Infertility therapists in Kelowna, British Columbia BC, Canada CA

Trying to conceive or adopting a child is emotionally stressful, physically taxing, and can impact you greatly. Bonding with the new baby from conception to delivery, and postpartum is an integral part of raising an emotionally healthy child and family.  

Kristie understands that infertility brings with it grief, loss and frustration. Processing these difficult emotions is an important part of healing. She can also support you as you try to shift your mindset and allow a baby into your life. For couples undergoing IVF treatment, a fertility counselling session is a requirement at most fertility treatment centers. Kristie can meet with you and send a report to your doctor, as is often requested.  

Both infertility and/or adoption can be very stressful for the family, it is a major transition of life which includes loss of identity, anger, depression, marital problems, social isolation, self-esteem and much more. Therapy can be helpful to deal with this positively, be happy and healthy.  

Struggling with infertility can be a lonely and grief-stricken experience. Often the stress related to fertility can take both an emotional and physical tool on the body, and therapy gives you time and space to be able to process feelings and explore your options. Many couples who struggle with infertility often consider adoption as an option. The decision to adopt a child takes considerable time and comes with unique challenges. Therapy helps you to better prepare for the adoption process pre and post placement.  

I did my Master's research on the experience of infertility. Its impact on a person's life and relationship is enormous. Learning how to navigate through the unrecognized grief and loss is critical for healing. I have spoken and written articles on infertility and adoption. I am an adoptive parent and it is important to recognize that adoption is NOT a cure for infertility. Unresolved infertility can in fact sabotage the bonding relationship with an adopted child. I would be honoured to work with any couple on this important issue which can destroy a relationship, but can also enhance it if the issue is worked through.