Online Infidelity therapists in La Jolla, California CA
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Phillip McCulley
Marriage and Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CSAT
I work with individuals and couples dealing with the impact of infidelity, including situations where cheating is connected to sexual compulsivity or out of control sexual behavior. These experiences often bring intense emotions such as shock, anger, shame, grief, and confusion, and can leave both partners feeling unsure about what comes next.
In therapy, we focus on understanding what led to the infidelity and how compulsive sexual behavior may have played a role. This includes addressing patterns of secrecy, impulsivity, and emotional avoidance, while also helping the partner who was hurt process betrayal and regain a sense of stability and safety. I work with couples to slow the process down, create clearer boundaries, and begin rebuilding trust when repair is possible.
For some couples, therapy becomes a space to decide whether and how to continue the relationship. For others, it is about healing individually and establishing healthier patterns moving forward. My goal is to support honest accountability, emotional repair, and decision making that aligns with each person’s values and long term wellbeing.
22 Years Experience
Online in La Jolla, CA
Anat Sideman
Marriage and Family Therapist, JD, MA, LMFT
Discovering that your partner has been unfaithful can feel like the ultimate betrayal. An affair can trigger past injuries and set off a relationship war. Where children are involved, the escalation of conflict can devastate the entire family. Gone untreated, infidelity can damage the relationship irreparably. As your therapist, I can help support you by creating a safe space where you can be heard and begin to understand each other’s feelings and actions. Divorce is not inevitable. Insight, repair, healing, renewed intimacy and commitment are possible.
11 Years Experience
Online in La Jolla, CA
Sloane Fabricius
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, LPCC, Clinical Supervisor
My hope and intent is for you to feel heard, seen, supported and hopeful about you and your circumstances. Van Gogh said it best, "I feel there is nothing more truly artistic than loving people." Our creative collaboration will equip you in getting your needs met in healthy ways.
29 Years Experience
Online in La Jolla, CA
Monica M. Huston
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
Infidelity can be deeply painful and destabilizing for both individuals and relationships. I work with individuals and couples to understand the context in which it occurred, including unmet needs, patterns, and relational dynamics. Therapy focuses on processing the impact, rebuilding trust where possible, and creating a clearer path forward.
9 Years Experience
Online in La Jolla, CA
J. Rosalyn Diehl
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, MA, LMHC, LPPC, LPC
Infidelity can leave you feeling betrayed, confused, and questioning both the relationship and yourself. Many women find themselves overthinking, struggling with trust, or wondering how to move forward. I provide a supportive space to process these experiences, rebuild self-worth, strengthen self-trust, and develop healthier relationship patterns so you can move forward with greater clarity and confidence.
12 Years Experience
Online in La Jolla, CA (Online Only)
Catherine DeMonte, LMFT
Marriage and Family Therapist, MA., LMFT
Here too, as stated with helping couples navigate divorce, in cases of infidelity, I assist couples air what needs to be said in a safe, non-judgmental space without taking sides. I can assist in zooming out to see the larger picture and context in which the infidelity took place. I can give practical and effective communication tactics for talking about the infidelity without having it escalate every time. Affairs generally happen when something was missing or not ok already, but was not addressed. Past issues and communication styles will be addressed.
40 Years Experience
Online in La Jolla, CA (Online Only)
Ms. Carol Jean Timmons
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
There are ways for couples to get over an affair! Therapy can help a couple explore the 'why' behind the affair, learn how to grieve the feelings of betrayal and loss, and recover from the trauma of the infidelity. Couple Therapy can then help the partners rebuild their marriage and restore lost trust so that the bond is deeper and stronger than ever before!
34 Years Experience
Online in La Jolla, CA
Sarah Wagner LMFT Corp
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, MBA
Infidelity can rupture trust at the deepest level, activating intense emotions such as anger, shame, grief, and fear. Using Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and attachment-based models, I help couples understand the underlying relational patterns that contributed to the breach while prioritizing emotional safety and accountability.
Through Internal Family Systems (IFS), we explore protective parts—such as defensiveness, withdrawal, or self-criticism—that may surface after betrayal. Therapy focuses on structured repair conversations, rebuilding trust through consistency and transparency, and determining whether reconciliation or conscious uncoupling is the healthiest path forward.
6 Years Experience
Online in La Jolla, CA
Bonnie Rae
Marriage and Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Many years ago, I took a workshop with Esther Perel called the State of Affairs: A Clinical Approach to Infidelity Workshop. This helped inspire my work with infidelity, creating a shame and judgement free environment to explore infidelity and affairs with both couples and individuals.
