Online Borderline Personality Disorder therapists in New York City, New York NY
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John D. Gartner
Psychologist, Ph.D.
BPD is very treatable, but it's important to see a specialist.
I began my practice after completing a post-doctoral fellowship in Treatment of Borderline Disorder at New York Hospital-Cornell Medical Center, using the methods pioneered Dr. Otto Kernberg. For the last 5 years, I've integrated some aspects of Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) into my practice, especially mindfulness meditation.
42 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY
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Staci Des Rault
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC. M.Div
I have over 18 years of experience in counseling for Borderline Personality Disorder.
14 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY (Online Only)
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Sally Roesch
Licensed Professional Counselor, Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, NCC
I'm experienced in working with those who may be struggling with relationship issues, Narcissistic tendencies, mood disorders, impulse behavior, and anxiety. I help clients improve communication, assertiveness, and self-worth. My goal is to help you clarify desires, address obstacles, and achieve your goals. I'm committed to providing direct, effective support; no tiptoeing around.
10 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY (Online Only)
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Patricia Petrone
Registered Psychotherapist, LMHC, NCC, CMHIMP, CNC
Borderline Personality Disorder can be truly debilitating. I am here to offer you hope for the future through our work together. My goal is to help you to feel and be your best self again by exploring why these issues are presenting and how we can get you back on track. Call me today.
18 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY
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Dr. Christopher Lowery, DHSc, CLCP
Clinical Health Practitioner, Board-Certified Life Care Planner
This component focus on emotional regulation, interpersonal effectiveness, coping strategies, and building stability to support personal goals.
24 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY
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Mary Gale Gurnsey
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
If you or your partner struggle with BPD traits, therapy can help. I help you understand emotional dysregulation, develop skills for managing intense emotions, and build more stable, secure relationships using DBT and EFT approaches.
18 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY (Online Only)
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Mona Lee Yousef
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW-R, CASAC-2, CADC, CCDC, MAC
Psychoanalyst with extensive experience engaging and treating those struggling with Borderline states and difficulties.
35 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY
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Danielle Esses
Psychologist, PsyD
Borderline personality disorder often involves intense emotions, painful relationship patterns, fear of abandonment, impulsivity, or feeling unsure of who you are. I have advanced training in DBT, the gold-standard treatment for BPD. Treatment focuses on helping you better understand these patterns, build more effective coping strategies, and create greater stability in your emotions and relationships.
8 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY
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Rebecca Mitchell
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW, MSEd, SIFI
Borderline personality disorder is often misunderstood — by clinicians, by loved ones, and sometimes by the people living with it. What looks like instability from the outside is frequently a nervous system that learned to respond to an unpredictable world. In Manhattan, I work with adults navigating BPD using IFS and EMDR, approaches that address the emotional dysregulation at its roots rather than simply managing it at the surface.
10 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY
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Chris Colasuonno
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW-R, MBA, CASAC
Often clients with borderline personality disorder feel intense emotions which can be difficult to understand. Chris has worked with many clients with borderline personality disorder and helps provide coping skills to understand the issues. Often clients with BPD can feel intense rage or abandonment where there emotions are difficult to process. Individuals can be valid for their feelings and perceptions but it is important to communicate them in a calm way. Chris works well in this area by offering coping skills to provide stable healthy long term relationships.
16 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY
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Jim Stangarone
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW, Certified psychodramatist (CP)
Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) is a complex diagnosis that involves a wide range of feelings and emotions that can be very destructive not only to the individual, to for loved ones as well. There is an overall sense of chaos frequently associated with BPD, including a deep sense of helplessness and despair. Our work together focuses on emotional control, self-reflection, and the exploration of your goals in life.
21 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY
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Healing Space Therapy Collective
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC-QS, CST
Our approach focuses on emotional regulation, relationship stability, and developing a stronger sense of self through structured, skill-based support.
11 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY
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Maria T. Alonso, Ph.D.
