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Online Perfectionism therapists in Ocean Acres, NJ

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New York City, New York therapist: Chrissie Chua- Ly van manh, counselor/therapist
Perfectionism

Chrissie Chua- Ly van manh

Counselor/Therapist, LMHC-D, LPC
I work with many high-achieving, hardworking individuals who often define their identity, worth, and sense of meaning through productivity, performance, and external success. While these strengths can lead to accomplishment and reliability, they can also create pressure, burnout, and a persistent sense of never feeling “enough,” no matter how much is achieved. Perfectionism often shows up as self-criticism, difficulty resting, fear of failure, people-pleasing, or feeling anxious even during moments of success. Many clients come to me feeling exhausted by their own standards, yet unsure how to slow down or step away from the patterns that have helped them succeed. In our work together, we explore the deeper roots of perfectionism- often shaped by past experiences, family expectations, or learned beliefs about worth and achievement. At the same time, we focus on practical ways to challenge rigid thinking patterns, reduce anxiety, and develop a more balanced and compassionate relationship with oneself. My goal is to help clients begin to separate their identity from their productivity, reconnect with what actually matters to them, and build a life that feels not only successful on the outside, but also grounded, sustainable, and meaningful on the inside.  
10 Years Experience
Online in Ocean Acres, NJ (Online Only)
Irvine, California therapist: Melissa Berschauer, marriage and family therapist
Perfectionism

Melissa Berschauer

Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
Holding yourself to impossible standards usually results in a lot of anxiety and procrastination rather than actual satisfaction. Feeling burned out is sometimes the next level of perfectionism. I help you untangle your worth from your productivity, allowing you to breathe a little easier without losing your drive.  
14 Years Experience
Online in Ocean Acres, NJ (Online Only)
Manhattan, New York therapist: Resilience Therapy Group, therapist
Perfectionism

Resilience Therapy Group

Therapist, LCSW, LMHC, LMSW, MHC-LP, PMH-C
When nothing ever feels good enough, success can come at a steep cost to your peace. Our clinicians help you understand where the pressure comes from, soften the relentless inner critic, and build standards that motivate you without running you into the ground.  
11 Years Experience
Online in Ocean Acres, NJ
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Greenwich, Connecticut therapist: Allison Falzone, therapist
Perfectionism

Allison Falzone

Therapist, LMSW
Perfectionism often looks like high achievement on the outside while creating significant stress on the inside. Constant overthinking, fear of mistakes, difficulty resting, and feeling like nothing is ever good enough can take a toll on mental health and relationships. I help clients understand the underlying drivers of perfectionism and develop a healthier, more flexible way of relating to themselves.  
4 Years Experience
Online in Ocean Acres, NJ
Englewood, New Jersey therapist: Aranya Edmonds, pre-licensed professional
Perfectionism

Aranya Edmonds

Pre-Licensed Professional, LAMFT / LAC
I help individuals struggling with perfectionism, self-criticism, and internal pressure. Perfectionism often creates anxiety, burnout, and difficulty feeling satisfied or at ease. Therapy focuses on reducing self-judgment, strengthening self-trust, and developing a healthier, more sustainable relationship with achievement and self-worth.  
3 Years Experience
Online in Ocean Acres, NJ (Online Only)
Jersey City, New Jersey therapist: Madeline Salerno, licensed clinical social worker
Perfectionism

Madeline Salerno

Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
Madeline works with clients struggling with perfectionism, self-pressure, and fear of failure to develop greater flexibility, self-compassion, and balance.  
10 Years Experience
Online in Ocean Acres, NJ
Montclair, New Jersey therapist: Therapy With You, licensed clinical social worker
Perfectionism

Therapy With You

Licensed Clinical Social Worker, MSW, LCSW
We provide treatment for a wide range of mental health concerns, tailoring care to each individual’s unique needs and experiences.  
6 Years Experience
Online in Ocean Acres, NJ
Charlotte, North Carolina therapist: Dr. Mike Lee, psychologist
Perfectionism

