Online Codependency therapists in Fair Oaks, California CA
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Codependency
Su Boudreau, LMFT
Marriage and Family Therapist, Certified Domestic Violence Counselor
Codependency is common in relationships either in a couple's or familial relationships. First finding out unhealthy codependency and acknowledging it is the initial step toward building a healthier relationship. A therapist with certification in Domestic Violence would be the best person who can help the clients with the codependency issues in their relationship.
11 Years Experience
Online in Fair Oaks, CA (Online Only)
Codependency
Julie Levin
Marriage and Family Therapist, MFT
When a family member struggles with addiction, mental illness, cognitive deficits or developmental differences, it’s normal to want to help. Codependency arises when we try to control the situation or the other person through care-taking. This happens a lot when the other person has impulse control or anger problems. We learn to overfunction and become hyper-responsible to compensate and make life a little more stable. Together we can look at new ways to find stability and ease so you don’t have to continue placating and people-pleasing. We can explore the boundaries that would give you true control - not trying to change the other person or get them to understand, but to decide what you will and won’t do, and then staying true to yourself.
27 Years Experience
Online in Fair Oaks, CA (Online Only)
Codependency
Victoria Miller
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
You're trying to make a loved one's life better but nothing seems to change. You're trying to have lasting friendships and relationships but things always seem off balance and a struggle. Without healthy boundaries eventually these relationships can go off the rails leaving you devastated and wondering "what did I do wrong?" I will help you understand how codependent patterns develop and how these patterns have transferred to other relationships. I will help you explore what it means to have healthy boundaries and help your relationships grow stronger, be more balanced, eventually helping you to feel less anxiety and stress.
20 Years Experience
Online in Fair Oaks, CA
Codependency
California Center for Change
Psychologist, PhD
When someone you love is struggling with addiction, it is easy to lose yourself in the effort to help them. You may find yourself managing their crises, making excuses for their behavior, or putting your own needs so far aside that you can no longer remember what they were. Codependency is not a character flaw. It is a learned pattern and it can change. We work with partners, parents, and family members to help them set healthier boundaries, rebuild their own sense of self, and find more effective ways to support their loved one without sacrificing their own wellbeing in the process.
17 Years Experience
Online in Fair Oaks, CA (Online Only)
Codependency
Stuart Kaplowitz / Serene Pathways Counseling
Counselor/Therapist, MFT
Taking care of others can be a wonderful thing. If, however, we are sacrificing you in the process, we need to address your needs and you wishes too.
33 Years Experience
Online in Fair Oaks, CA
Codependency
Sloane Fabricius
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, LPCC, Clinical Supervisor
My hope and intent is for you to feel heard, seen, supported and hopeful about you and your circumstances. Van Gogh said it best, "I feel there is nothing more truly artistic than loving people." Our creative collaboration will equip you in getting your needs met in healthy ways.
29 Years Experience
Online in Fair Oaks, CA
Codependency
Jennifer Pudlo Therapy & Wellness Consulting
Marriage and Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Codependency often develops from a deep desire to care for others, yet it can leave you feeling emotionally exhausted, disconnected from your own needs, and unsure of who you are outside of your relationships. Together, we'll explore the experiences and patterns that have shaped these dynamics, helping you develop healthier boundaries, greater self-awareness, and stronger self-worth. My goal is to empower you to build relationships that are balanced, authentic, and rooted in mutual respect rather than guilt, fear, or the need to please others.
16 Years Experience
Online in Fair Oaks, CA (Online Only)
Codependency
Alicia Stalker-Gallichio LMFT
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, SAP
If you find yourself constantly prioritizing others' needs over your own, feeling responsible for other people's emotions or struggling to establish healthy boundaries, you are not alone. Codependency therapy is designed to help you break free from these patterns and cultivate a healthier more balanced approach to relationships.
21 Years Experience
Online in Fair Oaks, CA
Codependency
Kim Salinger
Psychiatric Nurse Practitioner, MBA, MSN, PMHNP, FNP, AHN
Codependency often shows up as chronic worry about others, difficulty setting boundaries, or feeling responsible for other people’s emotions. My approach focuses on understanding the emotional and biological factors that contribute to these patterns, including anxiety, mood, and nervous system stress. Visits emphasize insight, support, and practical guidance, with psychiatric care integrated when appropriate, to help individuals feel more grounded, balanced, and self-directed.
14 Years Experience
Online in Fair Oaks, CA
Codependency
Shayda Ewalt
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
Codependency often develops as a survival strategy, especially for those who grew up needing to prioritize others' emotions or safety over their own. You may struggle with boundaries, guilt, people-pleasing, or losing yourself in relationships. In therapy, we explore where these patterns began, strengthen your sense of self, and build capacity for relationships rooted in mutual respect rather than self-abandonment.
10 Years Experience
Online in Fair Oaks, CA (Online Only)
Codependency
Dr. George Lough
Psychologist, Ph.D., S.E.P.
Codependency and people-pleasing can be an adaptation to the environment in which we grew up. Understanding that our own needs are our legitimate concern, and setting boundaries so that these needs are met, is necessary to prevent burnout.
48 Years Experience
Online in Fair Oaks, CA (Online Only)
Codependency
Mia Turner
Therapist, MA, RYT, ASDCS, LMFT, NPT-C, CMNCS, CMIP
Support for people who find themselves chronically over-functioning, caretaking, people-pleasing, shape-shifting, minimizing their own needs, anticipating the needs of others, or feeling responsible for the emotions, wellbeing, comfort, or stability of those around them. These patterns often develop as intelligent adaptations within family systems, trauma, cultural expectations, caregiving roles, marginalization, neurodivergence, or environments where safety, belonging, acceptance, or survival depended upon attunement to others.
