Online Borderline Personality Disorder therapists in Cupertino, California CA
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Octave Therapy Licensed Clinical Social Work Inc
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
Clients who are struggling with emotional sensitivity and setting healthy boundaries.Borderline Personality Disorder get a bad rap.
13 Years Experience
Online in Cupertino, CA (Online Only)
Emily St. Amant
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC-MHSP-S (TN), LPCC (CA)
I have worked with many people who have BDP, or signs of BDP, many of whom have also experienced abuse and trauma.
18 Years Experience
Online in Cupertino, CA (Online Only)
Dorit Saberi-Thrive Psychological Services
Psychologist, Ph.D, Diplomate-Academy of Cognitive Therapy; Trainer- Prolonged Exposure for PTSD- CTSA
As an Intensively trained DBT therapist using DBT for over 20 years in individual, group, phone coaching and DBT for families.
24 Years Experience
Online in Cupertino, CA (Online Only)
Viktoria Walda Byczkiewicz, Ph.D.
Pre-Licensed Professional, PhD
Borderline Personality Disorder is generally characterized by difficulty in maintaining stable primary relationships due to unmet needs that show up as symptoms, such as being demanding or trying to control another person. People with BPD may truly desire intimacy, while at the same time, fear exposing their vulnerability and risking more pain and abandonment. If you suffer from BPD, you may be ambivalent in your relationships with others, often resulting in ongoing chaos or "drama." I can help you to uncover what lies beneath the behaviors that propel your interactions with others, and learn how to foster stable, reciprocal relationships.
10 Years Experience
Online in Cupertino, CA (Online Only)
Danielle Esses
Psychologist, PsyD
Borderline personality disorder often involves intense emotions, painful relationship patterns, fear of abandonment, impulsivity, or feeling unsure of who you are. I have advanced training in DBT, the gold-standard treatment for BPD. Treatment focuses on helping you better understand these patterns, build more effective coping strategies, and create greater stability in your emotions and relationships.
8 Years Experience
Online in Cupertino, CA
Dr. Lori Lynn Mann
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, Psy.D.
I have extensive experience working with BPD.
14 Years Experience
Online in Cupertino, CA (Online Only)
Diaspora Therapy Group
Marriage and Family Therapist, DSW, LMFT
We provide compassionate, trauma-informed care for individuals living with borderline personality disorder. We focus on emotional regulation, identity development, relationship patterns, and distress tolerance using collaborative, skills-based approaches. Our work is non-judgmental and centers safety, stability, and empowerment.
7 Years Experience
Online in Cupertino, CA
Heather Marriatori
Psychologist, PhD
I work with all personality disorders, with Borderline PD being at the forefront of trauma.
13 Years Experience
Online in Cupertino, CA
Sam Naimi
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Psychotherapist & Psychoanalyst
What is often labeled as “borderline” or a "personality disorder" reflects adaptations to early relational environments that were chronically intense and inconsistent, not a defective person. Heightened emotional sensitivity and fears around closeness often develop as ways of staying connected and safe.
In therapy, we focus on understanding how these patterns show up in the present, especially in relationships that matter. Over time, this work supports greater emotional stability, depth, and a more secure sense of self rather than short-term symptom control.
8 Years Experience
Online in Cupertino, CA
Melanie Goetz
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
I take an Ambivalent Attachment perspective, meaning that my view of BPD is that is a more severe expression of an Ambivalent Attachment style. In sessions, I will maintain a safe and predictable environment, supporting a space for each of us to be in charge of our own stories and emotional states. I'll be gentle in nonverbal and verbal communication, and, will model personal boundaries between and in sessions. We may incorporate EMDR or parts work into a primarily DARE approach of being with the felt-sense of connection, highlighting what feels safe and unsafe, trusting and mistrusting, predicable and chaotic. From a place of safe connection, we'll revisit the wounded parts from your past with nurturing openness and adaptability, while maintaining integrity and authenticity of your Core Self.
10 Years Experience
Online in Cupertino, CA
Dr. Claire Vines, Psy.D., Psychologist / Licensed /Psychotherapy / Psychoanalytic/
Marriage and Family Therapist, Marriage, Couples, LMFT. Psy.D. Trauma-Focused CBT
Borderline personality Disorder will make it very difficult for an individual to interact with others on a daily basis due to that person feeling confused about themselves. The emotions can become extreme, such as in impulsivity, as well as, instability and intensity within one’s relationships.
