Online Relationship and Marriage Counseling in Saint Louis, Missouri MO
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Kieri Olmstead
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
Most couples come to therapy having the same fight on repeat without understanding what the fight is actually about. At Simple Empathy we get underneath the conflict to the attachment needs, the unspoken expectations and the relational patterns that are driving the dynamic. Using Gottman Method, EFT and Collaborative Language approaches, we help couples stop being adversaries and start being partners again — or make clear-eyed decisions about what comes next. Five consecutive years recognized as Kansas City's top couples therapist. This is the work I was built for.
9 Years Experience
Online in Saint Louis, MO
The Joy of You
Hypnotherapist, CCHt, NWP, EP, B.Msc
The importance of premarital counseling is a fulfilling moment to enjoy the journey with truth of your joining of love.
5 Years Experience
Online in Saint Louis, MO
Christina Song
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT-S
I provide relationship and marriage counseling from a trauma-informed, systemic, and strengths-based perspective. I work with couples and partners to improve communication, navigate conflict, and deepen connection, while honoring each person’s individuality and life context. Therapy is a collaborative space to explore patterns, build relational skills, and strengthen trust and intimacy.
I have experience supporting traditional, queer, and ethically non-monogamous relationships, recognizing that each relationship has its own structure, needs, and challenges. Our work may focus on boundaries, negotiation, attachment dynamics, healing from relational trauma, and fostering shared meaning. My goal is to help partners develop healthier ways of relating—ones that feel authentic, equitable, and resilient—while respecting each person’s autonomy and capacity for growth.
10 Years Experience
Online in Saint Louis, MO
Benjamin Smalley, TherapyKC
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
Often, stress in relationships is a call to grow within yourself and your relational patterns. My practice provides a safe space for anyone wanting a healthier relationship. I help couples and families through relationship issues and all the complexity that surrounds them.
9 Years Experience
Online in Saint Louis, MO
Dr. George Lough
Psychologist, Ph.D., S.E.P.
With an objective third person present in the form of the therapist, couples can work through their issues, projections, expectations, disappointments, and regain their feelings of love and understanding of each other as partners.
48 Years Experience
Online in Saint Louis, MO (Online Only)
Norma J. Perez
Psychologist, PhD
I have been married over 43 years so I can tell you, relationships are hard but so worth it. I love working with couples to help them realize what really is normal and messy and how to navigate normal and messy. I will listen to you and your partner describe what each of you see as an issue, then hear your examples and teach each of you how you can approach the situation differently to give you a better outcome. Couples come in thinking they are going to tell me everything that is wrong with their partner and to fix them. I help individuals realize how their own actions can change the outcome. Once everyone focuses on doing their own work, then they see the desired outcome in the relationship. It sounds uncomfortable, but it's really a lot of fun and we laugh a lot.
22 Years Experience
Online in Saint Louis, MO
Growth and Change Counseling
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
We are experienced relationship and Marriage Counseling therapists and we can help you. One thing we want you to know is that conflict is your roadmap to intimacy, if you don't have conflict in a relationship, it means that at least one person is suppresssing needs, wants, and desires in order to please their partner and that will not last. When couples learn to do conflict in a healthy way they thrive and grow closer together. Call us today at 408-461-9658
8 Years Experience
Online in Saint Louis, MO (Online Only)
Raber Hamad
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, NCC, LPC
Does your relationship feel more like roommates than partners? Maybe there’s no joy, no affection—just two people living parallel lives, disconnected but telling yourselves everything is “fine.” Or maybe it’s the opposite—constant tension, high conflict, or the pain of betrayal that feels impossible to move past. You don’t have to stay stuck. I help couples rebuild trust, repair emotional wounds, and break free from the cycles that keep them feeling distant.
Couples therapy isn’t just about talking—it’s about proven, research-backed interventions tailored to your unique relationship challenges. Through a structured, three-phase approach, we work toward lasting change:
1. Assessment Phase – We start with a thorough evaluation to understand your relationship dynamics, strengths, and challenges. This includes structured interviews, questionnaires, and in-depth discussions to uncover the deeper patterns at play.
2. Intervention Phase – Using Gottman Method and Internal Family Systems (IFS), we focus on improving communication, rebuilding trust, and deepening emotional connection. You’ll gain tools to navigate conflict, express needs effectively, and strengthen intimacy.