Dr. Mike Lee

Psychologist
In therapy, I help individuals understand the emotional and relational patterns beneath perfectionistic striving, so that they can relate to themselves with greater freedom, flexibility, and self-trust. The aim is not to lower one’s standards, but to loosen the grip of harsh self-demand and make room for a fuller, more livable way of being.  
13 Years Experience
Online in Ocean Acres, NJ
Miami Beach, Florida therapist: Adrian Pinckney, licensed clinical social worker
Perfectionism

Adrian Pinckney

Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
I work with clients to improve emotional regulation, strengthen interpersonal relationships, and foster lasting personal growth and self-awareness.  
4 Years Experience
Online in Ocean Acres, NJ (Online Only)
Saint Louis, Missouri therapist: Dr. Brittany Jacobson, psychologist
Perfectionism

Dr. Brittany Jacobson

Psychologist, PhD, CST
Perfectionism often looks like high standards on the surface, but underneath can be a fear of failure, criticism, or not being enough. I help you understand the roots of these patterns while gradually loosening their grip. Together, we will work toward a more flexible, self-compassionate way of relating to yourself and your goals. This way you can still be productive but also feel more at peace.  
10 Years Experience
Online in Ocean Acres, NJ
Washington, Washington, D.C. therapist: Maria Jose Rendon, psychologist
Perfectionism

Maria Jose Rendon

Psychologist, Ph.D.
I work with adults whose perfectionism has stopped serving them, professionals and scientists who are high performing but burning out int he workplace and privately exhausted by their own inner critic. My approach is Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, trained through the Beck Institute, which helps identify the specific thought patterns driving perfectionistic behavior and build a more sustainable relationship with achievement. Many of my clients are first-generation Latinx professionals, for whom perfectionism is often tied to family expectations and the pressure of being the first to do what they do. Sessions are structured and goal-oriented, so progress is something you can see and track, not just feel.  
9 Years Experience
Online in Ocean Acres, NJ (Online Only)
Salt Lake City, Utah therapist: Juniper Mental Health, psychologist
Perfectionism

Juniper Mental Health

Psychologist, PhD
Perfectionism is not problematic for everyone, but for some, the drive to always do more and be better can have a negative impact on their daily stress, relationships, and take away from the life they want to be living. We have several providers on our team who have authored books and research on this very topic. Reach out to consult with our perfectionism specialists to discuss treatment.  
8 Years Experience
Online in Ocean Acres, NJ (Online Only)
Philadelphia, Pennsylvania therapist: Blair Pallas, licensed clinical social worker
Perfectionism

Blair Pallas

Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
Perfectionism often feels like a shield, but it’s actually a weight that leaves you feeling "less than." When the fear of mistakes becomes paralyzing, my approach helps you identify the "all-or-nothing" stories keeping you stuck. Together, we’ll practice "imperfection" at a manageable pace, shifting the focus from impossible standards to your actual values. By learning to tolerate the discomfort of being human, you’ll gain the freedom to take risks and finally show up as your authentic self.  
10 Years Experience
Online in Ocean Acres, NJ (Online Only)
Apex, North Carolina therapist: Marina Harris, Bloom Psychology Group, psychologist
Perfectionism

Marina Harris, Bloom Psychology Group

Psychologist, PhD, HSP-P, CMPC
Many of my clients have extremely high standards for themselves and base their self-worth on their ability to meet those standards. Usually perfectionism works to a certain point in their life - until it doesn't. On the inside, it can feel like nothing is ever quite good enough, rest feels unearned, and perfectionists can feel like they're one mistake away from a total meltdown. I help high-achievers loosen perfectionism's grip without losing their edge. I help performers work to be ambitious and at peace with themselves. To strive in a healthy way, and still feel like enough.  
6 Years Experience
Online in Ocean Acres, NJ (Online Only)
Westfield, New Jersey therapist: Dr. Vanessa Vitiello, psychologist
Perfectionism

