Sex therapists in New York City, New York NY
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Forest Williams
Life Coach, ICF
As a trans man with 7 years experience with ethical non-monogamy, nothing is too taboo -- LGBTQ, kink, non-monogamy, etc. All is welcome here.
7 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY New York (Online Only)
Liberation Therapy
Counselor/Therapist, LMHC
I offer sex therapy from a sex-positive, trauma-informed, and non-judgmental perspective. Before becoming a therapist, I worked as a professional dominatrix, and I now work therapeutically with many current and former sex workers, as well as people exploring diverse expressions of sexuality and relationship structures. I have presented at the AltSex Conference in New York City, and much of my clinical work involves helping people navigate desire, shame, identity, intimacy, boundaries, kink, power dynamics, and communication. I welcome individuals and couples of all orientations, gender identities, and relationship styles, and I strive to create a space where you can talk about sex openly and honestly without fear of being judged, pathologized, or misunderstood.
5 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY New York (Online Only)
Ren Lee
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
I work with couples and other relationship configurations on issues around intimacy and sex. I specialize in working with folks who are in kink, BDSM, and Leather communities.
6 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY New York (Online Only)
Daniel Kessler
Psychologist, PsyD., LP. DBSM
Dr. Kessler works with couples and individuals with sexual issues, difficulty relaxing to enjoy sex and intimacy, mismatched sexual desire, enhancing intimacy and connection after children, difficulties with communication relating to sex and intimacy, erectile dysfunction, premature or delayed ejaculation, sexual anxiety, sexual shame, and compulsive or out-of-control sexual behavior. We use a variety of techniques, including CBT, sensate focus, sex therapy, and couples counseling. Many issues can be addressed in individual therapy, others are best addressed in couples counseling. We can address questions about treatment and treatment options during your free initial consultation
30 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY New York (Online Only)
Jon Prezant
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW, MA, CST
As an AASECT-certified sex therapist, I work with individuals and couples on the full range of sexual concerns, desire discrepancies, arousal and function difficulties, mismatched sexual styles, kink and identity exploration, sexual shame, and the quieter dissatisfactions that are harder to name. My work is non-judgmental, sex-positive, and grounded in the reality that sex rarely sits apart from the rest of a person's life.
8 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY New York (Online Only)
Zaray Dratch
Pre-Licensed Professional, MFT-LP
Sex is one of the last things couples talk about in therapy, and usually one of the first things that signals something is wrong. Low desire, mismatched libidos, pain during sex, difficulty with arousal or orgasm, feeling disconnected from your own body or from your partner, these are real, common, and treatable. They are also almost never just about sex.
What happens in the bedroom is connected to everything else, trust, communication, stress, history, how safe you feel, how seen you feel. Sex therapy here doesn't treat the symptom in isolation. It looks at the whole picture.
This is a space where you can say the thing you've been too embarrassed to bring up anywhere else. What's not working. What you want but haven't asked for. What used to feel good and doesn't anymore. What you've never tried but want to. Nothing you say will land with shock or judgment. These conversations are normal here, because they should be normal everywhere.
Whether you're coming as a couple or on your own, the goal is the same: helping you have a sexual life that actually feels good, connected, and like yours.
1 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY New York (Online Only)
Joanna Vergoth
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW, NCPsyA
Sexual concerns are often deeply intertwined with attachment patterns, trauma history, shame, and relational dynamics. I provide psychosexually informed therapy that integrates trauma-focused, psychodynamic, and relational approaches. Whether addressing desire discrepancies, intimacy challenges, sexual anxiety, or trauma-related sexual difficulties, we work collaboratively to create safety and openness. Therapy supports reclaiming sexuality as a source of connection, agency, and authentic expression rather than fear or obligation.
27 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY New York (Online Only)
Len Ramsay
Registered Psychotherapist, Gestalt Therapist , M.B.A.
Dont give up on sex. Most people are more open and available and interested when they are more free from the stuckness of unfinished business .
