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Online Borderline Personality Disorder therapists in Fairfax, CA

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San Diego, California therapist: Heather Marriatori, psychologist
BPD

Heather Marriatori

Psychologist, PhD
I work with all personality disorders, with Borderline PD being at the forefront of trauma.  
13 Years Experience
Online in Fairfax, CA
Santa Barbara, California therapist: Dr. Trevor Alleman, psychologist
BPD

Dr. Trevor Alleman

Psychologist, PsyD, MA
BPD is not something to be ashamed of - it is something to get help for. I have received advanced training in Mentalization Based Therapy (MBT), a treatment modality designed to help people with Borderline Personality Disorder. The goal of this therapy is to help people become more self-aware of their emotional reactions and more skilled at regulating anxiety.  
13 Years Experience
Online in Fairfax, CA
San Diego, California therapist: Patricia Fahmy, licensed professional counselor
BPD

Patricia Fahmy

Licensed Professional Counselor, LPCC
Living with intense emotions can feel exhausting. You may experience overwhelming fears of abandonment, difficulty trusting others, rapid shifts in emotions, relationship struggles, or a constant fear of being left, rejected, or misunderstood. Many people feel ashamed of these experiences or believe something is wrong with them. In reality, these patterns often make sense in the context of attachment wounds, relational trauma, and painful life experiences. Together, we'll work to better understand these patterns, strengthen emotional regulation, improve relationships, and help you feel more stable, secure, and connected.  
7 Years Experience
Online in Fairfax, CA (Online Only)
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Sacramento, California therapist: Abigail (Abi) Zarate Ramsay, pre-licensed professional
BPD

Abigail (Abi) Zarate Ramsay

Pre-Licensed Professional, Marriage and Family Therapist Trainee, Professional Clinical Counselor Trainee
I work with clients who experience intense emotions, fears of abandonment, and unstable relationships, offering steady, validating support and skills for regulation and connection.  
0 Years Experience
Online in Fairfax, CA (Online Only)
Sacramento, California therapist: Sandy Kong, marriage and family therapist
BPD

Sandy Kong

Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT 119380
Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) can be a hugely mis-conceptualized disorder. Since it's root problem stems from attachment, therapy is relational. Clients learn how to develop a healthy, secure, and safe relationship with themselves and with a safe adult (therapist), sometimes for the first time. Clients learn to unpack, understand, and increase awareness to how their attachment styles impacts their emotions, their thoughts, and their behavior. Learning how to build a better foundation by restructuring certain thoughts and behaviors, while also regulating emotions, setting boundaries, and developing effective communication skills is.  
11 Years Experience
Online in Fairfax, CA
Westlake Village, California therapist: Sloane Fabricius, marriage and family therapist
BPD

Sloane Fabricius

Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, LPCC, Clinical Supervisor
My hope and intent is for you to feel heard, seen, supported and hopeful about you and your circumstances. Van Gogh said it best, "I feel there is nothing more truly artistic than loving people." Our creative collaboration will equip you in getting your needs met in healthy ways.  
29 Years Experience
Online in Fairfax, CA
Denver, Colorado therapist: Higher Sights Counseling, counselor/therapist
BPD

Higher Sights Counseling

Counselor/Therapist
We have a staff of psychotherapists and med prescribers that work with clients who have BPD symptoms. We offer CBT, DBT, EMDR, IFS (to name a few treatment modalities) and medication in addition to many problem-solving therapies to help you learn new coping skills to improve your life.  
16 Years Experience
Online in Fairfax, CA
Encino, California therapist: Sam Naimi, licensed clinical social worker
BPD

Sam Naimi

Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Psychotherapist & Psychoanalyst
What is often labeled as “borderline” or a "personality disorder" reflects adaptations to early relational environments that were chronically intense and inconsistent, not a defective person. Heightened emotional sensitivity and fears around closeness often develop as ways of staying connected and safe. In therapy, we focus on understanding how these patterns show up in the present, especially in relationships that matter. Over time, this work supports greater emotional stability, depth, and a more secure sense of self rather than short-term symptom control.  
8 Years Experience
Online in Fairfax, CA
San Diego, California therapist: Dr. Jen Bachtold, psychologist
BPD

Dr. Jen Bachtold

Psychologist, Ph.D., Certified Alcohol & Drug Counselor-II (CADC-II), Certified Clinical Trauma Professional, Specialist in Anger Management
As a licensed psychologist with experience working with those with borderline personality disorder (BPD), I am dedicated to providing compassionate and effective support to individuals living with this condition. My approach is based on evidence-based therapies and personalized strategies to help you manage symptoms and improve your quality of life.  
11 Years Experience
Online in Fairfax, CA (Online Only)
San Diego, California therapist: Ross Kellogg, LMFT, marriage and family therapist
BPD

Ross Kellogg, LMFT

Marriage and Family Therapist, Licensed Individual, Marriage, and Family Therapist (LMFT)
I provide Dialectical Behavioral Therapy, the standardized and most effective approach to address symptoms related to Borderline Personality Disorder.  
12 Years Experience
Online in Fairfax, CA (Online Only)
Oakland, California therapist: Holly Hoffman, PsyD, Psychotherapy, psychologist
BPD

Holly Hoffman, PsyD, Psychotherapy

Psychologist, Licensed Clinical Psychologist in CA & NY
Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT) DBT posits that people are doing the best they can and if they are struggling it is because they did not learn the basic tools and skills they needed from their care takers in childhood. I enjoy teaching people tools and skills to regulate their emotions, be effective in their daily lives, and get their needs met.  
13 Years Experience
Online in Fairfax, CA
Los Angeles, California therapist: Daniel Slavin, marriage and family therapist
BPD

