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Portland, Oregon therapist: Chuck Chapman, counselor/therapist
Forgiveness

Chuck Chapman

Counselor/Therapist, LPC
Forgiveness is not about pretending something didn’t hurt. It’s not about minimizing the impact or “just letting it go.” Most men have been taught to swallow pain, move on quickly, or stay silent to avoid conflict. But when hurt is never acknowledged, it doesn’t disappear. It settles into the body as tension, resentment, numbness, or distance. It shapes how you trust, how you love, and how close you allow others to get to you. Forgiveness isn’t something you force your way into—it’s something that grows naturally when you have space to honor what actually happened. In our work, forgiveness begins with truth. We slow down enough to name the wound, the loss, and the emotional impact—whether it came from a parent, a partner, a betrayal, or even yourself. We create the space for grief, anger, confusion, and the longing for things to have been different. Only then can forgiveness become something real—not a performance of being “the bigger person,” but a quiet release of the weight you’ve been carrying. Forgiveness doesn’t mean what happened was okay. It means you are choosing not to live defined by it anymore. For many men, the hardest forgiveness is self-forgiveness. The shame of past choices can feel like a private prison. But shame is not a life sentence. Together, we learn how to look at yourself with honesty, compassion, and courage. Forgiveness is not weak. It is strength—strength rooted in truth, healing, and freedom. You don’t have to carry this alone anymore.  
16 Years Experience
Online in Oregon (Online Only)
Tigard, Oregon therapist: Sonya M Jones, licensed mental health counselor
Forgiveness

Sonya M Jones

Licensed Mental Health Counselor, Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Forgiveness is challenging work and I understand how it can be multifaceted and layered. We will work together on the goals you want to work on. We will proceed with identifying areas where you may need to forgive others or yourself and process the psychological, emotional, spiritual and physical hurt associated. You'll learn how to let-go of the past and take steps to free yourself of unforgiveness and the associated emotions that can weigh us down.  
19 Years Experience
In-Person in Tigard, OR 97223
Online in Oregon
Happy Valley, Oregon therapist: Mountain Crest Counseling Services, LLC, counselor/therapist
Forgiveness

Mountain Crest Counseling Services, LLC

Counselor/Therapist, LPC, LCSW, and Register Associates
Forgiveness doesn’t mean forgetting, excusing what happened, or pretending that you weren’t hurt. Sometimes, forgiveness is about releasing the emotional weight of the past so you can create more peace and freedom in the present. Therapy offers a safe, compassionate space to explore hurt, anger, grief, resentment, and the complex emotions that can make forgiveness feel difficult. Outpatient therapy can help you process painful experiences, understand how they continue to affect you, establish healthy boundaries, practice self-forgiveness, and decide what healing looks like on your terms. Whether you are struggling to forgive someone else or yourself, therapy can support you in moving forward without allowing the past to define your future.  
12 Years Experience
In-Person in Happy Valley, OR 97086
In-Person in Sherwood, OR 97140
Online in Oregon
Beaverton, Oregon therapist: Malama Counseling, LLC, licensed professional counselor
Forgiveness

Malama Counseling, LLC

Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Forgiveness is the intentional, voluntary process of releasing feelings of resentment, anger, and vengeance toward a person or group who has harmed you, or self for choices that stem from emotional reactions. I help clients make a conscious decision to let go of a grudge to achieve peace of mind, improved mental and physical health, and to achieve personal healing.  
10 Years Experience
In-Person in Beaverton, OR 97005
Online in Oregon

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