13 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY New York (Online Only)
Dr. Ingrid Solano
Psychologist, PhD
Sex therapy is a form of counseling intended to help individuals and couples resolve sexual difficulties, such as performance anxiety or relationship problems. I support couples in restoring trust, rebuilding intimacy, and reigniting healthy, passionate sex. Some choose to attend sessions alone; others bring their partner with them. Session frequency and length usually depend on the client and the type of problem being addressed.
Sexual health is an essential part of overall emotional and physical well-being. But if you’re experiencing a sexual problem, the last thing you probably want to do is talk about it. However, you aren't alone! 43 percent of women and 31 percent of men report some degree of sexual dysfunction.
Sex therapy is a type of psychotherapy that also takes into account possible physical problems. For this reason (among others), sex therapy requires special training. When a couple comes in with a sexual problem, we try to figure out how each of them could be contributing to the issue. We examine what is going on, gradually interpret this in the context of their sexual history/experiences, tease apart cultural/societal influences, and come up with solutions
Sex therapy utilizes a variety of approaches to treat sexual dysfunction. In addition to the techniques outlined by Masters and Johnson, sex therapy includes cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT), emotion-based therapy, and couples communication techniques. It’s important to know that sex therapy sessions do not involve any physical contact or sexual activity. I usually assign “homework”—practical activities that clients are expected to complete in the privacy of their own home.
15 Years Experience
In-Person in New York City, NY
Online in New York City, NY New York
Paula Kirsch
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW, CST
Sex therapy is just therapy — about one of the most human parts of being alive. I work with concerns about desire, arousal, pain, orgasm, and intimacy in a way that is direct, nonjudgmental, and clinically grounded. Nothing you bring here will shock me. We will talk about it plainly, and we will actually work on it.
12 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY New York (Online Only)
Dr. Stéphanie Gamache, PhD
Hypnotherapist, PhD
Sex therapy addresses concerns related to desire, arousal, intimacy, and sexual self-expression within the broader context of emotional and relational life. My work integrates psychoanalytic methods, clinical sexology, hypnosis, and somatic awareness to explore the deeper meanings beneath sexual struggles. Together, we work toward a more coherent, embodied, and authentic relationship with desire and intimacy.
7 Years Experience
Online in New York City, NY New York (Online Only)
New York City has the largest and most diverse therapy community in the world, with practitioners representing virtually every therapeutic modality, cultural background, and specialty area. The city's pace, density, and cost of living generate pervasive anxiety and burnout, while its diverse boroughs mean therapists fluent in dozens of languages serve communities from every corner of the globe. Columbia University Irving Medical Center, NYU Langone Health, and Weill Cornell Medicine anchor an extensive academic mental health infrastructure, supplemented by thousands of independent practitioners across Manhattan, Brooklyn, Queens, the Bronx, and Staten Island. New York's therapy culture is deeply embedded — many residents maintain years-long therapeutic relationships and consider finding the right therapist one of the more important decisions they make.
Sex Therapy therapists in New York City, New York Statistics
Sex Therapy therapists in New York City, New York average 14 years of experience and charge around $226 per session. 96% offer online sessions. The top treatment approaches are Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) (54%), Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) (50%), and Relational Psychotherapy (46%).
Average years in practice
14 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$226
Accept insurance
32%
Offer sliding scale
57%
Gender ID
| 47% |
Female |
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| 29% |
Male |
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| 13% |
Gender Fluid |
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| 11% |
Non-Binary |
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Session Type
| 50% |
Online Only |
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| 46% |
In Person and Online |
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| 4% |
In Person Only |
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Top Treatment Approaches
| 54% | Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) |
| 50% | Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) |
| 46% | Relational Psychotherapy |
| 43% | Somatic Therapy |
| 39% | Psychodynamic Therapy |
| 36% | Existential / Humanistic Therapy |
| 32% | Multicultural Therapy |
Ages Served
| 89% | Adult |
| 57% | Young Adult |
| 54% | Senior |
| 36% | Teen |
| 14% | Children |
Client Focus
| 75% | LGBTQ+ |
| 64% | Women |
| 46% | Men |
| 39% | Jewish |
| 32% | Hispanic / Latino |