Online Sex therapists in Los Gatos, California CA
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Don ( "Dr Don" ) Etkes
Marriage and Family Therapist, Ph.D., MFT
Certified Sex Therapist, having completed sex therapy training at UCLA in 1988. Over 30 years experience in helping couples and individuals cope with sexual dysfunction, lack of desire, sexual addiction, orgasm issues, erection problems, premature ejaculation, vaginismus and other challenges to having a great sex life.
39 Years Experience
Online in Los Gatos, CA
Frankie Santiago
Life Coach, Professional Life Coach
I help men and women improve their sexual health, intimacy, and connection through practical life coaching. Whether you’re dealing with challenges around desire, performance, communication in the bedroom, or rebuilding a satisfying intimate life, we focus on open dialogue, practical strategies, and personalized tools to reduce shame, build confidence, and create healthier sexual experiences. My supportive, non-judgmental approach empowers you to address these areas with clarity and respect for your pace and goals. Ready to create positive change? I offer a free 15 minute initial consultation to see how we can work together.
15 Years Experience
Online in Los Gatos, CA (Online Only)
Sarah Wagner LMFT Corp
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, MBA
Sexual challenges often intersect with developmental experiences, attachment injuries, cultural messages, or trauma. I integrate IFS, attachment theory, experiential techniques, somatics and EFT to address both the emotional and relational dimensions of intimacy.
Together, we work to reduce shame, regulate the nervous system, clarify boundaries and desires, and build secure connection—internally and within partnership. Therapy supports a sexuality that feels authentic, empowered, and grounded in consent and mutual respect.
6 Years Experience
Online in Los Gatos, CA
Allen Shamon
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
I work with individuals and couples to address a wide range of sexual concerns and dysfunctions. This may involve exploring factors contributing to sexual difficulties, identifying cognitive, emotional, and behavioral patterns that may be maintaining the issue, and developing tailored treatment plans to address the root causes of the concern. I employ evidence-based interventions such as cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT), mindfulness-based techniques, sensate focus exercises, and communication skills training to help clients overcome sexual challenges and enhance sexual satisfaction.
6 Years Experience
Online in Los Gatos, CA (Online Only)
Lorena Codina
Counselor/Therapist, Terapeuta TRG (Terapia de rreprocesamiento Generativo)
Ofrezco orientación para abordar dificultades en la intimidad y promover una vida sexual saludable.
1 Years Experience
Online in Los Gatos, CA (Online Only)
Dr. Angel Enrique Pacheco, Ph.D., C.Psych.
Psychologist, Registered Clinical Psychologist
Sex therapy requires knowledge to provide the level of intervention that you require given your circumstances. We provide the following levels: Permission, Limited Information, Specific Suggestions, and Intensive Therapy. You do all the work at your home at leisure, and no nudity is involved in the sessions. No sense in living life without enjoying your sexuality.
50 Years Experience
Online in Los Gatos, CA (Online Only)
Integrative Psychotherapy Group
Marriage and Family Therapist
We work with clients who express issues or concerns with Sex Therapy.
10 Years Experience
Online in Los Gatos, CA
Russell Wilkie
Marriage and Family Therapist, MFT
My experience with sex therapy is this: for most of us, communication is at the core of the major issues. I certainly do look at the biological issues too, but those are actually uncommon. I also work with sexually kinky people that are being marginalized or simply need a venue to talk about something that some people might judge or disagree with. As long as your sexuality is safe, sane and consensual, I can support you, no matter how far "out there" you think you might be.
34 Years Experience
Online in Los Gatos, CA (Online Only)
Monica M. Huston
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
Sexual concerns are often connected to communication, emotional intimacy, and individual experiences rather than just physical factors. I work with individuals and couples to better understand these dynamics and create a space where concerns can be explored openly and without judgment. Therapy focuses on improving connection, communication, and overall satisfaction.
9 Years Experience
Online in Los Gatos, CA
Jeanette Abney
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, SAP
I have years of experience in the area of sex education, addressing inappropriate sexual behaviors as well as with providing resources.
27 Years Experience
Online in Los Gatos, CA
Dr. Ingrid Solano
Psychologist, PhD
Sex therapy is a form of counseling intended to help individuals and couples resolve sexual difficulties, such as performance anxiety or relationship problems. I support couples in restoring trust, rebuilding intimacy, and reigniting healthy, passionate sex. Some choose to attend sessions alone; others bring their partner with them. Session frequency and length usually depend on the client and the type of problem being addressed.
Sexual health is an essential part of overall emotional and physical well-being. But if you’re experiencing a sexual problem, the last thing you probably want to do is talk about it. However, you aren't alone! 43 percent of women and 31 percent of men report some degree of sexual dysfunction.
Sex therapy is a type of psychotherapy that also takes into account possible physical problems. For this reason (among others), sex therapy requires special training. When a couple comes in with a sexual problem, we try to figure out how each of them could be contributing to the issue. We examine what is going on, gradually interpret this in the context of their sexual history/experiences, tease apart cultural/societal influences, and come up with solutions
Sex therapy utilizes a variety of approaches to treat sexual dysfunction. In addition to the techniques outlined by Masters and Johnson, sex therapy includes cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT), emotion-based therapy, and couples communication techniques. It’s important to know that sex therapy sessions do not involve any physical contact or sexual activity. I usually assign “homework”—practical activities that clients are expected to complete in the privacy of their own home.