Dr. Vanessa Vitiello

Psychologist, Licensed Clinical Psychologist
I help individuals understand and shift patterns of perfectionism that contribute to anxiety, self-criticism, and burnout. Together, we work toward developing more flexible, compassionate ways of relating to yourself.  
11 Years Experience
Online in Ocean Acres, NJ (Online Only)
Lawrence, Kansas therapist: Shannon Gorres, life coach
Perfectionism

Shannon Gorres

Life Coach, MDiv, MA
I used to joke that I'm a "recovering perfectionist," but trying to recover from it might just be another way of holding ourselves to someone else's standard (of not being "uptight" or "too good" or something). I think the real key is to figure out what our internal compass really wants to point us to. If we were born to pay attention and excel, let's do that in a way that helps us and others thrive, with less shame and stress when we mess up. I'm an Enneagram 1 (I lead with a personality type that can be called "perfectionist" or "idealist"). Maybe you are an Enneagram 1, or a 2 (a people pleaser), or 3 (an achiever). Or maybe you weren't born this way, but your parents pressured you into perfectionism. However perfectionism intersects with your personality, let's find a way to honor its gifts while asking it to rest a bit so other parts of you can also shine.  
11 Years Experience
Online in Ocean Acres, NJ
Chester, New Jersey therapist: Heather Watson-Perez, psychologist
Perfectionism

Heather Watson-Perez

Psychologist, PhD
I help individuals who struggle with perfectionism, high self-criticism, and fear of making mistakes. Therapy focuses on shifting rigid thinking patterns, reducing pressure, and building a healthier, more flexible mindset. Clients learn to pursue goals with balance, self-compassion, and greater satisfaction.  
21 Years Experience
Online in Ocean Acres, NJ
Chicago, Illinois therapist: Andrew McKenzie, Psy.D., psychologist
Perfectionism

Andrew McKenzie, Psy.D.

Psychologist
Perfectionism often begins as an attempt to stay safe, earn approval, or avoid disappointment, but over time it can become exhausting. Rather than fighting those perfectionistic parts of yourself, we'll become curious about what they're trying to protect and how they learned to take on that role. Together, we'll cultivate greater self-compassion and psychological flexibility so you can pursue excellence without being controlled by impossible standards. You can still have high aspirations while giving yourself permission to be fully human.  
15 Years Experience
Online in Ocean Acres, NJ
Bainbridge Island, Washington therapist: Alyssa Smyth, psychologist
Perfectionism

Alyssa Smyth

Psychologist, PhD
If you hold yourself to very high standards yet rarely feel satisfied with your efforts, perfectionism may be driving constant pressure beneath the surface. While striving for excellence can be a strength, perfectionism often brings self-criticism, worry about mistakes, and difficulty slowing down. Therapy focuses on understanding these patterns and developing healthier ways to pursue high standards without the chronic strain.  
6 Years Experience
Online in Ocean Acres, NJ
Salem, Oregon therapist: Kaijah Bjorklund, counselor/therapist
Perfectionism

Kaijah Bjorklund

Counselor/Therapist, LPC, LMHC
Perfectionism isn't about caring too much about quality — it's usually about fear. Fear of failure, of judgment, of being exposed as not enough. It often began as a smart survival strategy in an environment where mistakes felt dangerous. But somewhere along the way, the inner critic that helped you stay safe started running the show, and now nothing you do ever quite feels like enough. I work with perfectionism through IFS — getting to know the parts that drive it with curiosity and compassion, rather than just trying to think your way out of patterns that live much deeper than thought.  
12 Years Experience
Online in Ocean Acres, NJ (Online Only)

Perfectionism therapists in Ocean Acres, New Jersey Statistics

Perfectionism therapists in Ocean Acres, New Jersey average 12 years of experience and charge around $211 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The most commonly treated issues are Perfectionism (100%), Anxiety or Fears (87%), and Depression (82%).

Average years in practice

12 Years Experience

Average cost per session

$211

Gender ID

72% Female
21% Male
5% Gender Fluid
2% Non-Binary

Session Type

55% Online Only
45% In Person and Online

Top Specialties

100% Perfectionism
87% Anxiety or Fears
82% Depression
79% Stress
76% Social Anxiety
76% Self Esteem
71% Life Transitions

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