Online Infidelity therapists in Goleta, California CA
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Saralee Kramer Counseling
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
Many couples experience infidelity in their marriage. While this is a trauma, with guidance it is very possible to recover from it and heal the marriage. I offer tools to help couples practice what needs to change. I teach specific communication skills that are easy to learn. I call the process 'creating your marriage 2.0' so my couples can go on to have a happy forever marriage.
26 Years Experience
Online in Goleta, CA (Online Only)
Chris 'Bucky' Bateman
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
Affair recovery is a delicate and important part of what we do. The discovery of infidelity shatters trust and leaves both partners reeling; confused, hurt, and unsure of what comes next. We provide compassionate, judgment-free support for couples who want to understand what happened, process the pain honestly, and decide together what the future of their relationship looks like.
21 Years Experience
Online in Goleta, CA
Higher Sights Counseling
Counselor/Therapist
Our providers have extensive knowledge and research-based treatment methods that we use to work with couples not to pretend that infidelity didn't happen, but to use it as a tool to heal and create an even better relationship using research, PACT, the Gottman Method, and EFT.
16 Years Experience
Online in Goleta, CA
Dr. Rebecca Scott, Psy.D
Psychologist, Clinical Psychologist, Certified in Holistic Health
I can help support patients struggling with infidelity issues and learn how to feel empowered and move forward.
17 Years Experience
Online in Goleta, CA
Dorit Saberi-Thrive Psychological Services
Psychologist, Ph.D, Diplomate-Academy of Cognitive Therapy; Trainer- Prolonged Exposure for PTSD- CTSA
Emotion focused as well Cognitive Behavior Therapy and Dialectical Behavior Therapy informed therapy
24 Years Experience
Online in Goleta, CA (Online Only)
Patricia Fahmy
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPCC
Discovering infidelity can be devastating. You may feel shocked, betrayed, angry, heartbroken, or consumed by questions that seem to have no clear answers. Many people find themselves replaying conversations, searching for explanations, struggling to trust their partner, or questioning their own judgment and self-worth.
Whether you are healing individually or as a couple, betrayal can deeply impact trust, emotional safety, attachment, and connection. I provide a supportive space to process the pain of what has happened, navigate difficult emotions, improve communication, and better understand the patterns contributing to relationship distress. For couples who wish to rebuild, therapy can help repair trust, strengthen emotional connection, and create a more secure foundation moving forward.
7 Years Experience
Online in Goleta, CA (Online Only)
New Beginnings Christian Counseling
Marriage and Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Experiencing infidelity or betrayal can shatter trust, leave deep emotional wounds, and shake your sense of safety in relationships. In therapy, we provide a safe and compassionate space to process the pain, grief, anger, and confusion that often follow these experiences. Together, we explore the impact of betrayal on your identity, relationships, and emotional well-being, while developing tools for healing, boundary-setting, and rebuilding trust—whether in yourself, your partner, or future relationships. With Christ-centered guidance, clients are supported in finding hope, restoration, and the courage to move forward with emotional and spiritual resilience.
15 Years Experience
Online in Goleta, CA
Sloane Fabricius
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, LPCC, Clinical Supervisor
My hope and intent is for you to feel heard, seen, supported and hopeful about you and your circumstances. Van Gogh said it best, "I feel there is nothing more truly artistic than loving people." Our creative collaboration will equip you in getting your needs met in healthy ways.
29 Years Experience
Online in Goleta, CA
Hayden Dover MFT - Couples Therapy
Marriage and Family Therapist, MFT, CST
Dealing with infidelity is one of the most painful and confusing issues many couple have to deal with. I work with couples dealing with infidelity to do the challenging work of healing, addressing underlying issues and rebuilding trust. Often infidelity brings an end to the relationship but it can also bring to light underlying issues in the relationship that, when addressed, allow for a deeper more enduring connection.
22 Years Experience
Online in Goleta, CA
Heidi Hartston
Psychologist, PhD
Infidelity creates deep pain, triggers trauma, breaks trust, and destabilizes a relationship and family. There can be heartbreak, guilt, mistrust and loss for all parties involved. Affair recovery involves re-committing to each other by first rebuilding trust, safety, accountability, and establishing good communication skills. A caring connection can be reestablished once the affair is behind you and each of you feel prioritized and listened to. I combine insightful, caring depth work with evidence based techniques that effectively free you from trauma and old patterns, and help you to reclaim a happy, secure relationship.
