Online Codependency therapists in Thousand Oaks, California CA
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Codependency
Ryan James Carroll
Therapist, AMFT, APCC
We explore the patterns of over-giving, people-pleasing, and enmeshment that keep codependency alive. Through parts work and emotional processing, I support you in reclaiming independence while building healthier, more fulfilling connections.
3 Years Experience
Online in Thousand Oaks, CA
Codependency
San Francisco Counseling Collective
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPCC, LMFT, LCSW
At San Francisco Counseling Collective ("SFCC"), when working with codependency issues, we help clients identify relational patterns rooted in overresponsibility, difficulty with boundaries, and self-sacrifice. Together we strengthen self-awareness, autonomy, and relational balance.
9 Years Experience
Online in Thousand Oaks, CA
Codependency
Daniel Slavin
Marriage and Family Therapist
I help clients understand patterns of over-giving, people-pleasing, and losing oneself in relationships. Our work focuses on strengthening boundaries, self-trust, and the ability to feel whole and grounded while staying meaningfully connected to others.
41 Years Experience
Online in Thousand Oaks, CA
Codependency
Sandy Kong
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT 119380
Ever feel like your worth is attached to someone else's behavior? What they do or don't do for you? Or what you can or can't do for them? Codependency is when your sense of self-worth and identity starts to depend too much on someone else. Healthy relationships are mutually beneficial, providing love and support to both parties. Codependent relationships, on the other hand, are lopsided, casting one person in the role of constant caregiver. Over time, this dynamic can lead to emotional burnout, resentment, low self-esteem, and difficulty forming mutually healthy relationships. In a healthy relationship, both parties give and receive equally and are able to retain their own identity separate from the other person.
Codependency can start for many different reasons, often going back to your early life and the relationships you had growing up. For many people, codependency begins in childhood, particularly in environments marked by addiction, neglect, emotional volatility, or inconsistent caregiving. If you grew up in a home where one or both caregivers were emotionally unavailable, unpredictable, or overly dependent on you for support, you may have learned, consciously or not, that love and safety were earned by putting others’ needs before your own. Cultural messages, especially ones that tell you always to put others’ needs before your own, can also play a big role, especially for women. If you struggle with low self-esteem or have trouble setting boundaries, it can make you more likely to fall into codependent patterns in your relationships.
11 Years Experience
Online in Thousand Oaks, CA
Codependency
Russell Wilkie
Marriage and Family Therapist, MFT
Growing up in a less than nurturing environment can lead to all sorts of codependent traits, resulting in struggles with: self-esteem, self-care, boundaries, controlling others, taking care of your adult needs, perfectionism, and emotional flooding, to name a few. I am well versed in the 12-step program of codependents anonymous and the issues that are helped through attending meetings. I recommend the program, but it is not required to understand or heal the above issues.
34 Years Experience
Online in Thousand Oaks, CA (Online Only)
Codependency
Su Boudreau, LMFT
Marriage and Family Therapist, Certified Domestic Violence Counselor
Codependency is common in relationships either in a couple's or familial relationships. First finding out unhealthy codependency and acknowledging it is the initial step toward building a healthier relationship. A therapist with certification in Domestic Violence would be the best person who can help the clients with the codependency issues in their relationship.
11 Years Experience
Online in Thousand Oaks, CA (Online Only)
Codependency
Robin Bates-Pualuan
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, LPCC
Do you find it difficult to say no? Do you always put the needs of others ahead of your own? Do you feel selfish when you take care of yourself? While many people who answer yes to these questions have a generous heart, they can end up feeling used up, taken advantage of, and burned out. Therapy can be a great place to learn to understand the importance of your own needs and how to meet them in a way that's self-nourishing, not selfish.
14 Years Experience
Online in Thousand Oaks, CA
Codependency
Vanessa Ffrench
Marriage and Family Therapist, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (140713), Certified Yoga & Meditation Instructor
I have experience working with clients who have codependency issues and backgrounds with attachment issues.
15 Years Experience
Online in Thousand Oaks, CA (Online Only)
Codependency
Tracey Kiernan
Marriage and Family Therapist, MA, AMFT
If you tend to prioritize others’ needs over your own or feel responsible for how others feel, you’re not alone. I help you develop stronger boundaries, reconnect with your needs, and build healthier, more balanced relationships.
2 Years Experience
Online in Thousand Oaks, CA
Codependency
Nes Pinar Psychotherapy
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
I help clients untangle patterns of codependency by slowing down, getting curious, and reconnecting with their own needs, boundaries, and inner wisdom. Together, we explore the stories and survival strategies that once kept you safe but now keep you stuck, making space for more choice, agency, and self‑trust. My approach is warm, relational, and steady—supporting you as you practice new ways of relating that feel authentic, mutual, and sustainable.
15 Years Experience
Online in Thousand Oaks, CA
Codependency
New Beginnings Christian Counseling
Marriage and Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Codependency often develops from early attachment wounds, trauma, or environments where love felt conditional. You may find yourself over-functioning, people-pleasing, struggling with boundaries, or tying your worth to being needed. In therapy, we gently explore the roots of these patterns and help you build a stronger, more secure sense of self. Together, we work on developing healthy boundaries, emotional regulation, and self-worth grounded in truth—not performance—so you can experience balanced, life-giving relationships rather than exhausting ones.
