Online Codependency therapists in Shawnigan Lake, British Columbia BC, Canada CA
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Bill Arbuckle
Therapist, MCP, RCC
Codependency often develops as a survival strategy, a way of staying safe, keeping the peace, or holding everything together when things were unstable. The problem is it tends to come at the cost of yourself. I work with people to recognise the patterns, understand where they came from, and slowly build relationships, including the one with yourself, that don't require you to disappear to maintain them.
12 Years Experience
Online in Shawnigan Lake, BC
Pegah Behbehani
Counsellor/Therapist, Registered Clinical Counsellor
My counselling style is influenced by trauma-informed therapy, strength-based therapy, Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy (MBCT), Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), AEDP, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Bowen Family Systems, Narrative Therapy, and EMDR, Hakomi therapy, IFS therapy.
7 Years Experience
Online in Shawnigan Lake, BC
Donna M Torbico - HEAL & GROW for ACoAs
Counsellor/Therapist, Recovery Therapist in Private Practice 40 years
Co-dependency is an expression of the False Self developed in a narcissistic &/or alcoholic home. It's the compulsion to find one's identity through the eyes of other people, instead of from inside oneself. (Blog : 2017)
40 Years Experience
Online in Shawnigan Lake, BC (Online Only)
Mariya Garnet
Therapist, Registered Psychotherapist ( Qualifying)
Codependency often develops when we've learned to suppress our own needs to survive in emotionally unsafe environments. Through this work, we reconnect you with your authentic voice and boundaries—not as concepts, but as felt experiences in your body and help you reclaim the parts of yourself that were deemed "too much" or "too needy." This is the journey back to yourself.
16 Years Experience
Online in Shawnigan Lake, BC (Online Only)
Hannah Bickle | Self, Relationships, Emotions
Registered Psychotherapist, RP (Q)
When we struggle with codependent patterns, it can be easy to lose sight of ourselves in relationships. You may find yourself looking to other people to decide whether you are doing okay, whether you are enough, or whether you deserve to feel good about yourself. As a result, your mood and sense of self-worth can become closely tied to the emotions, opinions, and behaviours of those around you.
In therapy, we can explore these patterns with curiosity and compassion, helping you develop a stronger sense of self and healthier boundaries.
1 Years Experience
Online in Shawnigan Lake, BC
Shannon MacGregor
Licensed Mental Health Counsellor, RTC, MTC, RCS, NARM Therapist
Codependency is a relationship pattern where a person supporting someone they care about and giving of themselves at the cost of their own mental, emotional, and physical health. Codependency is a learned behavior that can be corrected. With counselling, more effective relationship patterns and coping strategies can be developed.
18 Years Experience
Online in Shawnigan Lake, BC
Ajay Sahota
Counsellor/Therapist, MA, RCC (Registered Clinical Counsellor)
Growing up in a home with an Alcoholic parent can be an unstable experience. You never know what to expect. If you have experienced chaos in your childhood, dealt with unpredictable mental state of your parent, and witnessed and responded to ongoing unsafe situations, then this will be familiar to you. In an unpredictable home, it can be difficult to trust yourself and your experiences. To survive, and avoid, sometimes you need to bottle up your feelings so much that you forget how to experience emotions. When your needs are ignored, seeking approval from others can result in losing your own identity. Feeling responsible for others can outweigh your own needs and wellbeing.
I have been providing counselling services in the community since 2014. I have supported many people who have a loved one struggling with addiction. I am excited to support you as you heal from some or all of the above experiences. Counselling can also help you set healthier boundaries in relationships and start putting your own needs and safety first.
Many adult children of alcoholics (ACOA):
Carry shame.
Remember how they hid their parent’s addiction.
Experienced an alcoholic parent’s behaviours and reactions.
Have experienced domestic abuse, violence, neglect, and unpredictable behaviours.
Experience worry and anxiety.
Avoid family/events.
Have internalized negative beliefs.
Have never experienced being fully cared for.
Feel a sense worthlessness and resentment.
