
Marriage and Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Many years ago, I took a workshop with Esther Perel called the State of Affairs: A Clinical Approach to Infidelity Workshop. This helped inspire my work with infidelity, creating a shame and judgement free environment to explore infidelity and affairs with both couples and individuals.
14 Years Experience
Online in Santa Paula, CA
Jeremi R McManus
Marriage and Family Therapist, MFT
I have supported hundreds of couples over the past 15+ years who are working through infidelity or broken trust, and look forward to helping you get your relationship where you want it to be. Poor communication? Broken trust? Endless arguments? I look forward to hearing from you.
21 Years Experience
Online in Santa Paula, CA
James Foley Sexual Misbehavior, Infidelity , Expert 31 Years Experience
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW-R, SOTS,
I use my 31 years specialist experience in the treatment of the distorted thinking that creates infidelity, to help my clients correct that distorted thinking , and stop once and for all the self deception that creates that self destructive cheating behavior.
I have helped many men learn how the part of them that told them to engage in cheating was actually very irrational, not looking out for them, and that part was was ignoring the otherwise obvious fact that their life in objective terms was actually excellent, and that they had far more to lose than they told themselves at that time of that infidelity.
There is often some non-sexual thinking or strategies that also have to be corrected to decrease chances of a relapse, many times the man in question have taken strategies or styles of seeing things from some other time or part of his life , typically childhood, and that worked well for other parts of their life, and applied them later to his family or marriage, wrongly, and created problems that don't need to exist, and this can create a subjective negative view of the situation , that does not reflect the reality, that they then try to "escape" from with that infidelity.
I have great success with these men, and they learn how to be faithful, plus how to value their family/marriage, and how to be truly happy in what should be a happy situation.
29 Years Experience
Online in Santa Paula, CA
Lauree Berger Turman
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW 22044, LCSW 098456-01
Infidelity doesn't 'just happen.' You and your partner have disconnected and infidelity is the result of that disconnection. We will unpack how your lost each other, and find the way back, stronger and better.
31 Years Experience
Online in Santa Paula, CA
Sarah Wagner LMFT Corp
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, MBA
Infidelity can rupture trust at the deepest level, activating intense emotions such as anger, shame, grief, and fear. Using Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and attachment-based models, I help couples understand the underlying relational patterns that contributed to the breach while prioritizing emotional safety and accountability.
Through Internal Family Systems (IFS), we explore protective parts—such as defensiveness, withdrawal, or self-criticism—that may surface after betrayal. Therapy focuses on structured repair conversations, rebuilding trust through consistency and transparency, and determining whether reconciliation or conscious uncoupling is the healthiest path forward.
6 Years Experience
Online in Santa Paula, CA
Phillip McCulley
Marriage and Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CSAT
I work with individuals and couples dealing with the impact of infidelity, including situations where cheating is connected to sexual compulsivity or out of control sexual behavior. These experiences often bring intense emotions such as shock, anger, shame, grief, and confusion, and can leave both partners feeling unsure about what comes next.
In therapy, we focus on understanding what led to the infidelity and how compulsive sexual behavior may have played a role. This includes addressing patterns of secrecy, impulsivity, and emotional avoidance, while also helping the partner who was hurt process betrayal and regain a sense of stability and safety. I work with couples to slow the process down, create clearer boundaries, and begin rebuilding trust when repair is possible.
For some couples, therapy becomes a space to decide whether and how to continue the relationship. For others, it is about healing individually and establishing healthier patterns moving forward. My goal is to support honest accountability, emotional repair, and decision making that aligns with each person’s values and long term wellbeing.
22 Years Experience
Online in Santa Paula, CA
Naomi Zelin
Pre-Licensed Professional, APCC
I help individuals, couples, and polycules navigate the complex emotions and challenges that arise from betrayal. My goal is to facilitate healing, rebuild trust, and foster deeper understanding between partners. By integrating evidence-based therapies and providing a safe, non-judgmental space, I support you in addressing the underlying issues, improving communication, and creating a path toward a healthier, more resilient relationship.
3 Years Experience
Online in Santa Paula, CA (Online Only)
Marge Michaelson
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW, ACSW, DSW
Infidelity can cause immense pain to the person betrayed. It also can cause immense pain to the person who betrayed. Many times healing can create the strongest of relationships. Healing can also lead to separation with a growth in self understanding. Therapy can help determine your choice of path through support, grief work and insight.
41 Years Experience
Online in Santa Paula, CA
Infidelity therapists in Santa Paula, California Statistics
Infidelity therapists in Santa Paula, California average 16 years of experience and charge around $211 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The most commonly treated issues are Infidelity (100%), Relationship and Marriage Counseling (85%), and Anxiety or Fears (77%).
Average years in practice
16 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$211
Gender ID
| 57% |
Female |
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| 37% |
Male |
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| 3% |
Non-Binary |
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| 3% |
Gender Fluid |
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Session Type
| 62% |
In Person and Online |
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| 38% |
Online Only |
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Top Specialties
| 100% | Infidelity |
| 85% | Relationship and Marriage Counseling |
| 77% | Anxiety or Fears |
| 74% | Divorce |
| 72% | Depression |
| 69% | Trauma and PTSD |
| 67% | Loss or Grief |