Infidelity is very common and often leads to a number of problems. Sometimes it is with consent of the other person/s and there are many different concepts of how people like to construct relationships. However, if it is not agreed upon in a monogamous relationship it needs to be addressed. What are the reasons that caused one or both partners to seek something elsewhere? How do both partners want to deal with what has happened? What perspectives do they have and how will they decide to behave now and in the future? How can fears, anger, distrust and pain be addressed?
Infidelity within a relationship can be devastating and have far reaching effects across the wider family and friendship group. Whether you are the one engaged in an affair or have been on the other end, I will work with you in an empathic way to understand what you would like for yourself ongoing. Affairs do not have to be the end of the relationship, but can help us to look at what was not working in the relationship.
Psychologist, Consultant Clinical Psychologist (HCPC registered), PhD, MSc, MSc, MSc, MA (Econ), BA (Econ) Hons
Infidelity is simply a form of dishonesty and betrayal, but the devastation and hurt that it leaves in its wake is almost indescribable. However, infidelity is not always an inevitable end of a relationship. It is important to identify what can be salvaged, and what cannot be salvaged.
Counsellor/Therapist, Prof. Adv. Dip. PC, Dip. Hyp, Dip. CBT/REBT, Dip. EFT, Dip. SBA, MA Psychosynthesis Psychology
I am a Psycho-Spiritual Counsellor offering bespoke services using a combination of holistic and complementary intervention to help and support you through your experiences during the infidelity by exploring your mindsets and beliefs surrounding the promiscuous behaviour and action tendencies, including a reflection on the moral or ethical dilemma.