Online Borderline Personality Disorder therapists in San Jose, California CA
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BPD
Daniel Slavin
Marriage and Family Therapist
I work with individuals who experience intense emotions and relationship difficulties in a steady, structured, and compassionate way. Therapy focuses on increasing emotional awareness, stability, and the ability to feel safer and more connected in relationships.
41 Years Experience
Online in San Jose, CA
BPD
Sandy Kong
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT 119380
Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) can be a hugely mis-conceptualized disorder. Since it's root problem stems from attachment, therapy is relational. Clients learn how to develop a healthy, secure, and safe relationship with themselves and with a safe adult (therapist), sometimes for the first time. Clients learn to unpack, understand, and increase awareness to how their attachment styles impacts their emotions, their thoughts, and their behavior. Learning how to build a better foundation by restructuring certain thoughts and behaviors, while also regulating emotions, setting boundaries, and developing effective communication skills is.
11 Years Experience
Online in San Jose, CA
BPD
Mind Study Center
Counselor/Therapist, LMFT, M.D., Ph.D.,
At Mind Study Center, we specialize in supporting individuals with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) through compassionate, evidence-based care. Our team uses a combination of therapies, including Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), to help clients develop healthier coping skills, manage intense emotions, and improve relationships. We work closely with each individual to foster emotional stability, self-awareness, and a sense of empowerment, supporting their journey toward a balanced and fulfilling life.
10 Years Experience
Online in San Jose, CA
BPD
Holly Hoffman, PsyD, Psychotherapy
Psychologist, Licensed Clinical Psychologist in CA & NY
Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT)
DBT posits that people are doing the best they can and if they are struggling it is because they did not learn the basic tools and skills they needed from their care takers in childhood. I enjoy teaching people tools and skills to regulate their emotions, be effective in their daily lives, and get their needs met.
13 Years Experience
Online in San Jose, CA
BPD
Empowered Wellbeing, Decolonizing Intersectional and Integrative Complex Trauma & Dissociation Recovery Support
Life Coach, view my credentials online at: www.recoveringfromwithin.com/credentialslongform
We work with this from a trauma and dyadic or family systems parts work perspective or attachment trauma recovery framework, and or a functional health perspective depending on whether the expression seems to stem from trauma, relational/systemic adaptation, or physiological impacts. For example, often BPD is an adaptive response to living or being in intensive proximity with someone with NPD, so in that case the approach might be more dyadic/systems parts work based. Please feel free to ask if you have further questions.
15 Years Experience
Online in San Jose, CA (Online Only)
BPD
Karen Rippy - Relationship Expert - office and online: Family, couple/marriage, extended family, students).
Marriage and Family Therapist, Ph.D., LMFT
Did someone say you have BPD. Let's examine the situation and understand the relationship problems involved.
41 Years Experience
Online in San Jose, CA
BPD
Eve Angela Fritsch
Marriage and Family Therapist, M.A.
Borderline personality disorder affects not only the individual but often the people who love them. I work with individuals living with BPD as well as family members and loved ones seeking support, understanding, healthier communication, and more balanced relationships.
9 Years Experience
Online in San Jose, CA (Online Only)
BPD
Sam Naimi
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Psychotherapist & Psychoanalyst
What is often labeled as “borderline” or a "personality disorder" reflects adaptations to early relational environments that were chronically intense and inconsistent, not a defective person. Heightened emotional sensitivity and fears around closeness often develop as ways of staying connected and safe.
In therapy, we focus on understanding how these patterns show up in the present, especially in relationships that matter. Over time, this work supports greater emotional stability, depth, and a more secure sense of self rather than short-term symptom control.
8 Years Experience
Online in San Jose, CA
BPD
Viktoria Walda Byczkiewicz, Ph.D.
Pre-Licensed Professional, PhD
Borderline Personality Disorder is generally characterized by difficulty in maintaining stable primary relationships due to unmet needs that show up as symptoms, such as being demanding or trying to control another person. People with BPD may truly desire intimacy, while at the same time, fear exposing their vulnerability and risking more pain and abandonment. If you suffer from BPD, you may be ambivalent in your relationships with others, often resulting in ongoing chaos or "drama." I can help you to uncover what lies beneath the behaviors that propel your interactions with others, and learn how to foster stable, reciprocal relationships.
10 Years Experience
Online in San Jose, CA (Online Only)
BPD
Octave Therapy Licensed Clinical Social Work Inc
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
Clients who are struggling with emotional sensitivity and setting healthy boundaries.Borderline Personality Disorder get a bad rap.
13 Years Experience
Online in San Jose, CA (Online Only)
BPD
Sloane Fabricius
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, LPCC, Clinical Supervisor
My hope and intent is for you to feel heard, seen, supported and hopeful about you and your circumstances. Van Gogh said it best, "I feel there is nothing more truly artistic than loving people." Our creative collaboration will equip you in getting your needs met in healthy ways.
29 Years Experience
Online in San Jose, CA
BPD
Dr. Lori Lynn Mann
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, Psy.D.
I have extensive experience working with BPD.