Psychologist
I support individuals diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) through evidence-based treatments designed to stabilize emotions and improve interpersonal relationships. One of the most effective therapies for BPD is Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), which combines cognitive-behavioral techniques with mindfulness practices. DBT helps individuals develop skills in emotional regulation, distress tolerance, interpersonal effectiveness, and mindfulness. This helps reduce self-destructive behaviors and enhances overall wellbeing. Additionally, I incorporate Schema Therapy that can help address deeply ingrained patterns of thinking and behavior by helping individuals understand and change maladaptive schemas developed from past experiences. By utilizing these evidence-based approaches, I aim to provide a structured and supportive environment where individuals with BPD can work towards greater emotional stability, helathier relationships and improved quality of life.
29 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY
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Julien Moe
Hypnotherapist, Diploma in Clinical and Applied Hypnosis, Diploma in Life Coaching
BPD is a common disorder among many of my patients and my patients with this disorder are getting resilient in no time when I use my Integrated Dicit hypnotherapy. I train them to be self-aware when symptoms arise.
10 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY
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Therapy With You
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, MSW, LCSW
We provide treatment for a wide range of mental health concerns, tailoring care to each individual’s unique needs and experiences.
6 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY
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Jenn Coonce
Licensed Psychoanalyst, Licensed Psychoanalyst, New York State
If you've had a diagnosis of Borderline Personality Disorder or suspect you have it, it can feel like a stigma. But it is possible to work toward having a productive, satisfying life while living with Borderline Personality Disorder. Through a cooperative, supportive relationship with the right therapist, you can learn how to cope with the unique challenges you face due to your disorder. Psychotherapy for this disorder works well in tandem with psychiatric treatments to manage medications, or other treatments, if applicable.
16 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY
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Jonathan Schnapp
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
Borderline personality disorder can involve intense emotions, shifting moods, and challenges in relationships that can feel overwhelming or hard to make sense of. In our work together, we focus on creating a steady, nonjudgmental space where these experiences can be explored with care and curiosity. Over time, we’ll work toward understanding the underlying patterns, strengthening your ability to manage emotional intensity, and building more stable, fulfilling connections with yourself and others.
15 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY
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Adrian Pinckney
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
I help clients build emotional regulation, improve self-understanding, strengthen relationships, and develop healthier ways to cope with life's challenges.
4 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY (Online Only)
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Sam Naimi
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Psychotherapist & Psychoanalyst
What is often labeled as “borderline” or a "personality disorder" reflects adaptations to early relational environments that were chronically intense and inconsistent, not a defective person. Heightened emotional sensitivity and fears around closeness often develop as ways of staying connected and safe.
In therapy, we focus on understanding how these patterns show up in the present, especially in relationships that matter. Over time, this work supports greater emotional stability, depth, and a more secure sense of self rather than short-term symptom control.
8 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY
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Michelle Foster
Counselor/Therapist, LCSW
With clients diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD), I primarily use Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) to help them develop skills in emotion regulation, distress tolerance, interpersonal effectiveness, and mindfulness. This approach provides clients with practical tools to manage intense emotions and build healthier relationships.
9 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY (Online Only)
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Borderline Personality Disorder therapists in New York City, New York Statistics
Borderline Personality Disorder therapists in New York City, New York average 15 years of experience and charge around $220 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The most commonly treated issues are Borderline Personality Disorder (100%), Depression (93%), and Anxiety or Fears (83%).
Average years in practice
15 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$220
Gender ID
| 60% |
Female |
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| 30% |
Male |
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| 5% |
Non-Binary |
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| 5% |
Gender Fluid |
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Session Type
| 73% |
In Person and Online |
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| 27% |
Online Only |
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Top Specialties
| 100% | Borderline Personality Disorder |
| 93% | Depression |
| 83% | Anxiety or Fears |
| 77% | Trauma and PTSD |
| 67% | Stress |
| 67% | Codependency |
| 60% | LGBTQ+ Issues |