3. Maintenance Phase – Once progress is made, we shift to reinforcing lasting change. You'll practice the skills learned in therapy to maintain connection, resilience, and continued growth in your relationship.
Every step is designed to help you break unhealthy cycles, reconnect, and build a relationship is proven to thrive.
6 Years Experience
Online in Saint Louis, MO
Igor Soloveychik
Psychologist, Psy.D., CSAT
Emotionally Focused Therapy with couples
22 Years Experience
Online in Saint Louis, MO
Dr. Nichole Vincent
Psychologist, PsyD
Whether you're stuck in a communication maze or navigating tons of arguments (over EVERY. LITTLE. THING). we'll team up to decode what needs are not being met underneath. I will teach you strategies for better communication to unlock empathy and connection, so you can level up your relationship game. No more "he said, she said" drama, let's replace it with "we conquered" victories!
15 Years Experience
Online in Saint Louis, MO (Online Only)
Merritt Posten Benz
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LSCSW, CDWF, MCLC
I completed advanced training in Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy. EFT can benefit couples who are struggling with conflict, distress, and poor communication and help improve emotion related problems and build connection. It can also help family members form more secure bonds with one another. EFT has also proven to be a powerful approach for couples dealing with infidelity or other more traumatic incidents, both recent and past and relies on the significance of secure attachment.
23 Years Experience
Online in Saint Louis, MO
Jenna Poppe
Pre-Licensed Professional, MA, NNC, PLPC | ADHD + Relationship Therapist
Relationships are hard! Asking for help is one of the bravest things a couple can do. I work with all types of couples navigating conflict, disconnection, trust, intimacy, ADHD dynamics, and the complicated work of building a life together. This is a space where both of you are heard, neither of you is the villain, and the goal is always a stronger, more connected partnership. Whether you are in crisis or simply want to grow together, you are in the right place!
4 Years Experience
Online in Saint Louis, MO
Dawning of a New Day Counseling & Coaching
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LSCSW, LCSW, CCP, CCTP, SAP
Relationships can be difficult! Communication & Conflict resolution skills are key to being able to build the connection you need to thrive in a relationship. Let me help you create the marriage you desire!
27 Years Experience
Online in Saint Louis, MO
Rising Calm Center
Professional Christian Counselor, MS, CMHC, CLC
The greatest factor in the quality of your life is the quality of your relationships. When love breaks down, everything else feels shaky. The distance grows, conversations turn tense or quiet, and what once felt natural starts to feel like work. You may be stuck in cycles of arguing, avoidance, or wondering if trust can ever be restored.
At Rising Calm Center, we believe every couple can learn to love more deeply—with honesty, empathy, and grace. Our Christian counselors help you heal from the past, understand the present, and build a future marked by peace, purpose, and partnership.
We even offer same-week appointments, in-person and virtual sessions, and a sliding fee scale that works with any insurance or budget—so care is flexible and accessible when you need it most.
We blend faith-based wisdom with proven relationship methods—Gottman Method, Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), family systems work, and communication coaching—to help you:
• Rebuild trust after conflict or betrayal
• Communicate clearly without criticism or withdrawal
• Heal old wounds that fuel anger, shame, or fear
• Strengthen friendship, intimacy, and shared spiritual connection
• Experience genuine joy and unity that lasts
Every conversation is grounded in empathy and truth. We help you slow down, listen well, and rediscover each other through the lens of grace.
Whether you’re newly married or years into a challenging season, there is hope. You can restore what’s been lost and create something stronger than before.
At Rising Calm Center, we help couples reconnect with purpose, love with courage, and grow together in Christ-centered peace.
Hope and healing can begin today—call or email for your FREE CONSULTATION.
14 Years Experience
Online in Saint Louis, MO
Robert Good
Counselor/Therapist, M.A., Th.M., LPC, CART
Marriage and couples counseling provides an arena where two people can learn to communicate individual needs and find ways to resolve relationship differences. All marriages go through difficult times. We are committed to helping couples identify the sources of dissatisfaction and conflict, and help couples develop new strategies for solving those problems. The goal of marriage counseling is the resolution of conflict: the development and strengthening of communication skills, and the growth of intimacy and mutual acceptance.
