Online Codependency therapists in Pontiac, Illinois IL
We are proud to feature top rated online Codependency therapists in Pontiac. We encourage you to review each profile to find your best match.
Dr. Megan Marks
Psychologist, PhD
You might be the one everyone leans on—always available, endlessly supportive, and quick to smooth things over. But underneath that strength, there’s a quiet exhaustion. Maybe you’ve spent so long tending to others that you’ve lost touch with your own voice. You may struggle to set boundaries, prioritize your own needs, or feel okay when someone else is upset. Maybe you define your worth through how much you give or help, but deep down, you’re craving space to just be… without performing, fixing, or proving.
At The Momentum Practice, I help clients untangle patterns of codependency that often start early—growing up in families where your worth was tied to being helpful, agreeable, or emotionally attuned to others. These patterns can show up in adult life in all kinds of relationships: romantic partnerships, friendships, caregiving roles, family systems, and even the workplace, where over-functioning often gets mistaken for excellence. You might find yourself constantly people-pleasing, second-guessing your instincts, or feeling panicked at the thought of being left behind. They can be especially layered for LGBTQ+ and neurodivergent folks who’ve had to mask parts of themselves to stay safe, loved, or accepted.
We’ll explore how these ways of relating helped you survive—and how they might be keeping you stuck now. Together, we’ll work on building boundaries that feel empowering (not selfish), tuning into your own needs and desires, and letting go of the belief that your value comes from how much you give. We’ll also look at how systemic pressures may have reinforced these patterns over time. Our work might include unlearning perfectionism, quieting the inner critic, and cultivating self-trust that isn’t tied to how much you do for others.
With over 15 years of experience, I offer a compassionate space to reconnect with your own voice and needs. You don’t have to keep disappearing in your relationships. Whether we’re working one-on-one or navigating these dynamics in couples therapy, you’ll have a space to explore what healthier, more mutual connection can look like. If you're ready to show up more fully for yourself and build connections that don’t come at the cost of your own well-being, I’d be honored to journey alongside you. Contact me for a free 15 minute consultation!
21 Years Experience
Online in Pontiac, IL
Anthony S. Dillon
Licensed Professional Counselor, LCPC, CHt
Get help for codependency in the Chicago, IL area from experienced Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor Anthony S. Dillon. Anthony is a psychotherapist providing online and phone counseling for codependency, relationship and stressful interpersonal issues. Contact today for a free initial consultation.
30 Years Experience
Online in Pontiac, IL (Online Only)
Heinig Health and Wellness Counseling
Psychologist, Ph.D. Clinical Psychology, M.S. Health Psychology, M.A. Clinical Psychology, PSYPACT Providers
We help individuals recognize and overcome patterns of codependency that can impact relationships, self-esteem, and emotional well-being. Through a supportive and collaborative therapeutic approach, we work with clients to develop healthy boundaries, strengthen their sense of self, improve communication skills, and reduce people-pleasing behaviors. Our goal is to empower clients to build more balanced, fulfilling relationships while fostering greater self-confidence, independence, and emotional resilience.
7 Years Experience
Online in Pontiac, IL (Online Only)
Karen Queller
Art Therapist, M.A Expressive Arts Therapy
I can guide and support individuals dealing with codependency by facilitating creative processes that encourage self-exploration, fostering self-awareness, and empowering them to establish healthy boundaries and cultivate self-care practices.
7 Years Experience
Online in Pontiac, IL
Denise Bike
Psychologist, PhD
What if you could be connected and also have boundaries? An in-depth intensive with Dr. Bike could support you on your journey to realigning with your inner compass — so your drive comes from self-trust, not self-sacrifice.
13 Years Experience
Online in Pontiac, IL (Online Only)
Merrisa Dawn Santos
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, NCC, CCTMHP, CCTP
In helping patients struggling with codependency, I provide a supportive and nonjudgmental environment for them to explore their thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. Through therapy, we work together to identify patterns of codependent behavior and the underlying beliefs that drive them. I offer guidance and tools to help patients develop healthier coping mechanisms, set boundaries, and prioritize their own needs and well-being. Additionally, I provide education about healthy relationships and communication skills, empowering patients to cultivate more fulfilling connections with others while maintaining their sense of self. My goal is to support patients in breaking free from codependency, fostering self-compassion, and building a life based on authenticity, autonomy, and resilience.
5 Years Experience
Online in Pontiac, IL (Online Only)
Kelli Hall
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
I work with individuals who find themselves over-functioning or over-accommodating in relationships.
This often includes difficulty saying no, feeling responsible for others, or prioritizing others’ needs over your own.
Together, we focus on developing boundaries, clarifying needs, and building more balanced, authentic relationships.
13 Years Experience
Online in Pontiac, IL (Online Only)
Dr. Evelyn Comber
Psychologist, L.C.P.C., Ph.D., M.A., M.P.C., M.H.S., B.G.S.
Tired of feeling your choices are not really YOUR choices? Feeling like you are buried under other peoples' needs? Or questioning whether you are a co-dependent? Call me and let's talk.
31 Years Experience
Online in Pontiac, IL (Online Only)
Mind Lodge
Therapist, LCPC
Struggling with codependency can leave you feeling stuck. Our therapists work with clients to break unhealthy patterns, set boundaries, and build healthier relationships.