Take care of an alcoholic parent, putting their own needs last.
11 Years Experience
Online in Shawnigan Lake, BC
Selah Counselling, Mediation, and Training Center
Registered Social Worker, BSW, MSW, RSW
If you find yourself constantly prioritizing others at the expense of your own needs, struggling to say no, or feeling responsible for how everyone around you feels, you may be experiencing patterns of codependency. You might feel anxious when others are upset, overextend yourself to keep the peace, or tie your sense of worth to being needed.
At Selah Counselling, we approach codependency with compassion and clarity. These patterns often develop from early attachment experiences in which love felt conditional or in which safety required self-sacrifice. Together, we explore where these beliefs began and gently build new patterns rooted in healthy boundaries and secure identity. Our work focuses on strengthening self-awareness, learning to tolerate discomfort without rescuing, and developing mutually beneficial relationships rather than imbalanced ones. The goal is not to become hardened or detached, but to love others from a place of strength, steadiness, and self-respect.
29 Years Experience
Online in Shawnigan Lake, BC
Kendra Shaw
Registered Social Worker, MSW
I help clients recognize and break free from codependent patterns in their relationships. My focus is on building healthy boundaries and developing self-worth. Together, we can create meaningful, lasting change.
8 Years Experience
Online in Shawnigan Lake, BC
Marjan Emami
Counsellor/Therapist, MD, RTC #3608, MPCC-Provisional #4797, ACTA #3122
Caregivers often put others’ needs above their own, suppressing emotions and taking on excessive responsibility. This pattern can lead to chronic stress, emotional exhaustion, and physical health challenges. I help clients to notice this pattern, access support, and cultivate self-compassion to create a healthier balance between caring for others and caring for themselves.
2 Years Experience
Online in Shawnigan Lake, BC (Online Only)
Birgit Schreiber Dr
Psychologist, PhD and MA in Psychology
This is a very interesting area as many of us depend on others, but when it becomes detrimental and we find ourselves in a relationship that is causing us much harm or worry, then it is useful to examine why we struggle to change something.
26 Years Experience
Online in Shawnigan Lake, BC (Online Only)
Kimberly Davidson | Katalyst Integrated Trauma Treatment
Counsellor/Therapist, RCS, MTC, RTC, SEP, CCTP, CCISM, CFRC, CATP, NARM
Codependency is typically an adult version of a childhood developmental trauma survival mechanism. Understanding this and adjusting it, can change your entire life.
20 Years Experience
Online in Shawnigan Lake, BC (Online Only)
Inspiring Change Counselling
Counsellor/Therapist, Registered Therapeutic Counsellor (RTC)
When your sense of worth becomes tied to managing, fixing, or holding space for everyone else, it's easy to lose track of your own needs entirely. Codependency often develops quietly over time, and many people don't recognize it until they're exhausted, resentful, or feeling invisible in their own relationships. Therapy can help you reconnect with your own identity, build healthier boundaries, and learn what it feels like to be in relationships that are mutual rather than one-sided.
6 Years Experience
Online in Shawnigan Lake, BC
GRIS ALVES
Counsellor/Therapist, Compassionate Inquiry, Trauma Informed Mindfulness Teacher
I help clients struggling with codependency understand how early attachment experiences and relational patterns shape overgiving, people-pleasing, and boundary challenges. Using a trauma-informed, compassionate approach, we work to build self-awareness, emotional autonomy, and healthier, more balanced relationships. Therapy provides a safe space to break old patterns and reconnect with your authentic self.
11 Years Experience
Online in Shawnigan Lake, BC
Kamini Wood
Life Coach, FHH, CLC, CPM
Codependency is not a personality flaw. It is often a survival pattern that develops when you've learned to prioritize keeping the peace, meeting others' needs, or earning love through what you do for others. While these patterns may have once helped you cope, they can leave you feeling emotionally exhausted, disconnected from yourself, and unsure of what you truly need. Together, we'll work to rebuild your sense of identity, strengthen healthy boundaries, improve communication, and create relationships where you no longer have to abandon yourself to stay connected.