This work explores the protective and prescribed roles these patterns may have played throughout your life and the ways they may have shaped identity, relationships, self-worth, boundaries, decision-making, and connection to your own needs, desires, emotions, and body. Particular attention is given to the influence of family dynamics, culture, gender socialization, attachment experiences, systemic oppression, internalized beliefs, and the messages you may have received about responsibility, worthiness, sacrifice, and care.
These patterns often live not only in thoughts and beliefs, but within the nervous system itself. They may show up as hypervigilance, chronic self-monitoring, difficulty asking for help, guilt when resting, discomfort receiving care, difficulty identifying needs, over-explaining, conflict avoidance, perfectionism, or a persistent sense that your value comes from what you do for others rather than who you are.
Through a trauma-informed, attachment-focused, and nervous-system-centered lens, space is created for greater self-trust, authenticity, reciprocity, discernment, and connection to your own inner experience. The goal is not to stop caring for others, but to cultivate a deeper relationship with yourself and with relationships where care can flow in multiple directions and where your needs, humanity, and wellbeing are nurtured by the same compassion and attention you so readily offer to everyone else.
10 Years Experience
Online in Fair Oaks, CA (Online Only)
Codependency
Daniel Slavin
Marriage and Family Therapist
I help clients understand patterns of over-giving, people-pleasing, and losing oneself in relationships. Our work focuses on strengthening boundaries, self-trust, and the ability to feel whole and grounded while staying meaningfully connected to others.
41 Years Experience
Online in Fair Oaks, CA
Codependency
Nes Pinar Psychotherapy
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
I help clients untangle patterns of codependency by slowing down, getting curious, and reconnecting with their own needs, boundaries, and inner wisdom. Together, we explore the stories and survival strategies that once kept you safe but now keep you stuck, making space for more choice, agency, and self‑trust. My approach is warm, relational, and steady—supporting you as you practice new ways of relating that feel authentic, mutual, and sustainable.
15 Years Experience
Online in Fair Oaks, CA
Codependency
Greta Klaber
Marriage and Family Therapist, Ma, LMFT
When working with codependency, I often start by helping clients shift their attention inward—especially if they’ve spent much of their lives attuned to others' needs at the expense of their own. Codependent patterns can make it hard to locate a sense of self, to understand boundaries, or even to recognize one’s own desires and emotional cues. In our work, we slow down and begin to rebuild that connection to your internal experience. Through somatic awareness, parts work, and a focus on early relational dynamics, we explore how these patterns developed and gently begin to create space for a more grounded, self-connected way of relating to yourself and others.
9 Years Experience
Online in Fair Oaks, CA
Codependency
Ross Kellogg, LMFT
Marriage and Family Therapist, Licensed Individual, Marriage, and Family Therapist (LMFT)
Codependents often report exhaustion and identity fusion (also called fragmentation). I have extensive experience and training to address codependent compulsions and help you find a consistent and confident sense of self.
12 Years Experience
Online in Fair Oaks, CA (Online Only)
Codependency
Shirley Johnson,
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, CYT
I consider codependence is very simple terms as the behavior of taking care of someone at one's own expense. Many of us learn are value is in how muuch we will give to others which tends to mean abandoning ourselves. If you find yourself over-giving, caretaking, or losing yourself in relationships, we’ll gently uncover the roots of those patterns and build stronger boundaries, self-trust, and more balanced intimacy. The cure for codependency can be more self awareness and the ability to identify one's emotions and needs which I love to support folks on.
11 Years Experience
Online in Fair Oaks, CA (Online Only)
Codependency
Stefani Largent
Marriage and Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Codependency, Fixing and Pleasing Others, Controlling Others, Over-Functioning as a Partner, Loss of Identity
17 Years Experience
Online in Fair Oaks, CA
Codependency
Layla Ashley Psychotherapy
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
Codependent patterns often develop from learning to prioritize others’ needs while losing connection with your own. Therapy can help you reclaim healthy boundaries, self-trust, and more balanced relationships.
23 Years Experience
Online in Fair Oaks, CA
Codependency
Sam Naimi
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Psychotherapist & Psychoanalyst
Codependency, also known as unconscious accommodation, develops when we maintain important connections that require us to set aside our own needs or inner world to feel safe and still connected. Over time, this can lead to chronic self-sacrifice and uncertainty about where you end and others begin.
In psychoanalytic work, we explore how these patterns took shape and what parts of you were set aside to preserve closeness. As this becomes clearer, many people begin to reclaim a stronger sense of inner authority and move toward relationships that allow for mutuality rather than self-erasure.
8 Years Experience
Online in Fair Oaks, CA
Codependency therapists in Fair Oaks, California Statistics
Codependency therapists in Fair Oaks, California average 14 years of experience and charge around $205 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The most commonly treated issues are Codependency (100%), Anxiety or Fears (88%), and Depression (81%).
Average years in practice
14 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$205
Gender ID
| 69% |
Female |
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| 25% |
Male |
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| 3% |
Non-Binary |
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| 3% |
Gender Fluid |
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Session Type
| 65% |
In Person and Online |
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| 35% |
Online Only |
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Top Specialties
| 100% | Codependency |
| 88% | Anxiety or Fears |
| 81% | Depression |
| 76% | Trauma and PTSD |
| 71% | Stress |
| 71% | Self Esteem |
| 61% | Loss or Grief |