21 Years Experience
Online in Pontiac, IL
Nostos Psychotherapy
Psychologist, PsyD
We work from a relational perspective to help individuals find healthy boundaries and independence.
12 Years Experience
Online in Pontiac, IL
Allyson Stephens
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, MSW, LCSW
Codependency can be a hard attachment to break. I think it is important to get support on how to heal from this behavior and attain understanding on how to change the cycle. I use IFS, EMDR, and Somatic Therapy for this issue.
8 Years Experience
Online in Pontiac, IL (Online Only)
Alicia Stalker-Gallichio LMFT
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, SAP
If you find yourself constantly prioritizing others' needs over your own, feeling responsible for other people's emotions or struggling to establish healthy boundaries, you are not alone. Codependency therapy is designed to help you break free from these patterns and cultivate a healthier more balanced approach to relationships.
21 Years Experience
Online in Pontiac, IL
Sarah Eisenhauer Counseling
Counselor/Therapist, LCMHC, LCPC, LPC, AADC
Relationships are tricky, since our relational blueprints are made when we are very young. We will work to understand the underlying beliefs and emotions that maintain relationship patterns and dynamics that are no longer working for you, utilizing behavioral techniques (CBT, DBT, ACT) as well as a depth, psychodynamic approach.
17 Years Experience
Online in Pontiac, IL
Hannah Muetzelfeld
Psychologist, PhD
I offer a compassionate, nonjudgmental space to explore and heal patterns that no longer serve you. Whether you find yourself constantly prioritizing others at the expense of your own well-being, struggling with boundaries, or feeling responsible for others’ emotions, I can help you reconnect with your own needs and develop healthier relationship patterns. My approach integrates evidence-based practices with a deep understanding of attachment and family systems to support lasting change.
12 Years Experience
Online in Pontiac, IL (Online Only)
Peter Gould
Psychologist, Ph.D.
As a licensed clinical psychologist specializing in codependency, I provide compassionate and effective treatment for individuals involved in enmeshed relationships who seek to develop a stronger sense of self and establish healthier boundaries. My approach, informed by evidence-based therapies such as CBT and interpersonal therapy, is customized to address the unique needs of each individual.
22 Years Experience
Online in Pontiac, IL (Online Only)
Rachel Purcell
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
I support my clients struggling with codependency by understanding relationship patterns, forming healthier boundaries, and working towards creating healthier relationships with themselves and others through a compassionate lens.
5 Years Experience
Online in Pontiac, IL
Nicole Houde
Pre-Licensed Professional
I work with individuals struggling with codependency by helping them better understand patterns of over-reliance, people-pleasing, and difficulty setting boundaries in relationships. Codependency often involves prioritizing others’ needs at the expense of your own, which can lead to resentment, burnout, and a loss of sense of self. In therapy, we focus on increasing self-awareness, building healthier boundaries, and strengthening your ability to identify and communicate your own needs. I incorporate CBT and DBT-based strategies, including interpersonal effectiveness skills, to help challenge unhelpful beliefs and support you in developing more balanced, fulfilling relationships.
1 Years Experience
Online in Pontiac, IL
Paul W Anderson, PhD
Psychologist, Licensed counseling psychologist, Licensed Addictions counselor, PsyPact
How much better to put your mind and energy to taking care of your self and depending on your own efforts than to believe you can't be OK unless you qualifier (addict) gets sober. I can help and guide you on how to get into your own recovery and long lasting sobriety.
45 Years Experience
Online in Pontiac, IL (Online Only)
Rick Tivers
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW, CGP
I help people develop a stronger sense of self and identity through individual then group therapy.
45 Years Experience
Online in Pontiac, IL
Salvadore Coaching LLC
Life Coach, Holistic Life Coach, Certified Breathwork Instructor, Certified Hypnotist
Codependency often begins as care, loyalty, or sensitivity—but over time it can become self-abandonment. And when you abandon yourself, you don’t actually protect the relationship—you weaken it.
Oftentimes, many people find themselves over-functioning, people-pleasing, managing another’s emotions, or staying in relationships that require them to shrink their needs in order to keep connection. The result is often a combination of anxiety, resentment, exhaustion, and a loss of clarity about what they actually want.
In our work together, we aim to de-escalate these patterns and explore what they’ve been protecting: perhaps a fear of conflict, abandonment, guilt, or the belief that love must be earned through sacrifice. We build practical skills for boundaries, self-trust, and direct communication, so you can stay connected without losing yourself. The goal is not to become “less caring,” but to create relationships that include you—relationships where care and reciprocity can coexist.
14 Years Experience
Online in Pontiac, IL
Codependency therapists in Pontiac, Illinois Statistics
Codependency therapists in Pontiac, Illinois average 18 years of experience and charge around $195 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The most commonly treated issues are Codependency (100%), Anxiety or Fears (91%), and Depression (83%).
Average years in practice
18 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$195
Gender ID
| 62% |
Female |
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| 31% |
Male |
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| 4% |
Non-Binary |
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| 3% |
Gender Fluid |
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Session Type
| 54% |
In Person and Online |
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| 46% |
Online Only |
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Top Specialties
| 100% | Codependency |
| 91% | Anxiety or Fears |
| 83% | Depression |
| 81% | Self Esteem |
| 72% | Stress |
| 67% | Loss or Grief |
| 63% | Social Anxiety |