Infidelity therapists in Portland, ME
Browse Infidelity therapists in Portland, Maine. Compare credentials, specialties and therapeutic approach. Contact a therapist to learn more.
Dr. Tracy Mallett
Psychologist, Psy.D., L.M.F.T., Licensed Psychologist
Infidelity can be one of the most painful and destabilizing experiences a couple can face. The discovery of an affair often brings intense emotions—shock, anger, sadness, guilt, confusion—and leaves both partners questioning what is real, what went wrong, and whether repair is possible.
I specialize in helping individuals and couples navigate the emotional aftermath of infidelity with honesty, compassion, and structure. Therapy provides a safe space to slow down the chaos, understand the deeper dynamics that contributed to the rupture, and begin to rebuild a sense of safety and clarity.
For couples seeking reconciliation, our work may include establishing emotional transparency, rebuilding trust through consistent and verifiable actions, and learning new ways to communicate about pain and vulnerability without escalating conflict. For those uncertain about the future of their relationship, therapy can help clarify each partner’s needs and boundaries, and support respectful decision-making about next steps.
For individuals recovering from infidelity—whether betrayed or betraying—therapy focuses on understanding emotional patterns, rebuilding self-worth, and making sense of the experience in a way that fosters growth rather than lasting shame or resentment.
My approach integrates cognitive-behavioral and attachment-based strategies to address both the emotional and practical aspects of recovery. Together, we work toward healing, accountability, and—when possible—renewed trust and intimacy built on a stronger foundation than before.
22 Years Experience
Online in Portland, ME (Online Only)
Jillian Luz
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, ATR
I have experience working with clients who have engaged in or experienced infidelity in their relationships. Together, we will explore the roots of the issue(s) and support you in healing.
11 Years Experience
Online in Portland, ME (Online Only)
Dr. David Brooks
Psychologist, PhD,ABPP,ABN,EMDR Certified Therapist
Provide desensitization of upset related to infidelity and improvement in self-esteem creating a sense of more entitlement and less tendency to engage in or sustain relationships where partner commits infidelity.
37 Years Experience
Online in Portland, ME
Erin Severe
Psychologist, Psy.D.
Have you experienced infidelity in your relationship? Whether you're looking to repair and move forward or separate and move on, I specialize in helping individuals and relationship heal past hurt and strengthen their connections using the Gottman Method as well as Emotionally focused couples therapy.
18 Years Experience
Online in Portland, ME (Online Only)
Kari Carter
Life Coach, APSATS certified, ACC, CPC, ADOH
Infidelity is more than a breach of trust - it is often experienced as trauma. Discovery can trigger shock, hypervigilance, intrusive thoughts, and a deep loss of safety. I specialize in working with individuals impacted by affairs, and relational deception using a partner-sensitive, trauma-informed approach. Rather than minimizing the harm or rushing toward forgiveness, my work prioritizes stabilization, validation, and clarity.
Whether you are seeking answers, rebuilding trust, or discerning the future of your relationship, I provide structured support to help you regulate your nervous system, establish boundaries, and reclaim your voice. Healing from infidelity requires more than communication tools - it requires safety, truth, and steady guidance.
3 Years Experience
Online in Portland, ME (Online Only)
Infidelity therapists in Portland, ME Statistics
Infidelity therapists in Portland, ME average 19 years of experience and charge around $217 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The top treatment approaches are Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) (70%), Family Systems Therapy (39%), and Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT) (39%).
Average years in practice
19 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$217
Accept insurance
32%
Offer sliding scale
28%
Gender ID
| 57% |
Female |
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| 43% |
Male |
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Session Type
| 58% |
In Person and Online |
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| 42% |
Online Only |
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Top Treatment Approaches
| 70% | Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) |
| 39% | Family Systems Therapy |
| 39% | Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT) |
| 37% | Person-Centered Therapy (Rogerian) |
| 37% | Psychodynamic Therapy |
| 35% | Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) |
| 30% | Eclectic Therapy |
Ages Served
| 100% | Adult |
| 68% | Young Adult |
| 54% | Senior |
| 42% | Teen |
| 14% | Children |
Client Focus
| 54% | Women |
| 49% | Men |
| 37% | LGBTQ+ |
| 28% | Military / Veterans |
| 23% | Hispanic / Latino |