Online Codependency therapists in Decatur, Illinois IL
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Alan Brandis, Ph.D.
Psychologist, Ph.D., Licensed Psychologist
The concept of Co-Dependency was developed as a way of explaining how family members of alcoholics, especially their spouses, became emotionally ill apparently as a result of living with an alcoholic for years.
"Co" is a prefix that means "like" or "with" - the family member becomes sick like and with "the dependent" (the person dependent on a chemical). There are several common problems that often go along with life with an alcoholic or drug abuser, including their unpredictable moods, selfish and irresponsible behavior, angry outbursts which may include verbal or physical abuse, broken promises and commitments, embarrassing public behavior, financial irresponsibility, legal problems, and inability to return love or affection. However, most chemically dependent people have periods when they function well, and this generates the hope that they will stay well, quit or control their chemical use, and become responsible and loving for good.
36 Years Experience
Online in Decatur, IL
Denise Bike
Psychologist, PhD
What if you could be connected and also have boundaries? An in-depth intensive with Dr. Bike could support you on your journey to realigning with your inner compass — so your drive comes from self-trust, not self-sacrifice.
13 Years Experience
Online in Decatur, IL (Online Only)
Nicole Houde
Pre-Licensed Professional
I work with individuals struggling with codependency by helping them better understand patterns of over-reliance, people-pleasing, and difficulty setting boundaries in relationships. Codependency often involves prioritizing others’ needs at the expense of your own, which can lead to resentment, burnout, and a loss of sense of self. In therapy, we focus on increasing self-awareness, building healthier boundaries, and strengthening your ability to identify and communicate your own needs. I incorporate CBT and DBT-based strategies, including interpersonal effectiveness skills, to help challenge unhelpful beliefs and support you in developing more balanced, fulfilling relationships.
1 Years Experience
Online in Decatur, IL
Shelley Klammer
Counselor/Therapist, MTC, REACE, FOT, CHyp
If you are a heart-centred, empathic woman, you might have challenges setting healthy boundaries with people and could be stuck in fawning, pleasing, and appeasing patterns to feel safe and connected. I can support you in defining your values and setting either flexible or non-negotiable boundaries, depending on the circumstances. I can help you move through self-doubt and into your authentic self-expression. The therapy that I offer is in-depth and often involves going back to the inner child, where your inner defense patterns and relationship patterns began, to initiate deep emotional healing and safety.
20 Years Experience
Online in Decatur, IL (Online Only)
Rachel Purcell
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
I support my clients struggling with codependency by understanding relationship patterns, forming healthier boundaries, and working towards creating healthier relationships with themselves and others through a compassionate lens.
5 Years Experience
Online in Decatur, IL
Anthony S. Dillon
Licensed Professional Counselor, LCPC, CHt
Get help for codependency in the Chicago, IL area from experienced Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor Anthony S. Dillon. Anthony is a psychotherapist providing online and phone counseling for codependency, relationship and stressful interpersonal issues. Contact today for a free initial consultation.
30 Years Experience
Online in Decatur, IL (Online Only)
Rick Tivers
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW, CGP
I help people develop a stronger sense of self and identity through individual then group therapy.
45 Years Experience
Online in Decatur, IL
XaHara A. MeGod
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LCPC, R-DMT, CPT
Codependency often shows up as overgiving, people-pleasing, or losing yourself in others’ needs. I gently guide you back to yourself—your desires, boundaries, and worth. Using relational and somatic tools, we’ll heal the patterns that keep you stuck in caregiving at your own expense, and practice what it means to love without losing yourself.
8 Years Experience
Online in Decatur, IL (Online Only)
Alicia Stalker-Gallichio LMFT
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, SAP
If you find yourself constantly prioritizing others' needs over your own, feeling responsible for other people's emotions or struggling to establish healthy boundaries, you are not alone. Codependency therapy is designed to help you break free from these patterns and cultivate a healthier more balanced approach to relationships.
21 Years Experience
Online in Decatur, IL
Sarah Eisenhauer Counseling
Counselor/Therapist, LCMHC, LCPC, LPC, AADC
Relationships are tricky, since our relational blueprints are made when we are very young. We will work to understand the underlying beliefs and emotions that maintain relationship patterns and dynamics that are no longer working for you, utilizing behavioral techniques (CBT, DBT, ACT) as well as a depth, psychodynamic approach.
17 Years Experience
Online in Decatur, IL
Kelli Tahaney
Psychologist, Licensed Clinical Psychologist, Ph.D.
Codependency is an interpersonal relationship dynamic that is common for individuals with loved ones struggling with substance use. It can also at times present as a challenging relationship dynamic for adolescents as they are trying to separate from family of origin and gain full independence. In either case, I can help with healing from codependence, developing healthier boundaries, and communicating with loved ones about codependent tendencies.
