Anger Management therapists in Havant, England
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Anger Mgmt
Mandy Randall-Gavin MBACP, UKATA
Counsellor/Therapist, BA Hons, Dip TA Prac: UKATA
If you suffer with Anger issues and struggle to manage them, one of the best therapeutic approaches for this is Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT). This therapy effectively helps individuals recognise the link between their thoughts, feelings, and behaviours that contribute to their anger. Research indicates that CBT yields better outcomes in managing anger compared to no treatment at all. CBT utilizes several techniques to enhance emotional regulation, thereby giving you symptomatic relief. We will work through these techniques together, and may include: Mindfulness and relaxation exercises, Cognitive Restructuring and Stress Inoculation Training.
14 Years Experience
In-Person Near Havant, ENG
Online in Havant, England
Anger Mgmt
Sara Aicart-Pendlebury
Art Therapist, Human Givens Practitioner (HG.Dip.P), Member of Human Givens Institute, IFS therapist Levels 1&2, Narm Practitioner
Road rage, plane rage, even art-gallery rage (when an exhibition is too crowded) are becoming all too familiar terms and are just some of the forms that over-the-top anger can take in modern-day life. Excessive anger can have an obvious trigger or else seem to occur out of the blue; and it can ruin lives, as work and relationships suffer. Excessive anger always results from stress and essential emotional needs not being met. That’s why the human givens approach, which focuses on helping people in distress find healthy ways to meet their emotional needs, is so successful.
The ability to get angry is natural. It is part of the ancient ‘fight or flight’ survival mechanism, which evolved to help our long-distant ancestors survive when, faced with attack from wild animals or invading tribes, they either had to stand up for themselves or flee. The pulse races, adrenalin surges, breath gets fast and shallow, blood surges into the muscles of the legs and arms and the body gets flooded with stress hormones, all so that we are ready to take action if we decide to act aggressively to ward off something or someone. Once action has been taken, the feelings subside.
But, today, there are far fewer occasions when threat is as real and physical as just described. If we get frustrated or feel angry with the boss, we may have to keep those feelings to ourselves, which leaves them circulating with no obvious way of being discharged. Or we may become more and more wound up by little annoyances that build up over the day until we reach a point when, over something seemingly trifling, we snap. There are many other circumstances that can lead us to have lower tolerance for irritations – for instance, overtiredness, feeling ill or hungry, hormonal changes, chronic pain or addictive cravings.
Sometimes people have a tendency towards anger because of chronic low self-esteem, which usually stems from abuse or neglect during childhood. As adults, they may never feel good or worthy enough and tend to lash out if they perceive themselves as slighted in any way. Mild brain damage can cause a loss of impulse control and aggression. And people on the autistic spectrum are often more prone to angry outbursts because of their difficulties and frustrations in trying to relate to other people and make sense of the social world.
More often than is realised, aggression is triggered by fear and sometimes it is a long-forgotten fear. For instance, a man who, as a child, was locked in a tiny dark space under the stairs as a punishment, may lash out, seemingly inexplicably, at his wife when she wants him to check the space under their stairs for damp. This is because an ‘alarm system’ in our brain, called the amygdala, accesses our emotional memories and, on the basis of previous experience, alerts us to anything that may represent a risk. Because the stair cupboard experience was so traumatic and frightening, it stays ‘live’, causing the man to experience terror all over again, usually without knowing why. Sometimes, too, repeated and seemingly inexplicable anger outbursts stem from ‘pattern matching’ to a shocking situation in childhood, when anger was felt but, at the time, suppressed.
Fortunately, people can be helped to deal with their anger, whatever its cause. Human givens practitioners will show people how to calm themselves down quickly (this is essential, as high emotional arousal makes us stupid, stopping us from listening to reason); encourage them to take exercise (doing enjoyable physical activity is a great way to discharge accumulated stress); and help them to examine and change their self-talk – having hostile thoughts only harms us – and to look at situations from other people’s perspectives as well as their own.
Simple, effective techniques can be used to resolve anger outbursts arising from incidents in the past, so that these cease to occur in the future.
Finally, human givens practitioners will help people explore what needs are not being met in their lives, which may be fuelling anger – for instance, a lack of a sense of achievement or status or control or connection with others may cause feelings of inferiority and hostility. Experiencing uncontrollable or excessive anger always means that something is not working well in a person’s life. No one is naturally an ‘angry’ person; they are just, temporarily, overcome by anger and can learn how to cease to be its victim.
17 Years Experience
Online in Havant, England
Anger Mgmt
Leonie M Dippenaar
Life Coach, BWRT® Master Coach | Certified Hypnotherapist (CHT) | Ethno Psychology Practitioner (EPP)
I help clients understand what is beneath their anger rather than simply learning to suppress it. We identify the triggers, subconscious patterns, and emotional responses driving the reaction, then develop new ways of responding with greater calm, self-control, and confidence.
18 Years Experience
Online in Havant, England (Online Only)
Anger Mgmt
Sheelagh Brown
Psychologist, Psychologist, CBT Therapist, Executive Coach
Anger is more often than not an expression of other emotions being overwhelmingly experienced. Find out more about your anger and how to manage it
24 Years Experience
Online in Havant, England
Anger Mgmt
Beth Jackson Counselling and Coaching
Counsellor/Therapist, BA (hons), Diploma in Therapeutic Counselling, Diploma in Clinical Supervision
Living with angry outbursts can feel isolating and create shame. I can work with you to look for triggers as we find elements that can we worked on quickly to find you the resolutions you need.
7 Years Experience
Online in Havant, England
Anger Management therapists in Havant, England Statistics
Anger Management therapists in Havant, England average 15 years of experience and charge around ¤144 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The top treatment approaches are Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) (61%), Integrative Therapy (54%), and Person-Centered Therapy (Rogerian) (46%).
Average years in practice
15 Years Experience
Average cost per session
¤144
Accept insurance
33%
Offer sliding scale
43%
Gender ID
| 60% |
Female |
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| 40% |
Male |
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Session Type
| 65% |
In Person and Online |
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| 35% |
Online Only |
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Top Treatment Approaches
| 61% | Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) |
| 54% | Integrative Therapy |
| 46% | Person-Centered Therapy (Rogerian) |
| 33% | Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT) |
| 31% | Existential / Humanistic Therapy |
| 31% | Psychodynamic Therapy |
| 26% | Behavioral Therapy |
Ages Served
| 98% | Adult |
| 59% | Senior |
| 57% | Teen |
| 56% | Young Adult |
| 30% | Children |
Client Focus
| 65% | Women |
| 56% | Men |
| 46% | LGBTQ+ |
| 44% | Persons with Disabilities |
| 35% | Black / African American |