Online Infidelity therapists in Cary, Illinois IL
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Infidelity
Mind Lodge
Therapist, LCPC
Infidelity can shake the foundation of trust in a relationship, but recovery is possible. We help individuals and couples process the pain, rebuild communication, and work toward healing and understanding.
21 Years Experience
Online in Cary, IL
Infidelity
Philadelphia Couples Therapy
Psychologist, PsyD
There was a period of time in our country where partners were expected to stay with their spouse after an affair. It was considered deeply shameful to divorce. The tables seem to have turned, however, as we now live in a more autonomous and self-realizing culture; it’s often expected that the ‘victim’ of an affair will leave the unfaithful spouse in order to make a statement of self-respect. Now, if you stay with your partner after they’ve had an affair, you may feel ashamed and humiliated, as though you’re not strong enough to leave. You may even hear from well-meaning friends and family that “you deserve better.”
Although the therapists at PCT are by and large hopeless romantics, we are also realists. We are under no illusions that romantic partnerships are easy, but we also know affairs happen for a multitude of reasons. Many cases of infidelity can be mended, repaired, and used as a growth opportunity for the couple. We are here to walk this excruciating journey with you- we know where the guideposts are, we know what recovery looks like. Sometimes you will feel like you’re backsliding, but it’s only a product of healing. It’s a confusing and painful experience, but often, in the end, absolutely worth it. We are here to help.
23 Years Experience
Online in Cary, IL
Infidelity
Alicia Stalker-Gallichio LMFT
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, SAP
At Alicia Stalker LMFT, I provide Infidelity Recovery Therapy as I recognize that infidelity can create emotional turmoil trust issues, and pain in relationships. Whether you are dealing with the aftermath of an affair or navigating the complex emotions surrounding betrayal, my therapy services are designed to provide a safe and understanding space for healing, I work with both partners affected by infidelity helping individuals process their feelings of hurt, anger, and confusion, We will explore the underlying issues that contributed to the infidelity foster pen communication and work toward rebuilding trust and intimacy.
21 Years Experience
Online in Cary, IL
Infidelity
Dr. George Lough
Psychologist, Ph.D., S.E.P.
Couples counseling can help heal the emotional wound caused by infidelity. In therapy you'll work through the issues that may have contributed to the infidelity, and have the opportunity to grow into a better couples relationship.
48 Years Experience
Online in Cary, IL (Online Only)
Infidelity
Dr. Shelley Sommerfeldt
Psychologist, Psy.D.
Infidelity can shake the very foundation of a relationship, leaving behind pain, confusion, and broken trust. I provide a safe, compassionate space to help you process the hurt, understand what happened, and decide the best path forward. Whether your goal is to heal together or find closure apart, we’ll work toward clarity, emotional recovery, and a stronger sense of self.
24 Years Experience
Online in Cary, IL (Online Only)
Infidelity
Bergen Counseling Collective
Counselor/Therapist, LCPC
The discovery changes everything. Trust that took years to build is shattered in a moment, and now you're both trying to figure out what comes next. Whether you're the one who was betrayed or the one who strayed, the path forward is painful and confusing. Can this be repaired? Should it be? How do you even begin? Our Gottman-trained clinicians specialize in helping couples navigate the aftermath of infidelity. We won't rush you toward forgiveness or push you toward divorce. We'll help you understand what happened, process the pain honestly, and make a clear-eyed decision about your future. Telehealth throughout Illinois. BCBS PPO and Aetna accepted.
20 Years Experience
Online in Cary, IL
Infidelity
Dina Hijazi
Psychologist, PhD, CSAT
The impact of infidelity can shake the foundation of trust, leaving behind confusion, pain, and a sense of betrayal. Whether you're the one who has been hurt or the one who strayed, therapy offers a structured and supportive space to process the emotional aftermath. I help individuals and couples navigate the complex layers of grief, guilt, anger, and uncertainty, while exploring the deeper patterns that may have contributed to the rupture. Through compassionate, insight-oriented work, we’ll focus on healing, rebuilding trust—whether in your current relationship or within yourself—and gaining clarity about the path forward.