14 Years Experience
Online in La Jolla, CA
Barry Ross
Psychologist, Ph.D.
I am a psychologist, marriage family therapist, bioenergetic analyst, and psychoanalyst with more than 30 years of clinical experience in treating adolescents, adults, and marital couples. I am skilled in helping a person to feel understood and related to in a new and helpful way.
42 Years Experience
Online in La Jolla, CA
Higher Sights Counseling
Counselor/Therapist
Our providers have extensive knowledge and research-based treatment methods that we use to work with couples not to pretend that infidelity didn't happen, but to use it as a tool to heal and create an even better relationship using research, PACT, the Gottman Method, and EFT.
16 Years Experience
Online in La Jolla, CA
Shirley Johnson,
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, CYT
After betrayal, couples often feel shattered. I provide structured, compassionate guidance to rebuild trust, process pain, and determine whether and how to repair the relationship with honesty.
11 Years Experience
Online in La Jolla, CA (Online Only)
Michael Myette Therapy
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
I specialize in treatment for issues related to infidelity
19 Years Experience
Online in La Jolla, CA (Online Only)
Adam Silverstein
Marriage and Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CSAT
Are you having difficulty staying faithful in your relationship? Have you been caught cheating and need to find a way to stop before you lose your marriage?
12 Years Experience
Online in La Jolla, CA
Nina Marikian
Marriage and Family Therapist, AMFT
An affair can feel like the foundation of your relationship has crumbled. I help individuals and couples navigate the aftermath—examining emotions, understanding dynamics, and finding a path forward, whether rebuilding trust or moving toward a healthier new chapter.
3 Years Experience
Online in La Jolla, CA
Reid Kessler
Psychologist, PsyD
Infidelity can feel devastating—bringing shock, anger, grief, confusion, and a deep sense of betrayal. Therapy can help individuals and couples slow things down, make sense of what happened, and decide what healing looks like moving forward. Whether the goal is repair or clarity, we provide a grounded space for honest conversations, accountability, and rebuilding trust over time.
8 Years Experience
Online in La Jolla, CA
Pedro F. Baez
Life Coach, LVN, MCC, CHC - Master Certified Coach
I help clients refocus, find enlightenment and optimize resources in order to thrive in all aspects of their life experience, including disclosure of unrevealed truths and secrets, relationship resetting and relaunching after infidelity, rebuilding trust, attaining more intimacy and passion; personal and relationship fulfillment.
15 Years Experience
Online in La Jolla, CA
Hayden Dover MFT - Couples Therapy
Marriage and Family Therapist, MFT, CST
Dealing with infidelity is one of the most painful and confusing issues many couple have to deal with. I work with couples dealing with infidelity to do the challenging work of healing, addressing underlying issues and rebuilding trust. Often infidelity brings an end to the relationship but it can also bring to light underlying issues in the relationship that, when addressed, allow for a deeper more enduring connection.
22 Years Experience
Online in La Jolla, CA
Counseling For Couples, Families and Children, Dr Mickey
Marriage and Family Therapist, Ph.D., LMFT
I can help you rebuild trust after an affair
36 Years Experience
Online in La Jolla, CA
Relationship Therapy Center - serving individuals and couples in CA online and in the Sacramento area
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, Certified Gottman Therapist
Infidelity counseling is couples therapy after cheating - whether that is emotional affair, porn addiction or a physical affair. Healing a marriage after an affair involves couples therapy where they betrayal is processed, trust is rebuilt and a new marriage can be formed. Even though painful, many couples do recover and build a strong relationship moving forward.
12 Years Experience
Online in La Jolla, CA
Infidelity therapists in La Jolla, California Statistics
Infidelity therapists in La Jolla, California average 16 years of experience and charge around $211 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The most commonly treated issues are Infidelity (100%), Relationship and Marriage Counseling (85%), and Anxiety or Fears (77%).
Average years in practice
16 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$211
Gender ID
| 56% |
Female |
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| 37% |
Male |
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| 4% |
Non-Binary |
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| 3% |
Gender Fluid |
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Session Type
| 61% |
In Person and Online |
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| 39% |
Online Only |
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Top Specialties
| 100% | Infidelity |
| 85% | Relationship and Marriage Counseling |
| 77% | Anxiety or Fears |
| 73% | Divorce |
| 71% | Depression |
| 68% | Trauma and PTSD |
| 66% | Loss or Grief |