Online Codependency therapists in Pelham, New Hampshire NH
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Amy Look
Psychologist, PhD, LP
Are you feeling overwhelmed by a constant need to please others, often at the expense of your own well-being? Do you struggle with setting boundaries, or making your needs known in relationships? Together, we'll work toward developing healthy boundaries, enhancing your self-esteem, and building fulfilling relationships without losing sight of who you are. If you’re ready to embark on this journey toward your authentic self, reach out now.
7 Years Experience
Online in Pelham, NH (Online Only)
XaHara A. MeGod
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LCPC, R-DMT, CPT
Codependency often shows up as overgiving, people-pleasing, or losing yourself in others’ needs. I gently guide you back to yourself—your desires, boundaries, and worth. Using relational and somatic tools, we’ll heal the patterns that keep you stuck in caregiving at your own expense, and practice what it means to love without losing yourself.
8 Years Experience
Online in Pelham, NH (Online Only)
Seven Hills Psychology
Psychologist, Psychologist
We offer individual and couples treatment for codependency concerns.
18 Years Experience
Online in Pelham, NH
GRIS ALVES
Counselor/Therapist, Compassionate Inquiry, Trauma Informed Mindfulness Teacher
I help clients struggling with codependency understand how early attachment experiences and relational patterns shape overgiving, people-pleasing, and boundary challenges. Using a trauma-informed, compassionate approach, we work to build self-awareness, emotional autonomy, and healthier, more balanced relationships. Therapy provides a safe space to break old patterns and reconnect with your authentic self.
11 Years Experience
Online in Pelham, NH
Jason Holland
Psychologist, Ph.D.
Codependency often involves over-functioning, people-pleasing, or feeling responsible for other people’s emotions and choices. We will sort through where these patterns came from, what they have cost you, and why they have been so hard to change. I help clients build healthier boundaries, stronger self-trust, and more balanced relationships that do not depend on guilt, fear, or over-responsibility.
25 Years Experience
Online in Pelham, NH
Dina Hijazi
Psychologist, PhD, CSAT
I help individuals break free from codependent patterns by fostering healthy boundaries, self-worth, and emotional independence. Using a blend of relational therapy, attachment-focused work, and psychoeducation, I support clients in understanding the roots of their codependency—often tied to early family dynamics or trauma—and guide them toward more balanced, fulfilling relationships. My goal is to help you reconnect with your own needs, values, and voice in a supportive, nonjudgmental space.
35 Years Experience
Online in Pelham, NH
Serenity Coaching & Counseling LLC
Counselor/Therapist, LMHC, LICSW, PsyD, LADC, LMFT, LCSW, MA
LMHC, LICSW, LCSW, LMFT, PsyD, MA
23 Years Experience
Online in Pelham, NH
MJB Wellness LLC
Hypnotherapist, Certified Hypnotherapist and Coach, Certified Sexological Bodyworker, Sex Educator, Certified Reiki
So many of my clients, no matter what issue they initially come in for, have issues related to setting boundaries, communicating with their partners, and consent. I find that before doing any other work with them, I must teach them about consent, setting boundaries, and understanding relationship dynamics. In my sexuality training, I had to learn Betty Martin's Wheel of Consent, which has become the gold standard worldwide for teaching about consent. Certainly, for clients I work with around sexual issues of relationship issues, teaching the Wheel of Consent is the first step. Understanding relationship dynamics for the first time in their lives puts many clients' problems into a new perspective and often resolves their issues without having to do any other work, though we usually do just to clear any residue of past hurts and anger. We often do hypnosis focused on strengthening boundaries and building internal resources so they go forward in a stronger more positive way.
8 Years Experience
Online in Pelham, NH
Peter Gould
Psychologist, Ph.D.
As a licensed clinical psychologist specializing in codependency, I provide compassionate and effective treatment for individuals involved in enmeshed relationships who seek to develop a stronger sense of self and establish healthier boundaries. My approach, informed by evidence-based therapies such as CBT and interpersonal therapy, is customized to address the unique needs of each individual.
22 Years Experience
Online in Pelham, NH (Online Only)
Heinig Health and Wellness Counseling
Psychologist, Ph.D. Clinical Psychology, M.S. Health Psychology, M.A. Clinical Psychology, PSYPACT Providers
We help individuals recognize and overcome patterns of codependency that can impact relationships, self-esteem, and emotional well-being. Through a supportive and collaborative therapeutic approach, we work with clients to develop healthy boundaries, strengthen their sense of self, improve communication skills, and reduce people-pleasing behaviors. Our goal is to empower clients to build more balanced, fulfilling relationships while fostering greater self-confidence, independence, and emotional resilience.
7 Years Experience
Online in Pelham, NH (Online Only)
Dr. George Lough
Psychologist, Ph.D., S.E.P.
Codependency and people-pleasing can be an adaptation to the environment in which we grew up. Understanding that our own needs are our legitimate concern, and setting boundaries so that these needs are met, is necessary to prevent burnout.
48 Years Experience
Online in Pelham, NH (Online Only)
Salvadore Coaching LLC
Life Coach, Holistic Life Coach, Certified Breathwork Instructor, Certified Hypnotist
Codependency often begins as care, loyalty, or sensitivity—but over time it can become self-abandonment. And when you abandon yourself, you don’t actually protect the relationship—you weaken it.
Oftentimes, many people find themselves over-functioning, people-pleasing, managing another’s emotions, or staying in relationships that require them to shrink their needs in order to keep connection. The result is often a combination of anxiety, resentment, exhaustion, and a loss of clarity about what they actually want.
