Online Men’s Issues therapists in Lompoc, California CA
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James Foley Sexual Misbehavior, Infidelity , Expert 31 Years Experience
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW-R, SOTS,
Being men are more "permitted" by our toxic culture to act out sexually... than to cry, to ask for help, to say "I don't know", to say they are "stuck", or admit defeat, I have many clients appear in sexual misbehavior treatment who seem to have been "acting out" their feelings sexually, under the behavior are feelings that they are not "permitted" by our culture to talk out verbally.
If you would like an insightful and skilled clinician to help you, or your partner, peel the layers of the onion and figure out a way to process the issue and end the acting out of these feeling and have the feelings talked out, then give me a call.
29 Years Experience
Online in Lompoc, CA
Rory Valentine Diller
Registered Psychotherapist, M.A., LMFT Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist #139783
I run an inclusive, Person-Centered, Trauma-Informed group for male-identified survivors of childhood sexual abuse and sexual assault that supports growth, healing, and recovery in community with other survivors. Men often fear stigmatization and are reluctant to talk about past abuse experiences and sexual trauma with healthcare providers and supports, leaving them isolated and alone to carry the burden of what happened to them. This group was created for men to come together in solidarity and experience the truth; they are not alone in their survival. All men and gender non-conforming folx are welcome. I work with all genders of survivors in individual treatment as well.
10 Years Experience
Online in Lompoc, CA (Online Only)
Sean Brennan
Marriage and Family Therapist, AMFT
In my opinion, the therapy space doesn't always honor masculinity in the way that it should. Therapy with me involves preserving your masculinity while directly addressing the things that aren't working for you. My goal is to ensure that you don't stay in therapy indefinitely - and leave feeling empowered and capable of handling whatever comes your way. Let's get to work.
2 Years Experience
Online in Lompoc, CA
Ryan James Carroll
Therapist, AMFT, APCC
I work with men to explore themes of masculinity, emotional expression, and personal identity. Our sessions create a space to unpack cultural expectations, relationships, and personal challenges, helping you feel more aligned and authentic in your path forward.
3 Years Experience
Online in Lompoc, CA
Theo Kuczek
Marriage and Family Therapist, MA, MFT #123769, CPT
Feminism missed the mark on encouraging men to live fully in their traditionally "feminine" energy. Being shamed for having strong emotions and feelings is something that every man has to deal with. Men need and crave emotional intimacy too. Its hard to do in a society that doesn't support it. I'll show you how being sensitive is the best thing you can do for yourself and the world.
15 Years Experience
Online in Lompoc, CA
Mind Study Center
Counselor/Therapist, LMFT, M.D., Ph.D.,
At Mind Study Center, we provide specialized support for men facing a range of personal challenges, including stress, relationship issues, identity concerns, and mental health struggles. Our team offers a safe, nonjudgmental space where men can explore their emotions, overcome societal pressures, and develop healthier coping strategies. Through therapy, we help men build self-awareness, improve emotional expression, and foster resilience, empowering them to live more balanced, fulfilling lives.
10 Years Experience
Online in Lompoc, CA
Chad Cryder
Psychologist, PhD
What does it mean to be a man in today's society and your culture? How is that image impacting your relationships (even the one with yourself)? Being a man has an inherent set of complications and pressures, which can effect your emotional well-being. If you are finding yourself being more angry, more sad, more lonely, and/or more stress, we address the underlying pressures you are facing and start to change the internal conversation to help you tap into your strengths.
11 Years Experience
Online in Lompoc, CA
Reid Kessler
Psychologist, PsyD
Men’s issues often involve carrying a lot internally—stress, pressure, anger, loneliness, or pain that doesn’t always have an easy place to go. Getting to know your emotions takes strength, and learning to bring them into your relationships and values-driven life takes even more. Therapy offers a safe, grounded relationship where you can better understand what you feel, what you’ve learned to do with those feelings, and how emotions may be shaping your life in ways that are subtle but powerful. Over time, this work can help you feel more steady and connected, and make choices that reflect who you want to be—rather than feeling driven by overwhelm, disconnection, or patterns that keep repeating.
8 Years Experience
Online in Lompoc, CA
Dr. Joshua A. Goldstein
Psychologist, Psy.D.
Being a man has its own sets of issues. Too manly? Not manly enough? Physical/emotional hurdles? Let's address these issues and work through it together.
12 Years Experience
Online in Lompoc, CA
Salvadore Coaching LLC
Life Coach, Holistic Life Coach, Certified Breathwork Instructor, Certified Hypnotist
I work with men navigating shifting expectations—at work, in relationships, and in how they understand strength, responsibility, and connection in a changing culture. For many, this shows up as stress, anxiety, irritability, shutdown, self-doubt, or a sense of drifting from purpose. Our work focuses on meeting this moment from a place of steadiness and self-respect—so you can respond from your values rather than from cultural scripts.
Together, we build emotional resilience and practical skills for communication, boundaries, and self-trust. We do this to help you access a stronger, more flexible version of yourself: grounded under pressure, clear in your values, and capable of real intimacy and leadership in your life.
14 Years Experience
Online in Lompoc, CA
Matthew Kijak, LCSW
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
As a therapist, I understand that men today face a wide range of complex issues, from masculinity and relationships, to work-life balance and emotional expression. My goal is to provide a safe and supportive environment for men to explore and understand these challenges, and to work towards finding solutions that will improve their well-being.
