Codependency therapists in Lakewood, Washington WA
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Codependency
Tacoma Wellness Collective
Licensed Clinical Social Worker
If you've spent most of your life making sure everyone else is okay — and quietly losing yourself in the process — you're not broken. You're running a pattern that made sense at some point. It just may not be serving you anymore.
Codependency often looks like being the reliable one, the peacekeeper, the person who holds everything together. It can feel like love. It can feel like strength. But underneath, there's often a deep fear of conflict, rejection, or not being enough.
At TWC, we help adults untangle those patterns — where they came from, how they show up in relationships today, and what it looks like to show up for others without abandoning yourself in the process.
This work takes honesty and time. We think it's some of the most meaningful work there is.
When you're ready, we're here.
13 Years Experience
In-Person Near Lakewood, WA
Online in Lakewood, WA Washington
Codependency
Nicole Waters (Flowing Waters Counseling)
Counselor/Therapist, LMHC
When your sense of worth depends on others’ approval or happiness, it can feel exhausting and you can lose sight of your own needs. Therapy can help you find balance by setting healthy boundaries, develop self-trust, and rediscover your own voice. Together, we’ll work toward relationships that are mutually supportive and emotionally fulfilling.
7 Years Experience
Online in Lakewood, WA Washington (Online Only)
Codependency
Tracy L. Morris
Marriage and Family Therapist, MS LMFT
My perspective on Codependency is informed by prior years of 12-step recovery work with the addition of more recent advancements in thought around such labels.
11 Years Experience
In-Person Near Lakewood, WA
Online in Lakewood, WA Washington
Codependency
Tara Murphy
Psychologist, Psy.D.
Codependency can feel like being trapped in over-responsibility for others while neglecting yourself. Using IFS, attachment-focused work. I help clients understand the parts of them driving these patterns and build healthier boundaries. Narrative and experiential therapies further support reclaiming self-worth and agency. I also offer diagnostic clarity when codependent patterns overlap with trauma, depression, or personality features.
29 Years Experience
Online in Lakewood, WA Washington (Online Only)
Codependency
Matthew Wolfe
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC, MHP
Codependency is essentially when one person sacrifices their identity/boundaries/needs to another who sacrifices their empathy, regard, and compassion. It's bad for both but the non-prioritized partner suffers the additional danger of self-alienation or even self-annihilation. We would work to bolster sense of self, personal safety, and accountability-focused healthy communication. Nobody should be chipped away into nothingness for the benefit of someone else.
13 Years Experience
Online in Lakewood, WA Washington (Online Only)
Codependency
Britney Halversen
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
As you begin to feel safer within yourself, your relationships can start to feel safer, too. You’ll learn how to navigate closeness without losing yourself, set healthy boundaries, and connect with others in ways that feel more fulfilling, less fear-driven, and rooted in mutual respect.
3 Years Experience
Online in Lakewood, WA Washington (Online Only)
Codependency
Dr. Janelle Louis
Psychiatric Nurse Practitioner, ND, PMHNP-BC
I'll help you break free from people-pleasing patterns, emotional over-responsibility, and unhealthy relationship patterns. Together, we'll build boundaries, self-worth, and confidence. I'll be here to help you process and move away from codependency, and you’ll learn how to love others without losing yourself in the process.
10 Years Experience
Online in Lakewood, WA Washington (Online Only)
Codependency
Finley Anderson
Therapist, LMFT
If you’ve spent most of your life focused on others — their moods, their needs, their approval — you may have lost touch with what you actually feel, want, or need. Codependency isn’t a flaw. It’s something that was learned, usually early, in relationships where love felt like something you had to earn. We’ll explore where these patterns came from and what they’ve been protecting you from.
3 Years Experience
Online in Lakewood, WA Washington (Online Only)
Codependency
Bonfire Healing - Bonnie Deopp, MS, LMHC, CN
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC, CN, EMDR certified, Clinical Supervisor
Welcome, We're so glad you’re here! Bonfire Healing provides outpatient telehealth therapy with focus on complex mental health issues and developmental trauma along with co-occurring eating issues, addictions, chronic health conditions, nuerodiversity, and maladaptive behaviors. Our mission is to promote health equity through increasing access to evidence-based trauma treatment while utilizing insurance benefits so that this care is both high quality and affordable to more people. We view co-dependency as a coping tool to reduce anxiety; "I'm only ok if you're ok" that stems from trauma experiences and difficult experiences in childhood. We take a relational approach and we are in this together. We combine evidenced based modalities to heal these impacts on your nervous system and bring back regulation that decreases anxiety when someone is not ok so that you can be ok regardless. We also emphasize learning how to honor and value your inherent worth.
15 Years Experience
Online in Lakewood, WA Washington (Online Only)
Codependency
Daniel Hong
Licensed Professional Counselor, LMHC
Codependency often grows from a deeply human place — the longing to love, belong, and feel securely connected to others. Over time, these natural desires can become intertwined with beliefs that love must be earned through caretaking, self-sacrifice, or putting others’ needs ahead of your own. While these patterns may once have served an important purpose, they can also leave you feeling depleted, unseen, or disconnected from yourself. In our work together, we can gently explore these relational patterns with curiosity and compassion, making sense of how they developed and how they continue to show up. Through this process, you can begin to cultivate clearer boundaries, strengthen your sense of self, and move toward relationships where care, reciprocity, and worthiness feel more balanced and authentic.
9 Years Experience
Online in Lakewood, WA Washington (Online Only)
Codependency therapists in Lakewood, Washington Statistics
Codependency therapists in Lakewood, Washington average 16 years of experience and charge around $192 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The top treatment approaches are Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) (68%), Person-Centered Therapy (Rogerian) (45%), and Psychodynamic Therapy (40%).
Average years in practice
16 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$192
Accept insurance
49%
Offer sliding scale
50%
Gender ID
| 60% |
Female |
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| 32% |
Male |
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| 5% |
Non-Binary |
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| 3% |
Gender Fluid |
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Session Type
| 51% |
Online Only |
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| 49% |
In Person and Online |
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Top Treatment Approaches
| 68% | Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) |
| 45% | Person-Centered Therapy (Rogerian) |
| 40% | Psychodynamic Therapy |
| 36% | Acceptance & Commitment Therapy (ACT) |
| 36% | Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) |
| 34% | Existential / Humanistic Therapy |
| 33% | Family Systems Therapy |
Ages Served
| 97% | Adult |
| 70% | Young Adult |
| 56% | Senior |
| 43% | Teen |
| 21% | Children |
Client Focus
| 68% | Women |
| 53% | Men |
| 52% | LGBTQ+ |
| 32% | Military / Veterans |
| 32% | Christian |