In our work together, we aim to de-escalate these patterns and explore what they’ve been protecting: perhaps a fear of conflict, abandonment, guilt, or the belief that love must be earned through sacrifice. We build practical skills for boundaries, self-trust, and direct communication, so you can stay connected without losing yourself. The goal is not to become “less caring,” but to create relationships that include you—relationships where care and reciprocity can coexist.
14 Years Experience
Online in Pelham, NH
Dr. Ryan Kitts Schallon
Psychologist, PsyD
Codependency is not loving too much. It is having learned, very early, that your survival depended on monitoring someone else's emotional weather — that your needs were safest when they were invisible, even to you. The exhaustion of it is real. So is the terror of stopping. Therapy is not about learning to stop caring for others. It is about recovering the self that went underground in order to make all that caretaking possible.
3 Years Experience
Online in Pelham, NH
Paul W Anderson, PhD
Psychologist, Licensed counseling psychologist, Licensed Addictions counselor, PsyPact
How much better to put your mind and energy to taking care of your self and depending on your own efforts than to believe you can't be OK unless you qualifier (addict) gets sober. I can help and guide you on how to get into your own recovery and long lasting sobriety.
45 Years Experience
Online in Pelham, NH (Online Only)
Dr. Jeff J. Rocker
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, PH.D, NCC, LMHC, LCPC, LPC
Rocker Health has experienced and competent staff to deal with these issues.
15 Years Experience
Online in Pelham, NH
South Psychology
Psychologist, PhD
Are you caught in a cycle of codependency, where your well-being is entangled with others? At South Psychology, we specialize in providing compassionate mental health services to break free from these patterns and foster healthier relationships.
Our Approach:
Understanding Codependency: Our experienced therapists recognize the signs of codependency. We explore the roots of these behaviors and guide you toward healthier dynamics.
Individualized Treatment: We tailor our interventions to your unique needs. Whether you’re struggling with boundary-setting, low self-esteem, or caretaking tendencies, we’re here to support you.
Holistic Healing: Our holistic approach considers emotional, psychological, and relational aspects. We empower you to reclaim your identity and build resilience.
How We Can Help:
Therapy for Codependency: Through evidence-based therapy, we address distorted relationship dynamics, self-worth issues, and dependency patterns.
Skills Building: Learn healthy communication, assertiveness, and self-care techniques. Break free from the cycle of over-giving and neglecting your own needs.
Supportive Environment: South Psychology provides a safe space to explore vulnerabilities, heal past wounds, and create healthier connections.
8 Years Experience
Online in Pelham, NH
Charles R. Davenport, Psy.D.
Psychologist, Licensed Psychologist
Dr. Charles R. Davenport provides specialized therapy for individuals struggling with codependency. Codependency often involves prioritizing the needs of others over one’s own, leading to unhealthy relationship dynamics and a loss of personal identity. Dr. Davenport utilizes evidence-based therapeutic techniques to help clients recognize and break free from these patterns.
Through cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) and psychodynamic approaches, Dr. Davenport assists clients in understanding the root causes of their codependent behaviors. He helps them develop healthier boundaries, improve self-esteem, and foster more balanced and fulfilling relationships. Mindfulness techniques are also incorporated to enhance self-awareness and emotional regulation.
Dr. Davenport’s compassionate and supportive approach ensures that clients feel safe to explore their behaviors and make meaningful changes. By offering telehealth services in over 40 states, he makes it convenient for clients to access the care they need, regardless of their location. Dr. Davenport is dedicated to empowering individuals to reclaim their independence and build healthier, more satisfying relationships.
21 Years Experience
Online in Pelham, NH
Aysha DeSilva
Psychologist, Psy.D.
I support individuals who struggle with codependency and patterns of losing themselves in relationships. Using psychodynamic therapy, interpersonal therapy, acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT), and EMDR, I enjoy helping clients understand the underlying experiences that add to these patterns while building healthier relationships and a stronger sense of self.
4 Years Experience
Online in Pelham, NH (Online Only)
Dr. Brian M. Berman
Psychologist, Psy.D.
I specialize in the treatment of codependency and utilize elements of self-compassion, communications skills and emotion focused therapy (EFT) to help clients improve boundary setting .
22 Years Experience
Online in Pelham, NH
Laura Silva, LicMHC - Online/Virtual Therapy
Counselor/Therapist, Traditional, Integrative, Heart Centered counseling. Coach, Educator, Depth Therapy.
Codependency may be known or unknown. Always looking to please the other, or not having value and belief in yourself over the opinions of others, or attracting wrong people into your life who drain you - these and much more are signs of codependency patterns. My work is a path of codependency recovery. While looking at deeper roots contributing to codependent behaviors and thinking. Email for free consultation call
46 Years Experience
Online in Pelham, NH (Online Only)
Codependency therapists in Pelham, New Hampshire Statistics
Codependency therapists in Pelham, New Hampshire average 19 years of experience and charge around $201 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The most commonly treated issues are Codependency (100%), Anxiety or Fears (90%), and Depression (85%).
Average years in practice
19 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$201
Gender ID
| 60% |
Female |
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| 34% |
Male |
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| 3% |
Gender Fluid |
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| 3% |
Non-Binary |
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Session Type
| 52% |
Online Only |
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| 48% |
In Person and Online |
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Top Specialties
| 100% | Codependency |
| 90% | Anxiety or Fears |
| 85% | Depression |
| 77% | Self Esteem |
| 73% | Stress |
| 72% | Loss or Grief |
| 58% | Social Anxiety |