15 Years Experience
Online in Los Gatos, CA
Higher Sights Counseling
Counselor/Therapist
We have a staff of psychotherapists and med prescribers that work with clients who want to work on sex issues. We offer CBT, DBT, EMDR, IFS (to name a few treatment modalities) and medication in addition to many problem-solving therapies to help you learn new coping skills to improve your life.
16 Years Experience
Online in Los Gatos, CA
Corrie Blissit
Marriage and Family Therapist, MA, LMFT#150479
Ropes, and whips, and chains...oh my! No matter your sexual preferences, most of us grew up in a culture where our sexuality was shamed. As adults, we may feel embarrassed or "wrong" for even having sexual desires. Discovering who you are sexually, comes with its own unique anxieties and challenges. Sex is complex; it can be an ecstatic source of joy and pleasure and it can also be a source of boredom, pain, and heartache. A lack of education around sex may prevent you from understanding how your body experiences pleasure. It takes courage to explore your likes, dislikes, and fantasies. There are also relational risks that come with communicating our preferences. How will our wishes be received? Will we be rejected or accepted? Beyond knowing how you like to express yourself sexually, there are also deeper questions we might ask, like, what is the meaning and role of sex in your life? Why do you have sex? How does trust, safety, and security influence your sex life? Therapy is place you can explore these questions, develop more intimacy with yourself, and work through any uncomfortable or confusing feelings surrounding sex. Call or email me today to schedule a free 20-minute consultation.
5 Years Experience
Online in Los Gatos, CA (Online Only)
Adela Stone
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, LPCC
Intimacy is more than physical—it’s about emotional connection, trust, and feeling safe with one another. When couples struggle with mismatched desire, avoidance, or sexual dysfunction, it can feel deeply isolating. In therapy, I help partners talk openly about intimacy without shame, understand each other’s needs, and create a fulfilling sexual connection that strengthens your bond.
5 Years Experience
Online in Los Gatos, CA (Online Only)
Shirley Johnson,
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, CYT
As a certified sex therapist, I offer a shame-free space to explore desire, pleasure, sexual identity, performance anxiety, mismatched libido, and intimacy concerns with directness and care.
11 Years Experience
Online in Los Gatos, CA (Online Only)
Tendril Therapy
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
Sex can bring joy, curiosity, and connection. But it can also come with challenges, shame, or uncertainty. At Tendril Therapy, we approach sex therapy with openness and compassion, helping clients explore desires, address concerns, and build a healthier, more fulfilling relationship with themselves and their partners.
7 Years Experience
Online in Los Gatos, CA
David Sudyka
Marriage and Family Therapist, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Concerns around intimacy, desire, or sexual functioning can be difficult to talk about, but they are more common than people often realize. These issues can affect both your personal wellbeing and your relationships. In therapy we will explore these concerns in a comfortable and respectful space, improve communication, and work toward a healthier and more satisfying connection. The goal is to help you feel more confident and at ease in this part of your life.
4 Years Experience
Online in Los Gatos, CA (Online Only)
Dr. Joan Druckman
Psychologist
I work to help couples understand their own as well as their partner's sexual behavior, attitudes, and feelings. We work to improve both emotional and sexual intimacy.
42 Years Experience
Online in Los Gatos, CA
Phillip McCulley
Marriage and Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CSAT
I provide sex therapy for individuals and couples who want to improve intimacy, desire, communication, and overall sexual satisfaction. I have training in sex therapy, including education informed by Barry McCarthy’s work, which emphasizes healthy, pleasure focused sexuality rather than performance or pressure. My approach centers on helping people develop a more confident, connected, and realistic relationship with sex.
In therapy, we work to understand how stress, anxiety, shame, past experiences, medical concerns, or relationship dynamics may be affecting your sex life. This may include support with sexual dysfunction, desire differences, intimacy concerns, or difficulties communicating about sex. I help clients move away from goal driven or fear based sexual patterns and toward experiences that feel more relaxed, mutual, and fulfilling.
I also offer affirming sex therapy for LGBTQ individuals and couples, as well as those in non traditional or non monogamous relationships. Therapy provides a space to explore sexuality openly and respectfully, without judgment or assumptions, so that your sexual expression aligns with your values, comfort, and sense of connection.
22 Years Experience
Online in Los Gatos, CA
Laura Anderson LPCC, Eff Shame Therapy
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPCC
Sex and gender are areas where too many therapists either flinch or overreach — avoiding the topic entirely or making it the center of everything when you're telling them it isn't. I get it either way. I work from a shame-free, sex-positive, trauma-informed perspective with whatever you're navigating — sexual concerns, identity, intimacy, desire, or simply needing a therapist who won't make things weird. I am completing certification in sexuality therapy and bring both clinical training and genuine openness to this work. Whatever you've been afraid to say out loud — this is a safe place to say it.
12 Years Experience
Online in Los Gatos, CA (Online Only)
Sex Therapy therapists in Los Gatos, California Statistics
Sex Therapy therapists in Los Gatos, California average 15 years of experience and charge around $216 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The most commonly treated issues are Sex Therapy (100%), Relationship and Marriage Counseling (87%), and Trauma and PTSD (74%).
Average years in practice
15 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$216
Gender ID
| 47% |
Female |
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| 42% |
Male |
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| 6% |
Gender Fluid |
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| 5% |
Non-Binary |
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Session Type
| 57% |
In Person and Online |
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| 43% |
Online Only |
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Top Specialties
| 100% | Sex Therapy |
| 87% | Relationship and Marriage Counseling |
| 74% | Trauma and PTSD |
| 72% | Depression |
| 70% | Anxiety or Fears |
| 59% | LGBTQ+ Issues |
| 57% | Infidelity |