25 Years Experience
Online in Saint Louis, MO (Online Only)
Restoration Counseling Ministries
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT-S
Relationships are hard. Marriage is even harder. But we, as humans, are made for relationships. We need relationships! I come alongside people to help them learn or relearn how to have strong, thriving relationships.
31 Years Experience
Online in Saint Louis, MO
Chris Scarberry
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
I hold a Masters degree in Clinical Psychology with an emphasis in Marriage and Family Therapy. Whether I work with individuals, couples, or families, I look at the make-up of people's lives systemically. One's childhood experiences, family relationships, and attachment styles all create a framework for one's thought, behavior, and actions. There is always more going on with people than what is happening in the therapy room. I enjoy working with couples and families a great deal because it gets at some of these root concerns more effectively and can be more transformative for the individuals involved. I employ interventions from Gottman, Structural, and Strategic Family Therapy. I see couples at different points, wanting to maximize their relationship, wanting to save it, wanting to end things. I work with LGBTQ+ and non-monogamous couples and families on a regular basis as do the other therapists in our practice.
26 Years Experience
Online in Saint Louis, MO
Middle Path Wellness Collective
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW, LMSW, LPC, PLPC
We specialize in relationship and marriage counseling for couples who feel stuck in recurring arguments, emotionally disconnected, or unsure how to communicate in ways that actually bring them closer. Many couples come to therapy because they love each other but feel caught in patterns of misunderstanding, defensiveness, or distance. Our approach helps partners understand the emotional cycles beneath the conflict, improve communication, and rebuild trust and connection. Using evidence-based, attachment-informed methods, we help couples move out of blame and into a deeper understanding of each other so they can feel like a team again and create a more secure, supportive relationship.
19 Years Experience
Online in Saint Louis, MO
Dr Todd Giardina
Psychologist, PhD, Counseling Psychology
Even when I treat individuals, so often we end up doing a form of relationship counseling, because we ARE our relationships. The people in our life affect us, and learning how to set boundaries and communicate differently is always a part of my treatment. Of course, this is easier when I get to work with both members of a couple (or family), in that I can then "hear both sides of the story." I am able to "speak" both male and female languages, so I find I can aid in translating and getting everyone to feel heard. (As a male therapist, this defuses some of the hesitation many male partners have about approaching therapy).
19 Years Experience
Online in Saint Louis, MO
Better Together Mental Health
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW, LMSW
Our team includes therapists trained in the Gottman Method and Emotionally Focused Therapy. We know that relationships can be challenging and we want to help you strengthen your relationship. We see people in all kinds of relationships and support you having the types of relationship that will work for you.
26 Years Experience
Online in Saint Louis, MO
St. Louis sits at a crossroads of the Midwest and the South, and its deeply segregated geography shapes a mental health landscape where therapists frequently address racial trauma, economic stress, and community-level grief rooted in the city's long history of systemic inequality. The 2014 Ferguson uprising brought national attention to St. Louis and left a lasting psychological mark on many residents, and therapists specializing in racial trauma, activism fatigue, and community healing remain in strong demand. Washington University School of Medicine and Barnes-Jewish Hospital provide world-class institutional mental health resources, with a strong private practice community concentrated in Clayton, the Central West End, and South City. St. Louis's lower cost of living relative to coastal cities makes quality private therapy more financially accessible for many residents.
Relationship and Marriage Counseling therapists in Saint Louis, Missouri Statistics
Relationship and Marriage Counseling therapists in Saint Louis, Missouri average 18 years of experience and charge around $200 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The most commonly treated issues are Relationship and Marriage Counseling (100%), Anxiety or Fears (86%), and Depression (76%).
Average years in practice
18 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$200
Gender ID
| 57% |
Female |
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| 40% |
Male |
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| 2% |
Non-Binary |
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| 1% |
Gender Fluid |
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Session Type
| 64% |
In Person and Online |
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| 36% |
Online Only |
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Top Specialties
| 100% | Relationship and Marriage Counseling |
| 86% | Anxiety or Fears |
| 76% | Depression |
| 57% | Loss or Grief |
| 56% | Trauma and PTSD |
| 56% | Stress |
| 55% | Self Esteem |