Debbie Allen, A Safe Place To Share
Therapist, Betrayal Trauma Therapist & Coach, Sex & Porn Addiction Therapist & Coach. Visit my website 👇
Online in Multiple States
Alaska, Arizona, California, Colorado, Connecticut, Delaware, Florida, Georgia, Idaho, Illinois, Indiana, Iowa, Kentucky, Louisiana, Maine, Maryland, Massachusetts, Michigan, Minnesota, Mississippi, Missouri, Montana, Nebraska, Nevada, New Hampshire, New Jersey, New Mexico, New York, North Carolina, North Dakota, Ohio, Oregon, Pennsylvania, Rhode Island, South Carolina, South Dakota, Tennessee, Texas, Utah, Vermont, Virginia, Washington, Washington, D.C., West Virginia, Wisconsin, Wyoming
(Online Only)
Has betrayal shattered your sense of safety and trust? Are you struggling with sex or pornography addiction, compulsive sexual behaviours, or the devastating impact these experiences can have on your relationship? You don’t have to navigate this alone.
I’m a Sex Addiction Therapist & Coach and Partner Trauma Therapist & Coach, with advanced clinical training through the International Institute for Trauma and Addiction Professionals (IITAP). I specialize in betrayal trauma, infidelity, sex and pornography addiction, compulsive sexual behaviours, and relationship recovery.
My approach is client-centred, attachment-based, and grounded in compassion, authenticity, and a deep understanding of the emotional wounds that betrayal and addiction can create. I provide a safe, confidential, and judgment-free environment where you can speak openly, feel understood, and begin making sense of what you’ve experienced.
Whether you’re struggling to regain your footing after betrayal, seeking recovery from compulsive sexual behaviours, or trying to rebuild trust and connection, I will meet you where you are. Together, we will work toward emotional safety, healthier boundaries, greater self-awareness, and meaningful, lasting change.
For those navigating the immediate aftermath of discovering betrayal, I also offer Post-Discovery Rapid Response, a specialized 90-minute coaching session designed to provide support, stabilization, and direction during those first overwhelming hours and days.
A Safe Place To Share is more than a name. It’s a place to be heard, a place to heal, and a place to rediscover hope.
Reach out today for a complimentary meet-and-greet consultation. Please visit my website for more information asafeplacetoshare.com
Client Focus
Session Format: Couple, Individual sessions.
Age Specialty: Adult, Senior, Young Adult
Demographic Expertise: Men, Women clients.
Treatment Approach
- Cognitive Processing Therapy (CPT) An evidence-based treatment for PTSD that teaches clients to reframe unhelpful thoughts about trauma. It helps reduce guilt, shame, and fear.
- Compassion-Focused Therapy (CFT) Builds skills in self-kindness and compassion toward others. It is especially helpful for people who struggle with shame or self-criticism.
- Narrative Therapy Encourages people to view problems as separate from themselves and reframe their life story. It helps build resilience and self-identity.
Fees & Insurance
Insurance
- Out of Network
Education & Credentials
Debbie Allen, A Safe Place To Share Betrayal Trauma Therapist & Coach, Sex & Porn Addiction Therapist & Coach. Visit my website 👇
- Female
- Practicing Since 2010
Education: 2010-2014 Mental Health Physician
2014-Completed my education with the International Institute for Trauma & Addiction Professionals (IITAP) as a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist • 2021 Partner Trauma Therapist (IITAP) •
2025 Betrayal Trauma Coach •
2026 Trauma Healing Coach •
Debbie Allen, A Safe Place To Share Practice Details
Therapy Sessions
- Available Online for residents of Multiple States Alaska, Arizona, California, Colorado, Connecticut, Delaware, Florida, Georgia, Idaho, Illinois, Indiana, Iowa, Kentucky, Louisiana, Maine, Maryland, Massachusetts, Michigan, Minnesota, Mississippi, Missouri, Montana, Nebraska, Nevada, New Hampshire, New Jersey, New Mexico, New York, North Carolina, North Dakota, Ohio, Oregon, Pennsylvania, Rhode Island, South Carolina, South Dakota, Tennessee, Texas, Utah, Vermont, Virginia, Washington, Washington, D.C., West Virginia, Wisconsin, Wyoming
- Online Therapy Details: Through secure, confidential, virtual sessions, I provide professional therapy & coaching and support through Zoom, offering a private and accessible space to begin or continue your healing journey. Virtual coaching provides the flexibility to access specialized support from the comfort and privacy of your own space, while working around your schedule, and individual needs. Whether you are seeking support with betrayal, trauma, sex and intimacy concerns, addiction recovery, emotional challenges, coping strategies, or navigating a difficult season of life, my sessions are designed to help you gain clarity, develop healthy coping tools, and move towards meaningful and sustainable change. Sessions are conducted, face-to-face through secure video, allowing you to receive personalized support wherever you are. You don’t have to navigate this journey alone. Wherever you are in your journey, I welcome you. Let me meet you where you are.
Discovering an affair, secret pornography use, compulsive sexual behaviors, or other forms of sexual betrayal, can turn your world upside down. You may find yourself questioning what is real, struggling to trust your own instincts or wondering whether you will ever feel safe again. At a Safe Place To Share, you will find compassionate, confidential, and non-judgmental support from someone who understands the complex impact of betrayal and addiction. My practice specializes in betrayal trauma, recovery therapy & coaching, sex and pornography addiction, infidelity recovery, betrayed partner support, boundaries, discernment for individuals engaged in affairs, rebuilding trust, attachment, and family of origin work. Therapy & Coaching is individualized to meet you where you are, whether you have just discovered a betrayal, been living with uncertainty for years, are deciding what you want for your relationship or are working towards meaningful recovery from problematic sexual behaviors. My approach goes beyond simply managing symptoms. Together, we explore the patterns, experiences, and emotional wounds that may be keeping you stuck while helping you develop greater self trust, emotional clarity, healthy boundaries, accountability, and confidence in your next steps. You may not have chosen what brought you here, but you can choose what happens next.
A Safe Place To Share offers, secure online, betrayal trauma, and sex addiction recovery coaching, providing accessible, specialized support for clients seeking a knowledgeable, educated and compassionate guide through the recovery process. For more detailed information about me check out my website below.