Online Infidelity therapists in Oceano, California CA
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Russell Wilkie
Marriage and Family Therapist, MFT
Infidelity is one of the most complicated things I've ever dealt with as a therapist. It taps into so many areas that we feel deeply about: trust, faith, betrayal, self-esteem, self-doubt, true love, soul-mates, reconciliation, forgiveness, PTSD, and even our future. The most common question that I hear people ask is, "Why did it happen?" Unfortunately, the answer is often very complicated and hearing the answer is often less than soothing. We want to know why, because, we believe, if we understand it, we can prevent the pain of it happening again in the future. That is difficult to do, so we have to look at our understanding of how control plays a part in our psyche.
34 Years Experience
Online in Oceano, CA (Online Only)
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Chris 'Bucky' Bateman
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
Affair recovery is a delicate and important part of what we do. The discovery of infidelity shatters trust and leaves both partners reeling; confused, hurt, and unsure of what comes next. We provide compassionate, judgment-free support for couples who want to understand what happened, process the pain honestly, and decide together what the future of their relationship looks like.
21 Years Experience
Online in Oceano, CA
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Dr. Ingrid Solano
Psychologist, PhD
I provide couples/family/relational therapy for adolescents and adults both in the context of their relationships as well as through relationship-focused therapy for individuals who want to improve their interpersonal lives. Our relationships impact our thoughts, our feelings, and our behaviors. Relationships can be supportive, or they can weigh us down. How our relationships impact us can be obvious to us and everyone around us, or they can be insidious and live in the pit of our stomachs-- creeping up on us as feelings we can’t put the right words to. ...and anywhere in between… It can be difficult to understand and connect how these feelings slowly change what we do and who we are. ‘Relational’ therapy with more than one client aims to help improve interactions with each other, achieve relational goals, and cultivate value and meaning together.
15 Years Experience
Online in Oceano, CA
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Kristin Robert
Marriage and Family Therapist, AMFT
Infidelity often creates a profound rupture in trust, safety, and relational stability, leaving both partners overwhelmed and emotionally reactive. In the aftermath, attempts to resolve things too quickly can intensify conflict, confusion, and retraumatization rather than support repair. When the relationship lacks enough stability for productive work, creating intentional space can become a necessary part of the healing process.
3 Years Experience
Online in Oceano, CA
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Timothy Walker
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
An agreement broken, a contract shattered, trust destroyed. Infidelity is one of the core wounds we can inflict in a relationship, and no one is left unscathed.
9 Years Experience
Online in Oceano, CA (Online Only)
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Ross Kellogg, LMFT
Marriage and Family Therapist, Licensed Individual, Marriage, and Family Therapist (LMFT)
Many individuals and couples need the support of a trained professional when coping with the trauma and betrayal of infidelity. I provide Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy and Gottman Method Couples Therapy to facilitate this type of recovery.
12 Years Experience
Online in Oceano, CA (Online Only)
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Bonnie Rae
Marriage and Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Many years ago, I took a workshop with Esther Perel called the State of Affairs: A Clinical Approach to Infidelity Workshop. This helped inspire my work with infidelity, creating a shame and judgement free environment to explore infidelity and affairs with both couples and individuals.
14 Years Experience
Online in Oceano, CA
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Reid Kessler
Psychologist, PsyD
Infidelity can feel devastating—bringing shock, anger, grief, confusion, and a deep sense of betrayal. Therapy can help individuals and couples slow things down, make sense of what happened, and decide what healing looks like moving forward. Whether the goal is repair or clarity, we provide a grounded space for honest conversations, accountability, and rebuilding trust over time.
8 Years Experience
Online in Oceano, CA
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Heidi Hartston
Psychologist, PhD
Infidelity creates deep pain, triggers trauma, breaks trust, and destabilizes a relationship and family. There can be heartbreak, guilt, mistrust and loss for all parties involved. Affair recovery involves re-committing to each other by first rebuilding trust, safety, accountability, and establishing good communication skills. A caring connection can be reestablished once the affair is behind you and each of you feel prioritized and listened to. I combine insightful, caring depth work with evidence based techniques that effectively free you from trauma and old patterns, and help you to reclaim a happy, secure relationship.
35 Years Experience
Online in Oceano, CA (Online Only)
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Phillip McCulley
Marriage and Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CSAT
I work with individuals and couples dealing with the impact of infidelity, including situations where cheating is connected to sexual compulsivity or out of control sexual behavior. These experiences often bring intense emotions such as shock, anger, shame, grief, and confusion, and can leave both partners feeling unsure about what comes next.
In therapy, we focus on understanding what led to the infidelity and how compulsive sexual behavior may have played a role. This includes addressing patterns of secrecy, impulsivity, and emotional avoidance, while also helping the partner who was hurt process betrayal and regain a sense of stability and safety. I work with couples to slow the process down, create clearer boundaries, and begin rebuilding trust when repair is possible.