21 Years Experience
Online in Cupertino, CA
Daniel Slavin
Marriage and Family Therapist
I work with individuals who experience intense emotions and relationship difficulties in a steady, structured, and compassionate way. Therapy focuses on increasing emotional awareness, stability, and the ability to feel safer and more connected in relationships.
41 Years Experience
Online in Cupertino, CA
Danielle Greenspan, LMFT, LPCC
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT 104395, LPCC 4889
I have extensive experience working with individuals with Borderline Personality Disorder. I use a client-centered approach to tailor interventions to fit my clients' needs. I particularly like using Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT) and use a strong therapeutic alliance to build trust within the therapeutic relationship to decrease symptoms and problem behaviors.
11 Years Experience
Online in Cupertino, CA
Dr. Rebecca Scott, Psy.D
Psychologist, Clinical Psychologist, Certified in Holistic Health
I have a subspecialty in severe mental illness and can support BPD well and teach DBT skills training.
17 Years Experience
Online in Cupertino, CA
Ross Kellogg, LMFT
Marriage and Family Therapist, Licensed Individual, Marriage, and Family Therapist (LMFT)
I provide Dialectical Behavioral Therapy, the standardized and most effective approach to address symptoms related to Borderline Personality Disorder.
12 Years Experience
Online in Cupertino, CA (Online Only)
Dr. Mazmanyan and Associates
Psychologist, Ph.D
We can work together to understand the impact of BPD on our self esteem and the impact it has relationally.
11 Years Experience
Online in Cupertino, CA
Abigail (Abi) Zarate Ramsay
Pre-Licensed Professional, Marriage and Family Therapist Trainee, Professional Clinical Counselor Trainee
I work with clients who experience intense emotions, fears of abandonment, and unstable relationships, offering steady, validating support and skills for regulation and connection.
0 Years Experience
Online in Cupertino, CA (Online Only)
Growth and Change Counseling
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
It has been said that when you have Borderline Personality disorder (BPD), its hard to tell where your emotions end and your loved ones emotions start. In BPD, I look to my loved one to validate me, to tell me I am okay because my own sense of self worth is so fragile or non-existent. If a loved one gets mad at me or has negative emotions I go into an emotional spiral that is crazy making because I end up in an identity crisis. If you can relate to this, give us a call, we would like to help you.
8 Years Experience
Online in Cupertino, CA (Online Only)
Empowered Path Clinical Counseling, PC
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPCC, MA, CBIF, CAMS-II, CART, LMFT, AMFT, APCC
We provide compassionate, nonjudgmental therapy for individuals living with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD), focusing on emotional regulation, building stable relationships, and improving self-worth. Using evidence-based approaches like DBT and mindfulness, we help clients better understand their emotions, reduce self-destructive behaviors, and create a more balanced and fulfilling life
11 Years Experience
Online in Cupertino, CA
Eve Angela Fritsch
Marriage and Family Therapist, M.A.
Borderline personality disorder affects not only the individual but often the people who love them. I work with individuals living with BPD as well as family members and loved ones seeking support, understanding, healthier communication, and more balanced relationships.
9 Years Experience
Online in Cupertino, CA (Online Only)
Borderline Personality Disorder therapists in Cupertino, California Statistics
Borderline Personality Disorder therapists in Cupertino, California average 15 years of experience and charge around $217 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The most commonly treated issues are Borderline Personality Disorder (100%), Anxiety or Fears (92%), and Depression (90%).
Average years in practice
15 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$217
Gender ID
| 60% |
Female |
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| 28% |
Male |
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| 7% |
Non-Binary |
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| 5% |
Gender Fluid |
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Session Type
| 65% |
In Person and Online |
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| 35% |
Online Only |
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Top Specialties
| 100% | Borderline Personality Disorder |
| 92% | Anxiety or Fears |
| 90% | Depression |
| 85% | Trauma and PTSD |
| 67% | Codependency |
| 65% | Social Anxiety |
| 65% | Loss or Grief |