35 Years Experience
Online in Goleta, CA (Online Only)
Rinat Kass
Marriage and Family Therapist, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
Dealing with infidelity is crushing for both partners and their relationship. The deception and betrayal cause tremendous emotional pain and the recovery process is long and difficult. But recovery from affair is absolutely possible and I have seen many relationships not only survive, but thrive after infidelity. Whatever path is right for your relationship, I will support and guide you through it.
19 Years Experience
Online in Goleta, CA
Courtney Whetstone
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
Working through infidelity is not impossible. Through hard work on both ends and full communication and working on the reasons why there was infidelity to start with, it can be worked on if that is what the couple so chooses to do. Or maybe you are an individual who has been through this topic and want to have some guidance on where to go next. That is also possible in sessions with me.
12 Years Experience
Online in Goleta, CA (Online Only)
Michael Myette Therapy
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
I specialize in treatment for issues related to infidelity
19 Years Experience
Online in Goleta, CA (Online Only)
Dr. Stéphanie Gamache, PhD
Hypnotherapist, PhD
Infidelity raises complex emotional questions about desire, attachment, betrayal, and identity. My work integrates psychoanalytic and relational approaches to explore the deeper emotional and relational dynamics underlying affairs. Together, we work toward understanding, integration, and the possibility of renewed intimacy and trust.
7 Years Experience
Online in Goleta, CA (Online Only)
Rebecca Rothberg
Psychologist, Psy.D., M.A., R.Y.T.
I specialize in helping those navigating the impacts of infidelity within their romantic relationships, both individually and in couples therapy.
9 Years Experience
Online in Goleta, CA
Shila Vardell, AMFT
Pre-Licensed Professional, AMFT
Infidelity can leave a relationship feeling as though it is hanging on by a thread. We can't change what has happened in your relationship but we can explore and understand what happened. We can have open conversations that help you to move forward toward a healthier version of your relationship.
3 Years Experience
Online in Goleta, CA
Anat Sideman
Marriage and Family Therapist, JD, MA, LMFT
Discovering that your partner has been unfaithful can feel like the ultimate betrayal. An affair can trigger past injuries and set off a relationship war. Where children are involved, the escalation of conflict can devastate the entire family. Gone untreated, infidelity can damage the relationship irreparably. As your therapist, I can help support you by creating a safe space where you can be heard and begin to understand each other’s feelings and actions. Divorce is not inevitable. Insight, repair, healing, renewed intimacy and commitment are possible.
11 Years Experience
Online in Goleta, CA
Dr. Shawn V Giammattei
Psychologist, PhD
Infidelity has been an area we have been working with as long as we have worked with couples. We have been able to help partners navigate the betrayal and repair required to recover. This is true for polyamorous partners as well when there is a break of trust.
17 Years Experience
Online in Goleta, CA
Dr. Shelby Kittinger
Psychologist, PsyD
I help partners and individuals process the pain and disorientation that follow betrayal or broken trust. Using an attachment and emotionally focused lens, we work to understand underlying needs, restore safety, and rebuild (or redefine) connection with honesty and care.
10 Years Experience
Online in Goleta, CA (Online Only)
Infidelity therapists in Goleta, California Statistics
Infidelity therapists in Goleta, California average 16 years of experience and charge around $211 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The most commonly treated issues are Infidelity (100%), Relationship and Marriage Counseling (85%), and Anxiety or Fears (77%).
Average years in practice
16 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$211
Gender ID
| 57% |
Female |
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| 37% |
Male |
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| 3% |
Non-Binary |
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| 3% |
Gender Fluid |
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Session Type
| 62% |
In Person and Online |
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| 38% |
Online Only |
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Top Specialties
| 100% | Infidelity |
| 85% | Relationship and Marriage Counseling |
| 77% | Anxiety or Fears |
| 74% | Divorce |
| 72% | Depression |
| 69% | Trauma and PTSD |
| 67% | Loss or Grief |