I specialize in working with men using evidence-based interventions such as cognitive behavioral therapy, mindfulness, and motivational interviewing. We will work together to understand the underlying causes of your issues, identify patterns of behavior that may be holding you back, and develop effective strategies to improve your relationships, manage stress, and increase emotional intelligence.
My ultimate goal is to empower you to take control of your mental health, and to help you find a sense of balance and inner peace. I will provide a non-judgmental and understanding space where you can explore your thoughts and feelings, and work through your struggles.
8 Years Experience
Online in Lompoc, CA
Anthony Canapi - Your Queer Relationship Therapist
Marriage and Family Therapist, MA, AMFT
Many men are taught to perform strength rather than feel it; to suppress vulnerability, disconnect from emotion, and measure worth through achievement or desirability. Over time, this can show up as burnout, relationship strain, loneliness, anger, or feeling emotionally “stuck.”
No matter how you identify or see the world, therapy can be a place to redefine masculinity on your own terms. We can explore emotional expression, intimacy fears, attachment patterns, body image, sexuality, and the pressure to “have it all together.” My goal is not to dismantle your strength- it’s to expand it, so it includes softness, connection, and depth.
2 Years Experience
Online in Lompoc, CA
Jeanette Abney
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, SAP
I have years of experience with assisting men identify, acknowledge things about themself, obtain education and obtain support regarding issues that impact men so that one can develop maturity, develop and maintain healthy relationships with self and others.
27 Years Experience
Online in Lompoc, CA
Phillip McCulley
Marriage and Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CSAT
I work with men who are navigating challenges related to identity, relationships, emotional expression, and sexuality. Many men have learned to manage stress and expectations by staying busy, shutting down emotionally, or handling problems on their own. Over time, this can lead to disconnection, frustration, or feeling stuck in patterns that no longer work.
In therapy, I offer a space where men can slow down and talk openly about experiences that are often difficult to name. This may include relationship stress, sexual concerns, anger, shame, grief, or questions about purpose and direction. I help men better understand their emotional world, develop healthier coping strategies, and strengthen communication in their relationships.
The goal of our work is not to change who you are, but to help you build greater self awareness, emotional flexibility, and confidence in how you show up in your life and relationships. Over time, many men find they feel more grounded, connected, and capable of creating the life they want.
22 Years Experience
Online in Lompoc, CA
Stefani Largent
Marriage and Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Relationship Dissatisfaction, Gender Constructs, Stress, Infidelity, Grief/Loss, Loss, Betrayal, Divorce/Breakup, Career, Communication Skills, Self-Esteem, Codependency, Family Conflict, Adult Children of Alcoholics/Narcissistic, Aging, Mid-Life, Self-Compassion, Family Estrangement, Elder Care Support, Health Care Worker Support, Adult Child Aging Parent Relationship, Retirement, Meaning and Purpose
17 Years Experience
Online in Lompoc, CA
Emma Esper
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, LPCC
This is an area of mine I am particularly passionate about. I have worked with men on issues with anger regulation (both internalized and externalized anger), stress, avoidance, perfectionism, covert incest/emotional enmeshment, relationship issues, gender stereotypes, body image, codependency, sex, and emotional expression.
7 Years Experience
Online in Lompoc, CA
David Eshleman
Marriage and Family Therapist, M.A., LMFT
Therapy can be especially difficult for men to open up to. It can also be difficult to distinguish between toxic and healthy masculinity. Often times the ideals of communication and vulnerability fly in the face of the "idea" of masculinity that society has historically thrust onto men. I understand that. There is no shame in taking care of your mental health. Think of going to therapy as going to the gym of the mind, as well as a place to gain clarity on what it means to live in the world as a man today.
14 Years Experience
Online in Lompoc, CA
Matthew Bishop
Marriage and Family Therapist, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Doctorate in Behavioral Health Leadership
Men often carry stress silently, feeling pressure to figure things out alone. I offer a space where men can talk openly without judgment — about relationships, fatherhood, work, sex, or identity — and find healthier ways to handle the weight they carry.
10 Years Experience
Online in Lompoc, CA
Integrative Psychotherapy Group
Marriage and Family Therapist
We work with clients who express issues or concerns with Men's Issues.
10 Years Experience
Online in Lompoc, CA
Dennis Sapire
Psychologist, JD PhD
As a Certified Clinical Sexologist, I am familiar with the origins of the Men's Movement and its growth from Iron John to the present. I hope clients will find me empathic in relation to their unique struggles with identity, concerns about their masculinity, and possible deficits in their upbringing.
24 Years Experience
Online in Lompoc, CA
Men’s Issues therapists in Lompoc, California Statistics
Men’s Issues therapists in Lompoc, California average 14 years of experience and charge around $213 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The most commonly treated issues are Men’s Issues (100%), Anxiety or Fears (74%), and Relationship and Marriage Counseling (72%).
Average years in practice
14 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$213
Gender ID
| 61% |
Male |
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| 31% |
Female |
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| 5% |
Non-Binary |
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| 3% |
Gender Fluid |
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Session Type
| 70% |
In Person and Online |
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| 30% |
Online Only |
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Top Specialties
| 100% | Men’s Issues |
| 74% | Anxiety or Fears |
| 72% | Relationship and Marriage Counseling |
| 71% | Depression |
| 61% | Loss or Grief |
| 60% | Stress |
| 58% | Self Esteem |