Codependency therapists in The Dalles, Oregon OR
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Chuck Chapman
Counselor/Therapist, LPC
Many men don’t realize they are struggling with codependency because it doesn’t look like the stereotypical picture. You might be the responsible one, the dependable one, the one who tries to avoid conflict and keep the peace. You care deeply, you try hard, and you want the people you love to be happy. But somewhere along the way, your relationships may have become built around managing other people’s feelings instead of expressing your own. You may say yes when you mean no, suppress your frustration to avoid an argument, or carry the emotional load of the relationship in silence. Over time, this leads to resentment, exhaustion, emotional disconnect, and the quiet belief that your needs don’t matter—or worse, that having needs makes you selfish.
This is what I call Nice Guy Syndrome. It’s not about being kind; kindness is good. It’s about abandoning yourself in the hope of earning love, approval, or peace. The irony is that the more you try to be “the good guy,” the more distant, frustrated, or shut down the relationship can become. You lose your voice, your leadership, and your sense of self.
My work with Nice Guys is about helping you come back to yourself. We learn to identify your needs, set boundaries that protect connection rather than threaten it, and speak with clarity instead of walking on eggshells. We explore where these patterns came from and how they’ve shaped your relationships. This isn’t about becoming a jerk or swinging to the opposite extreme. It’s about becoming a Confident Husband—a man who leads with presence, stands in integrity, expresses himself honestly, and loves from a grounded, open heart. You don’t need to earn love. You need to show up as the man you actually are.
16 Years Experience
Online in The Dalles, OR Oregon (Online Only)
Shelley Klammer
Counselor/Therapist, MTC, REACE, FOT, CHyp
If you are a heart-centred, empathic woman, you might have challenges setting healthy boundaries with people and could be stuck in fawning, pleasing, and appeasing patterns to feel safe and connected. I can support you in defining your values and setting either flexible or non-negotiable boundaries, depending on the circumstances. I can help you move through self-doubt and into your authentic self-expression. The therapy that I offer is in-depth and often involves going back to the inner child, where your inner defense patterns and relationship patterns began, to initiate deep emotional healing and safety.
20 Years Experience
Online in The Dalles, OR Oregon (Online Only)
Kelsey Williams, Cosmic Reflections
Pre-Licensed Professional, Professional Counselor Associate, Certified Meditation Teacher
Codependency is often a form of self-abandonment that we learned from our relational models. We'll explore your relational contexts and what drives codependency to unlearn self abandonment and re-learn how to stand strong within yourself.
7 Years Experience
Online in The Dalles, OR Oregon
Angelica Amaya
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW,LICSW
I specialize in helping clients understand and heal patterns of codependency that can keep them feeling stuck, anxious, or disconnected from their authentic selves. Together, we work to build healthier boundaries, strengthen self-worth, and create more balanced, fulfilling relationships. My approach is compassionate, trauma-informed, and focused on helping you develop the confidence to meet your own needs without guilt or fear.
21 Years Experience
Online in The Dalles, OR Oregon (Online Only)
Karen Queller
Art Therapist, M.A Expressive Arts Therapy
I can guide and support individuals dealing with codependency by facilitating creative processes that encourage self-exploration, fostering self-awareness, and empowering them to establish healthy boundaries and cultivate self-care practices.
7 Years Experience
Online in The Dalles, OR Oregon
Codependency therapists in The Dalles, Oregon Statistics
Codependency therapists in The Dalles, Oregon average 15 years of experience and charge around $190 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The top treatment approaches are Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) (57%), Internal Family Systems (IFS) (57%), and Somatic Therapy (51%).
Average years in practice
15 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$190
Accept insurance
46%
Offer sliding scale
60%
Gender ID
| 54% |
Female |
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| 30% |
Male |
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| 9% |
Gender Fluid |
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| 7% |
Non-Binary |
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Session Type
| 54% |
Online Only |
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| 46% |
In Person and Online |
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Top Treatment Approaches
| 57% | Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) |
| 57% | Internal Family Systems (IFS) |
| 51% | Somatic Therapy |
| 43% | Person-Centered Therapy (Rogerian) |
| 37% | Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) |
| 34% | Compassion-Focused Therapy (CFT) |
| 34% | Relational Psychotherapy |
Ages Served
| 100% | Adult |
| 74% | Young Adult |
| 71% | Senior |
| 37% | Teen |
| 23% | Children |
Client Focus
| 69% | Women |
| 66% | LGBTQ+ |
| 57% | Men |
| 46% | Buddhist |
| 46% | Military / Veterans |