Daniel Slavin

Marriage and Family Therapist
I work with individuals who experience intense emotions and relationship difficulties in a steady, structured, and compassionate way. Therapy focuses on increasing emotional awareness, stability, and the ability to feel safer and more connected in relationships.  
41 Years Experience
Online in Fairfax, CA
Nashville, Tennessee therapist: Emily St. Amant, licensed professional counselor
BPD

Emily St. Amant

Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC-MHSP-S (TN), LPCC (CA)
I have worked with many people who have BDP, or signs of BDP, many of whom have also experienced abuse and trauma.  
18 Years Experience
Online in Fairfax, CA (Online Only)
Pasadena, California therapist: Mind Study Center, counselor/therapist
BPD

Mind Study Center

Counselor/Therapist, LMFT, M.D., Ph.D.,
At Mind Study Center, we specialize in supporting individuals with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) through compassionate, evidence-based care. Our team uses a combination of therapies, including Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), to help clients develop healthier coping skills, manage intense emotions, and improve relationships. We work closely with each individual to foster emotional stability, self-awareness, and a sense of empowerment, supporting their journey toward a balanced and fulfilling life.  
10 Years Experience
Online in Fairfax, CA
Beverly Hills, California therapist: Integrative Psychotherapy Group, marriage and family therapist
BPD

Integrative Psychotherapy Group

Marriage and Family Therapist
We work with clients who express issues or concerns with Borderline Personality Disorder.  
10 Years Experience
Online in Fairfax, CA
Carlsbad, California therapist: Melanie Goetz, marriage and family therapist
BPD

Melanie Goetz

Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
I take an Ambivalent Attachment perspective, meaning that my view of BPD is that is a more severe expression of an Ambivalent Attachment style. In sessions, I will maintain a safe and predictable environment, supporting a space for each of us to be in charge of our own stories and emotional states. I'll be gentle in nonverbal and verbal communication, and, will model personal boundaries between and in sessions. We may incorporate EMDR or parts work into a primarily DARE approach of being with the felt-sense of connection, highlighting what feels safe and unsafe, trusting and mistrusting, predicable and chaotic. From a place of safe connection, we'll revisit the wounded parts from your past with nurturing openness and adaptability, while maintaining integrity and authenticity of your Core Self.  
10 Years Experience
Online in Fairfax, CA
Mission Viejo, California therapist: Karen Rippy - Relationship Expert - office and online: Family, couple/marriage, extended family, students)., marriage and family therapist
BPD

Karen Rippy - Relationship Expert - office and online: Family, couple/marriage, extended family, students).

Marriage and Family Therapist, Ph.D., LMFT
Did someone say you have BPD. Let's examine the situation and understand the relationship problems involved.  
41 Years Experience
Online in Fairfax, CA
Murrieta, California therapist: Empowered Path Clinical Counseling, PC, licensed professional counselor
BPD

Empowered Path Clinical Counseling, PC

Licensed Professional Counselor, LPCC, MA, CBIF, CAMS-II, CART, LMFT, AMFT, APCC
We provide compassionate, nonjudgmental therapy for individuals living with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD), focusing on emotional regulation, building stable relationships, and improving self-worth. Using evidence-based approaches like DBT and mindfulness, we help clients better understand their emotions, reduce self-destructive behaviors, and create a more balanced and fulfilling life  
11 Years Experience
Online in Fairfax, CA
San Francisco, California therapist: Dr. Lori Lynn Mann, marriage and family therapist
BPD

Dr. Lori Lynn Mann

Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, Psy.D.
I have extensive experience working with BPD.  
14 Years Experience
Online in Fairfax, CA (Online Only)
Claremont, California therapist: Matthew Kijak, LCSW, licensed clinical social worker
BPD

Matthew Kijak, LCSW

Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
Borderline personality disorder (BPD) can be a challenging and complex condition to navigate. As a therapist, I understand that living with BPD can cause difficulties in your relationships and daily life. My goal is to support you in managing the symptoms of BPD and to help you live a more fulfilling life. By utilizing evidence-based techniques such as Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and other therapies that incorporate mindfulness and emotion regulation techniques we can work together to develop a personalized treatment plan tailored to your specific needs. We will explore the root causes of your behavior, find solutions to current problems, and build healthy coping skills that will help you manage the symptoms of BPD, such as impulsivity, emotional instability, and difficulty in relationships. We will work together to develop a better understanding of yourself and to improve your interpersonal relationships. My ultimate goal is to empower you to live a more fulfilling life and to help you build a brighter, more stable future for yourself. BPD is a difficult condition to manage, but with the right support, you can learn to manage your symptoms and lead a more fulfilling life. I am here to provide that support and guidance, so don't hesitate to reach out to me today.  
8 Years Experience
Online in Fairfax, CA

Borderline Personality Disorder therapists in Fairfax, California Statistics

Borderline Personality Disorder therapists in Fairfax, California average 15 years of experience and charge around $217 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The most commonly treated issues are Borderline Personality Disorder (100%), Anxiety or Fears (92%), and Depression (90%).

Average years in practice

15 Years Experience

Average cost per session

$217

Gender ID

60% Female
28% Male
7% Non-Binary
5% Gender Fluid

Session Type

65% In Person and Online
35% Online Only

Top Specialties

100% Borderline Personality Disorder
92% Anxiety or Fears
90% Depression
85% Trauma and PTSD
67% Codependency
65% Social Anxiety
65% Loss or Grief

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