35 Years Experience
Online in Cary, IL
Infidelity
Fatima Mohammad, Avec Counselling
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
I support individuals and couples navigating the impact of infidelity with compassion and honesty. Together, we work to process betrayal, rebuild trust, improve communication, and create clarity around what healing and moving forward can look like.
5 Years Experience
Online in Cary, IL (Online Only)
Infidelity
Dr. Adam Shafer (Chicago, IL)
Psychologist, Psy. D., M.A.
When we have been betrayed by those we have placed our trust in, we can wonder if we will ever be able to love and be open to others again.
17 Years Experience
Online in Cary, IL
Infidelity
The Caruso Wellness Center PLLC
Marriage and Family Therapist, DMin, MART, MA, ALMFT
Infidelity can be one of the most painful experiences a couple faces, often leaving behind deep feelings of betrayal, anger, shame, and uncertainty about the future. As an Adlerian couples therapist, I help partners understand not only what happened, but also the relationship dynamics that made healing so difficult. Whether your goal is to rebuild trust and reconnect or to gain clarity about the future of your relationship, I provide a structured, compassionate, and nonjudgmental environment where honest conversations can take place. Together, we work toward rebuilding accountability, forgiveness when appropriate, healthier communication, and a renewed foundation of mutual respect, cooperation, equality, intimacy and desire, and hope.
3 Years Experience
Online in Cary, IL
Infidelity
Bloom Behavioral Health Ptrs
Treatment Center, Psy'D, LPC, LMSW, CAADC, CCS
We help individuals and couples navigate the emotional impact of infidelity with compassion and honesty. We provide support for rebuilding trust, improving communication, processing betrayal, and exploring healing and relationship repair.
14 Years Experience
Online in Cary, IL
Infidelity
Mary Mesiha
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LICSW
Discovering or disclosing infidelity can be one of the most painful experiences in a relationship. The feelings of betrayal, confusion, and loss can leave both partners unsure of how to move forward. In therapy, I provide a supportive and nonjudgmental space to help you process the hurt, rebuild trust, and decide what healing looks like for you—whether that means repairing the relationship or finding peace on your own path.
27 Years Experience
Online in Cary, IL (Online Only)
Infidelity
Matthew Syzdek
Psychologist, PhD, LP, MBA
If you feel on edge, anxious, irritable, or just can't relax, there is a path forward towards a more fulfilling life. Don't gamble when choosing a therapist. You deserve a psychologist who will adapt the best science to your specific needs and goals. Many therapists themselves are burned out and can't give the best care to their clients. Dr Syzdek built a small boutique practice where he limits the number of clients he treats, so he can give his clients the time, thought, and dedication that they deserve. Dr Syzdek combines compassion with the science of behavior change to help you make the the difficult decisions in life and take action, so you can live a happier life, thrive at work, love your relationships, and have fun again. Dr Syzdek treats anxiety and related conditions typically using Acceptance and Commitment Therapy and exposure therapies. These approaches combine mindfulness, acceptance, and cognitive strategies to help you live your life again and find relief from the the struggle.
14 Years Experience
Online in Cary, IL
Infidelity
Merrisa Dawn Santos
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, NCC, CCTMHP, CCTP
In supporting individuals dealing with infidelity in their relationship or marriage, I provide a compassionate and nonjudgmental space for them to process their emotions and navigate the complexities of their situation. Through therapy, we explore the underlying factors contributing to the infidelity, such as communication issues, unmet needs, or underlying relationship problems. I offer strategies to cope with intense emotions such as anger, betrayal, or grief, and facilitate open and honest communication between partners. Additionally, we work on rebuilding trust, setting boundaries, and exploring the possibility of forgiveness and reconciliation if desired. My goal is to support individuals in making informed decisions about their relationship and ultimately finding healing and resolution, whether that involves rebuilding the relationship or moving forward separately.