14 Years Experience
Online in San Jose, CA (Online Only)
BPD
Dr. Jen Bachtold
Psychologist, Ph.D., Certified Alcohol & Drug Counselor-II (CADC-II), Certified Clinical Trauma Professional, Specialist in Anger Management
As a licensed psychologist with experience working with those with borderline personality disorder (BPD), I am dedicated to providing compassionate and effective support to individuals living with this condition. My approach is based on evidence-based therapies and personalized strategies to help you manage symptoms and improve your quality of life.
11 Years Experience
Online in San Jose, CA (Online Only)
BPD
Barry Ross
Psychologist, Ph.D.
I am a psychologist, marriage family therapist, bioenergetic analyst, and psychoanalyst with more than 30 years of clinical experience in treating adolescents, adults, and marital couples. I am skilled in helping a person to feel understood and related to in a new and helpful way.
42 Years Experience
Online in San Jose, CA
BPD
Emily St. Amant
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC-MHSP-S (TN), LPCC (CA)
I have worked with many people who have BDP, or signs of BDP, many of whom have also experienced abuse and trauma.
18 Years Experience
Online in San Jose, CA (Online Only)
BPD
Growth and Change Counseling
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
It has been said that when you have Borderline Personality disorder (BPD), its hard to tell where your emotions end and your loved ones emotions start. In BPD, I look to my loved one to validate me, to tell me I am okay because my own sense of self worth is so fragile or non-existent. If a loved one gets mad at me or has negative emotions I go into an emotional spiral that is crazy making because I end up in an identity crisis. If you can relate to this, give us a call, we would like to help you.
8 Years Experience
Online in San Jose, CA (Online Only)
BPD
Matthew Kijak, LCSW
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
Borderline personality disorder (BPD) can be a challenging and complex condition to navigate. As a therapist, I understand that living with BPD can cause difficulties in your relationships and daily life. My goal is to support you in managing the symptoms of BPD and to help you live a more fulfilling life. By utilizing evidence-based techniques such as Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and other therapies that incorporate mindfulness and emotion regulation techniques we can work together to develop a personalized treatment plan tailored to your specific needs.
We will explore the root causes of your behavior, find solutions to current problems, and build healthy coping skills that will help you manage the symptoms of BPD, such as impulsivity, emotional instability, and difficulty in relationships. We will work together to develop a better understanding of yourself and to improve your interpersonal relationships. My ultimate goal is to empower you to live a more fulfilling life and to help you build a brighter, more stable future for yourself.
BPD is a difficult condition to manage, but with the right support, you can learn to manage your symptoms and lead a more fulfilling life. I am here to provide that support and guidance, so don't hesitate to reach out to me today.
8 Years Experience
Online in San Jose, CA
BPD
Dr. Mandi Maycumber
Therapist, PsyD, LPCC, LMHC, SUDP
Having worked in addictions, community mental health, and forensic facilities, I have experience working with people who have borderline traits and complex PTSD.
13 Years Experience
Online in San Jose, CA
BPD
Ross Kellogg, LMFT
Marriage and Family Therapist, Licensed Individual, Marriage, and Family Therapist (LMFT)
I provide Dialectical Behavioral Therapy, the standardized and most effective approach to address symptoms related to Borderline Personality Disorder.
12 Years Experience
Online in San Jose, CA (Online Only)
BPD
Dr. Cassidy Blair, PSY.D.
Psychologist, B.A., M.A., Psy.D.
In approaching this particular disorder, psychodynamic therapy, dialectical behavioral therapy, and cognitive behavioral therapy are effecting in re-orienting the client's attitudes and behavior towards other people.
18 Years Experience
Online in San Jose, CA
San Jose sits at the heart of Silicon Valley, where the pressures of the tech industry — performance anxiety, imposter syndrome, and the psychological cost of relentless innovation culture — drive significant demand for therapists experienced in high-achievement environments. The city's large South Asian and East Asian communities mean culturally competent therapists who understand the intersection of immigrant identity, family expectations, and mental health are particularly sought after. Santa Clara Valley Medical Center and Kaiser Permanente provide institutional mental health resources alongside a growing independent therapy community. Many South Bay therapists offer evening and weekend hours to accommodate the demanding work schedules common in the tech sector.
Borderline Personality Disorder therapists in San Jose, California Statistics
Borderline Personality Disorder therapists in San Jose, California average 15 years of experience and charge around $217 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The most commonly treated issues are Borderline Personality Disorder (100%), Anxiety or Fears (92%), and Depression (90%).
Average years in practice
15 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$217
Gender ID
| 60% |
Female |
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| 28% |
Male |
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| 7% |
Non-Binary |
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| 5% |
Gender Fluid |
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Session Type
| 65% |
In Person and Online |
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| 35% |
Online Only |
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Top Specialties
| 100% | Borderline Personality Disorder |
| 92% | Anxiety or Fears |
| 90% | Depression |
| 85% | Trauma and PTSD |
| 67% | Codependency |
| 65% | Loss or Grief |
| 65% | Social Anxiety |