15 Years Experience
Online in Thousand Oaks, CA
Codependency
Susana Scotti, Journey Psychotherapy
Psychologist, PhD
Struggling with codependency can leave you feeling emotionally exhausted, stuck in unhealthy relationship patterns, and unsure of your own needs or boundaries. You may find yourself prioritizing others at the expense of your well-being, feeling responsible for fixing or rescuing those around you, or experiencing guilt when you try to put yourself first. As a licensed psychologist with expertise in trauma, addiction, and mood disorders, I understand how codependent patterns often develop as a way to cope with past experiences and relational wounds. In therapy, we work together to uncover these underlying dynamics, build self-awareness, and strengthen your sense of identity and self-worth.
My approach is compassionate, collaborative, and grounded in evidence-based practices. I help clients develop healthier boundaries, improve communication, and learn how to engage in relationships from a place of balance rather than obligation or fear. Whether codependency is connected to past trauma, substance use, or ongoing anxiety or depression, our work will focus on helping you create more fulfilling, stable, and authentic connections, starting with the relationship you have with yourself.
13 Years Experience
Online in Thousand Oaks, CA (Online Only)
Codependency
David Gumpert
Psychologist, PsyD
Codependency is much more than spending a lot of time with someone else. It is being tangled up together like 2 sets of stringed lights and when one tries to pull away to do something independently, the other feels threatened, upset, abandoned, or a variety of other experiences. These are often rooted in a childhood where healthy boundaries were not modeled.
5 Years Experience
Online in Thousand Oaks, CA (Online Only)
Codependency
Darin Bennett
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
Difficulty maintaining boundaries and self-focus can be severely destructive within interpersonal relationships. Learning to dis-entangle enmeshed relationships and focus on the integrity of self is crucial.
25 Years Experience
Online in Thousand Oaks, CA
Codependency
G. Roman Gupta, LCSW
Therapist, LCSW
I have been practicing for almost 20 years and I have a strength-based, trauma-informed, culturally aware, LGBTQ+ affirmative, sex positive, kink positive, poly affirming, feminist perspective. I have trained and practiced in a variety of treatment methods that offer us a variety of ways to meet your goals whether as an individual, couple, or family.
18 Years Experience
Online in Thousand Oaks, CA
Codependency
Julie Levin
Marriage and Family Therapist, MFT
When a family member struggles with addiction, mental illness, cognitive deficits or developmental differences, it’s normal to want to help. Codependency arises when we try to control the situation or the other person through care-taking. This happens a lot when the other person has impulse control or anger problems. We learn to overfunction and become hyper-responsible to compensate and make life a little more stable. Together we can look at new ways to find stability and ease so you don’t have to continue placating and people-pleasing. We can explore the boundaries that would give you true control - not trying to change the other person or get them to understand, but to decide what you will and won’t do, and then staying true to yourself.
27 Years Experience
Online in Thousand Oaks, CA (Online Only)
Codependency
Charis Khoury
Marriage and Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
For those that were trained to self-abandon, returning "home" and learning to derive self worth from more reliable (internal) sources is one of the most rewarding achievements.
16 Years Experience
Online in Thousand Oaks, CA
Codependency
Victoria Miller
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
You're trying to make a loved one's life better but nothing seems to change. You're trying to have lasting friendships and relationships but things always seem off balance and a struggle. Without healthy boundaries eventually these relationships can go off the rails leaving you devastated and wondering "what did I do wrong?" I will help you understand how codependent patterns develop and how these patterns have transferred to other relationships. I will help you explore what it means to have healthy boundaries and help your relationships grow stronger, be more balanced, eventually helping you to feel less anxiety and stress.
20 Years Experience
Online in Thousand Oaks, CA
Codependency
Shadi Souferian
Psychologist, Psy.D
Therapy can help bring awareness to patterns of codependency and people-pleasing. Through our work together, you will gain insight into these patterns and begin to improve relationships with yourself and others.
26 Years Experience
Online in Thousand Oaks, CA
Codependency
Patricia Fahmy
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPCC
Codependent patterns often develop as adaptations to earlier relationships and environments where love, approval, or emotional safety felt uncertain. You may find yourself prioritizing others' needs, struggling to set boundaries, feeling responsible for other people's emotions, or losing touch with your own needs. I help you understand the origins of these patterns, build healthier boundaries, strengthen your sense of self, and create relationships that feel more balanced, secure, and fulfilling.
7 Years Experience
Online in Thousand Oaks, CA (Online Only)
Codependency therapists in Thousand Oaks, California Statistics
Codependency therapists in Thousand Oaks, California average 14 years of experience and charge around $205 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The most commonly treated issues are Codependency (100%), Anxiety or Fears (88%), and Depression (81%).
Average years in practice
14 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$205
Gender ID
| 69% |
Female |
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| 25% |
Male |
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| 3% |
Non-Binary |
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| 3% |
Gender Fluid |
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Session Type
| 65% |
In Person and Online |
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| 35% |
Online Only |
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Top Specialties
| 100% | Codependency |
| 88% | Anxiety or Fears |
| 81% | Depression |
| 76% | Trauma and PTSD |
| 71% | Stress |
| 71% | Self Esteem |
| 61% | Loss or Grief |