5 Years Experience
Online in Cary, IL (Online Only)
Infidelity
Tim Jenkins
Counselor/Therapist, LCPC
Through the twenty year private practice career as a counselor, I have had a special interest in helping couples that were on the brink of divorce or separation. Many of them found themselves here due to infidelity. It is a special thing to help people to first understand infidelity; why it happens and what to do about it. Primarily, partners often feel that infidelity is their fault: that they did not do something well enough or that they are not attractive, pretty or handsome enough. That is the furthest thing from the truth. Infidelity most often happens due to sexual addiction, or due to the lack of feeling happy with one's self. When another shines their warm light of attention on you, and pays you lots of compliments, it can be very addictive to achieve that dopamine rush. There is also the element of the Coolidge effect. There is a biological thing that happens in animals. Males, (and to some extent females of the species) experience renewed sexual interest whenever a new partner is introduced.
This phenomenon comes about from an anecdote about Calvin Coolidge when he was President. The President and Mrs. Coolidge were being shown around an experimental government farm walking with two separate groups of reporters. When the first lady, whom was known to have a lot of moxie, came to the chicken yard she noticed that a rooster was mating very frequently. She asked the attendant how often that happened and was told, "Dozens of times each day." Mrs. Coolidge said, "Tell that to the President when he comes by." Upon being told this, President Coolidge asked, "Same hen every time?" The reply was, "Oh, no, Mr. President, a different hen every time." President: "Tell that to Mrs. Coolidge."
26 Years Experience
Online in Cary, IL
Infidelity
Cultivate Your Essence
Registered Psychotherapist, LPC, LCPC, MFT
The discovery of infidelity can create profound emotional pain, confusion, and loss of trust. At Cultivate Your Essence, we support individuals and couples navigating betrayal trauma, relationship repair, and difficult decisions about the future. Our goal is to provide a safe space for healing, communication, and emotional restoration.
8 Years Experience
Online in Cary, IL (Online Only)
Infidelity
Asher Lipner
Psychologist, Ph.D., SRT
Infidelity and broken trust can leave both partners feeling devastated, confused, angry, and emotionally disconnected. I work with individuals and couples dealing with the aftermath of secrecy, pornography use, affairs, compulsive sexual behavior, and betrayal trauma. My approach focuses on helping people move beyond defensiveness, shame, and blame toward greater honesty, emotional understanding, accountability, and rebuilding trust in a realistic and grounded way.
25 Years Experience
Online in Cary, IL
Infidelity
Nostos Psychotherapy
Psychologist, PsyD
We work with individuals and couples to help them be able to work through the pain of infidelity and work towards rebuilding a sense of trust and connection within the relationship.
12 Years Experience
Online in Cary, IL
Infidelity
Transformations Counseling PLLC
Counselor/Therapist
We help couples and individuals navigate the pain of betrayal, rebuild trust, and decide what healing looks like for them.
11 Years Experience
Online in Cary, IL
Infidelity
Dr. Ryan Kitts Schallon
Psychologist, PsyD
Infidelity breaks the story a couple has been telling about themselves. That is what makes it devastating — not just the betrayal, but the revelation that the relationship you thought you were in was not the one that was actually happening. For the person who was betrayed, the ground disappears. For the person who strayed, there is usually something they went looking for that they could not name inside the marriage, and sometimes could not name at all. Therapy after infidelity is not about deciding whether to stay or leave. It is about telling the truth — finally, fully — about what the relationship was, what it wasn't, and whether both people are willing to build something honest on what remains.
3 Years Experience
Online in Cary, IL
Infidelity therapists in Cary, Illinois Statistics
Infidelity therapists in Cary, Illinois average 18 years of experience and charge around $205 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The most commonly treated issues are Infidelity (100%), Anxiety or Fears (82%), and Relationship and Marriage Counseling (78%).
Average years in practice
18 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$205
Gender ID
| 56% |
Female |
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| 43% |
Male |
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| 1% |
Gender Fluid |
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Session Type
| 62% |
In Person and Online |
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| 38% |
Online Only |
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Top Specialties
| 100% | Infidelity |
| 82% | Anxiety or Fears |
| 78% | Relationship and Marriage Counseling |
| 77% | Divorce |
| 77% | Depression |
| 71% | Loss or Grief |
| 69% | Self Esteem |