8 Years Experience
Online in Shawnigan Lake, BC (Online Only)
Rosemary Laurel
Counsellor/Therapist, MA, RCC
Codependency. The need to make sure everyone around you is ok so that only then can you feel safe. Only then can you maybe relax. But really, you never truly feel like you can be yourself... You never quite feel like it's ok to let your guard down. You probably had someone in your life at some point who made your life miserable when they were upset, and you learned that the only way to protect yourself was to try to keep them happy. This is a tough one to unwind from, and I'd love to walk that path together with you.
18 Years Experience
Online in Shawnigan Lake, BC
Eric Olsen
Life Coach, PTSD, Trauma Triage, BSc Social Sciences, DoD Career Councilor, SARC, DAPA, Pre Licensed Human Intelligence / Psychology, Life Coach. | Professional Support: LSSBB, PgM, Bluestone PMP,
We work through your codependency issues and behaviors and start to correct them.
17 Years Experience
Online in Shawnigan Lake, BC (Online Only)
Sagewood Counselling & Consultancy
Registered Social Worker, BSW, MSW, RSW
Co dependency is something many of us have learned or sustained in our closest relationships, and may be understood along a continuum. Many of us feel responsible to carry and / or manage the feelings and choices of others; our sense of self and purpose can be derived from taking care of others. This can lead to us carrying too much of an emotional burden and lead to burnout, frustration and relational distress, especially when others don't want to accept our 'help'. We may have perfectionist tendencies and be fearful of rejection, and have difficulty accepting help when we need it ourselves, and this can cause us to work overly hard and make it difficult to say 'no' and set healthy boundaries. As a result we often feel under appreciated, untrusting, overworked and exhausted. Maybe it's time we worked together to understand where or why we have these tendencies and learn to truly value our most authentic self, ,engage in self care and self love, identify and effectively communicate our needs and to become better at setting healthy boundaries without feeling guilty or selfish or fearing conflict or loss of relationships. Is this something that you struggle with?
22 Years Experience
Online in Shawnigan Lake, BC (Online Only)
Psykhe Psychotherapy
Registered Psychotherapist, RP, MACP
Each therapist has their own specialties, and we focus on connecting you with the clinician whose experience best fits your needs. Therapy may involve developing coping strategies, processing past experiences and childhood patterns, and cultivating greater self-compassion and emotional well-being.
8 Years Experience
Online in Shawnigan Lake, BC (Online Only)
Teo Counselling Services
Registered Psychotherapist, MACP, CCC, RPq
Codependency often arises from an unhealthy reliance on others for self-worth, leading to imbalanced relationships and emotional distress. I specialize in codependency therapy, helping individuals break free from patterns of people-pleasing, neglecting their own needs, and losing themselves in relationships. Through a combination of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Internal Family Systems (IFS), and mindfulness, I guide clients in setting healthy boundaries, reclaiming their sense of self, and fostering balanced, fulfilling relationships. My approach focuses on empowering individuals to build self-esteem, strengthen independence, and cultivate emotional well-being
6 Years Experience
Online in Shawnigan Lake, BC (Online Only)
Codependency therapists in Shawnigan Lake, British Columbia, Canada Statistics
Codependency therapists in Shawnigan Lake, British Columbia, Canada average 12 years of experience and charge around $164 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The most commonly treated issues are Codependency (100%), Anxiety or Fears (90%), and Self Esteem (83%).
Average years in practice
12 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$164
Gender ID
| 80% |
Female |
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| 15% |
Male |
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| 3% |
Gender Fluid |
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| 2% |
Non-Binary |
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Session Type
| 58% |
In Person and Online |
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| 42% |
Online Only |
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Top Specialties
| 100% | Codependency |
| 90% | Anxiety or Fears |
| 83% | Self Esteem |
| 83% | Depression |
| 78% | Trauma and PTSD |
| 75% | Stress |
| 70% | Loss or Grief |