5 Years Experience
Online in Decatur, IL
Merrisa Dawn Santos
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, NCC, CCTMHP, CCTP
In helping patients struggling with codependency, I provide a supportive and nonjudgmental environment for them to explore their thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. Through therapy, we work together to identify patterns of codependent behavior and the underlying beliefs that drive them. I offer guidance and tools to help patients develop healthier coping mechanisms, set boundaries, and prioritize their own needs and well-being. Additionally, I provide education about healthy relationships and communication skills, empowering patients to cultivate more fulfilling connections with others while maintaining their sense of self. My goal is to support patients in breaking free from codependency, fostering self-compassion, and building a life based on authenticity, autonomy, and resilience.
5 Years Experience
Online in Decatur, IL (Online Only)
Mind Lodge
Therapist, LCPC
Struggling with codependency can leave you feeling stuck. Our therapists work with clients to break unhealthy patterns, set boundaries, and build healthier relationships.
21 Years Experience
Online in Decatur, IL
Natalie A Shafer
Counselor/Therapist, MA, NCC, LPC
Codependency and enmeshment can gradually blur the boundaries between self and others, making it difficult to recognize your own needs, feelings, and identity. Over time, this can lead to a sense of losing yourself in relationships. We will work to explore these patterns, strengthen your sense of self, and create more balanced ways of relating that allow for both connection and individuality.
2 Years Experience
Online in Decatur, IL
Catherine Quiring
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, MA, LMHC, LPC, LCPC
I love helping people become empowered, assertive, and become their own ideal attachment figure. I help folx in patterns of codependency and people-pleasing learn to love themselves and support themselves on a deep level, and learn how to relate to others in healthy ways.
17 Years Experience
Online in Decatur, IL
Mary Knoblock, DNH
Hypnotherapist, DNH, RTT Practitioner, Hypnotist, Holistic Naturopath Practitioner, Spiritual Counselor
I can help you work through codependency issues with a lot of different tools, specifically RTT, Emotion Code and many more.
11 Years Experience
Online in Decatur, IL (Online Only)
Avena Psychological Services
Psychologist, PsyD, PhD, LCSW, LMHC, LMSW, MHC-LP
Treating codependency is a journey towards reclaiming your sense of self and fostering healthier, more balanced relationships. With a compassionate and insightful approach, the therapists at Avena Psychological Services will guide you through exploring the roots of your codependent patterns and uncovering the ways they impact your life. Utilizing a combination of therapeutic approaches, our therapists will help you rewrite your personal narrative, challenge limiting beliefs, and establish firm, healthy boundaries. Through this process, you will develop a stronger sense of self-worth and independence, learning to nurture relationships based on mutual respect rather than dependency. Together, we will work to transform your patterns of behavior, empowering you to build more fulfilling connections and embrace a life where you are truly at the center of your own story.
11 Years Experience
Online in Decatur, IL (Online Only)
Peter C. Jackson, PsyD
Psychologist, PsyD
If you find yourself consistently prioritizing others' needs over your own, struggling with boundaries, or seeking external validation, you may be experiencing patterns of codependency. My approach offers a clear path to reclaiming your authentic self. We will work to identify these ingrained dynamics, fostering a deeper connection to your inner wisdom and personal truth. The goal is to empower you to navigate relationships with greater clarity, strengthen your sense of self, and build truly balanced and fulfilling connection.s
33 Years Experience
Online in Decatur, IL
Nostos Psychotherapy
Psychologist, PsyD
We work from a relational perspective to help individuals find healthy boundaries and independence.
12 Years Experience
Online in Decatur, IL
MJB Wellness LLC
Hypnotherapist, Certified Hypnotherapist and Coach, Certified Sexological Bodyworker, Sex Educator, Certified Reiki
So many of my clients, no matter what issue they initially come in for, have issues related to setting boundaries, communicating with their partners, and consent. I find that before doing any other work with them, I must teach them about consent, setting boundaries, and understanding relationship dynamics. In my sexuality training, I had to learn Betty Martin's Wheel of Consent, which has become the gold standard worldwide for teaching about consent. Certainly, for clients I work with around sexual issues of relationship issues, teaching the Wheel of Consent is the first step. Understanding relationship dynamics for the first time in their lives puts many clients' problems into a new perspective and often resolves their issues without having to do any other work, though we usually do just to clear any residue of past hurts and anger. We often do hypnosis focused on strengthening boundaries and building internal resources so they go forward in a stronger more positive way.
8 Years Experience
Online in Decatur, IL
Codependency therapists in Decatur, Illinois Statistics
Codependency therapists in Decatur, Illinois average 18 years of experience and charge around $195 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The most commonly treated issues are Codependency (100%), Anxiety or Fears (91%), and Depression (83%).
Average years in practice
18 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$195
Gender ID
| 62% |
Female |
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| 31% |
Male |
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| 4% |
Non-Binary |
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| 3% |
Gender Fluid |
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Session Type
| 54% |
In Person and Online |
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| 46% |
Online Only |
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Top Specialties
| 100% | Codependency |
| 91% | Anxiety or Fears |
| 83% | Depression |
| 81% | Self Esteem |
| 72% | Stress |
| 67% | Loss or Grief |
| 63% | Social Anxiety |