For some couples, therapy becomes a space to decide whether and how to continue the relationship. For others, it is about healing individually and establishing healthier patterns moving forward. My goal is to support honest accountability, emotional repair, and decision making that aligns with each person’s values and long term wellbeing.
22 Years Experience
Online in Oceano, CA
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Lauree Berger Turman
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW 22044, LCSW 098456-01
Infidelity doesn't 'just happen.' You and your partner have disconnected and infidelity is the result of that disconnection. We will unpack how your lost each other, and find the way back, stronger and better.
31 Years Experience
Online in Oceano, CA
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Allie Michie, MS
Marriage and Family Therapist, AMFT159347
Infidelity can shake the foundation of a relationship and bring up some of the most painful emotions a person can experience. Whether you're working through a betrayal as a couple or individually, I provide a space that holds the complexity of what happened without rushing toward a predetermined outcome. Healing looks different for everyone, and I follow your lead.
2 Years Experience
Online in Oceano, CA
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Three Oaks Behavioral Health & Wellness
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW, LCMHC, LCAS
Helping individuals and couples heal from betrayal and rebuild trust and communication.
7 Years Experience
Online in Oceano, CA
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Matthew Bishop
Marriage and Family Therapist, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Doctorate in Behavioral Health Leadership
After infidelity, couples face raw pain and uncertainty about whether to repair or part ways. I help partners talk honestly about the hurt, rebuild trust if possible, and clarify what they want for the relationship moving forward.
10 Years Experience
Online in Oceano, CA
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Rinat Kass
Marriage and Family Therapist, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
Dealing with infidelity is crushing for both partners and their relationship. The deception and betrayal cause tremendous emotional pain and the recovery process is long and difficult. But recovery from affair is absolutely possible and I have seen many relationships not only survive, but thrive after infidelity. Whatever path is right for your relationship, I will support and guide you through it.
19 Years Experience
Online in Oceano, CA
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Jennifer Warkentin
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
Infidelity can be one of the most cruel and painful experiences. I work with both betrayed partners and those who did the betraying to better understand how the cheating happened and then how to heal from it. We don't "move on" from infidelity but we can "move through" it and create stronger relationships.
18 Years Experience
Online in Oceano, CA (Online Only)
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Catherine DeMonte, LMFT
Marriage and Family Therapist, MA., LMFT
Here too, as stated with helping couples navigate divorce, in cases of infidelity, I assist couples air what needs to be said in a safe, non-judgmental space without taking sides. I can assist in zooming out to see the larger picture and context in which the infidelity took place. I can give practical and effective communication tactics for talking about the infidelity without having it escalate every time. Affairs generally happen when something was missing or not ok already, but was not addressed. Past issues and communication styles will be addressed.
40 Years Experience
Online in Oceano, CA (Online Only)
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Hayden Dover MFT - Couples Therapy
Marriage and Family Therapist, MFT, CST
Dealing with infidelity is one of the most painful and confusing issues many couple have to deal with. I work with couples dealing with infidelity to do the challenging work of healing, addressing underlying issues and rebuilding trust. Often infidelity brings an end to the relationship but it can also bring to light underlying issues in the relationship that, when addressed, allow for a deeper more enduring connection.
22 Years Experience
Online in Oceano, CA
Infidelity
Marina Edelman | TrueMe Counseling
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
We specialize in affair recovery, helping couples and individuals heal from betrayal and rebuild trust. Our structured approach supports accountability, clarity, and emotional repair.
20 Years Experience
Online in Oceano, CA
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Dr. Mazmanyan and Associates
Psychologist, Ph.D
Should I stay or should I go? It is hard to wrap your mind around what happened. It's also hard to imagine starting all over. You don't have to start from scratch you can start from where you are. We can help you rebuild trust in yourself and others.
11 Years Experience
Online in Oceano, CA
Infidelity therapists in Oceano, California Statistics
Infidelity therapists in Oceano, California average 16 years of experience and charge around $211 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The most commonly treated issues are Infidelity (100%), Relationship and Marriage Counseling (85%), and Anxiety or Fears (77%).
Average years in practice
16 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$211
Gender ID
| 57% |
Female |
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| 37% |
Male |
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| 3% |
Non-Binary |
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| 3% |
Gender Fluid |
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Session Type
| 62% |
In Person and Online |
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| 38% |
Online Only |
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Top Specialties
| 100% | Infidelity |
| 85% | Relationship and Marriage Counseling |
| 77% | Anxiety or Fears |
| 74% | Divorce |
| 72% | Depression |
| 69% | Trauma and PTSD |
| 67% | Loss or Grief |