Online Self Esteem therapists in Irvington, New Jersey NJ
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Self Esteem
Megan Shurtleff
Counselor/Therapist, LSW
Self esteem issues can often stem from programming beliefs at a young age. Through working with me we will find out where your programming was flawed and remove the negative beliefs standing in the way of you feeling comfortable in your own skin.
6 Years Experience
Online in Irvington, NJ
Self Esteem
Dr. David Leibovitz
Psychologist, Psy.D.
Self esteem is so important as it often affects our emotions and informs the choices we make in our lives. Many people buy into negative and often destructive critical thoughts about themselves. In cognitive behavioral therapy, we help you beak free from buying your overly judgmental thoughts as facts, so that you can see your true self and be free to pursue a life of joy and meaning.
25 Years Experience
Online in Irvington, NJ
Self Esteem
Tara Murphy
Psychologist, Psy.D.
Low self-esteem often grows out of shame and critical environments. IFS, attachment focused, trauma informed, and narrative therapy help uncover and transform negative beliefs, while mindfulness and humanistic approaches foster self-compassion. I provide careful diagnostic evaluation to distinguish self-esteem struggles from depression, trauma, or social anxiety.
29 Years Experience
Online in Irvington, NJ (Online Only)
Self Esteem
Kaijah Bjorklund
Counselor/Therapist, LPC, LMHC
Low self-esteem rarely comes from nowhere — it's usually the accumulated weight of experiences that taught you that you were too much, not enough, or fundamentally flawed in some way. Those messages get stored in the body and in our inner world, shaping how we move through relationships, work, and our own minds. I help clients reconnect with a grounded, stable sense of self worth that doesn't depend on external validation — through EMDR to reprocess the experiences that shaped those beliefs, and IFS to build a kinder, more honest relationship with yourself.
12 Years Experience
Online in Irvington, NJ (Online Only)
Self Esteem
Yaffa Dyckman
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
Positive self esteem can feel so out of reach sometimes. Negative self talk is so painful and common, and yet we can still feel so alone in it. I have seen great results using psychodynamic therapy and EMDR in this work. You can develop a more compassionate inner voice. You can start feeling better about yourself.
16 Years Experience
Online in Irvington, NJ
Self Esteem
Guy J Iacono
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
Low self-esteem does not always look the way people expect. It does not always show up as someone who seems visibly insecure or withdrawn. More often it looks like a high achiever who never feels like enough, someone who constantly seeks validation from others, a person who avoids taking risks because failure feels catastrophic, or a man who has spent years measuring his worth by his productivity, his income, or what other people think of him.
The internal experience is usually some version of the same thing: a persistent sense of not measuring up, difficulty accepting positive feedback, a harsh inner voice that is quick to criticize and slow to acknowledge progress, and a pattern of putting everyone else's needs ahead of your own.
Self-esteem is not something you either have or do not have. It is built through experience, shaped by relationships and environment, and it can be changed with the right kind of focused work. That means examining where those beliefs about yourself came from, challenging the patterns that reinforce them, and building a more accurate and stable sense of who you actually are.
My approach is direct and practical. We identify the specific ways low self-esteem is showing up in your life, address the thinking patterns and behaviors that sustain it, and build real confidence grounded in self-awareness and action rather than approval from others.
If you are tired of being your own harshest critic and ready to approach yourself differently, I invite you to schedule a free 15-minute consultation.
10 Years Experience
Online in Irvington, NJ
Self Esteem
Lauren Palumbo
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC
Do you struggle to see your own worth? Maybe you’re constantly comparing yourself to others, feeling not good enough, or doubting whether people truly value you. Over time, these thoughts take a toll, making it hard to trust yourself or feel confident in who you are. I enjoy helping my clients quiet the self-doubt, let go of harsh inner criticism, and build a sense of self-worth that feels solid and real. You don’t have to keep questioning your value, you deserve to believe in it.
4 Years Experience
Online in Irvington, NJ (Online Only)
Self Esteem
Insight Psychological Group
Psychologist, Psy.D.s, LCSWs, LPCs, LCADCs...
At the heart of any action we undertake is the belief that we can accomplish it. When we don't have that belief firmly fixed, we often do not try. This applies not only to big things, like applying for a new job or asking someone out, this also applies to micro-situations: belief that we can organize our closet, belief that we can lose weight, belief that we will survive the car ride, or belief that we matter to the other person. This is all self-esteem. Our therapists can help you understand why it's so hard to believe in yourself.
29 Years Experience
Online in Irvington, NJ
Self Esteem
Dr. Mike Lee
Psychologist
I help individuals develop a steadier sense of worth and self-respect. The work is depth-informed and collaborative: we make sense of what is happening at and beneath the surface—shame, self-criticism, and the standards you carry—and turn that understanding into workable steps. The aim is durable change—less harshness and doubt, more confidence, choice, and the capacity to stand with yourself even under stress.
13 Years Experience
Online in Irvington, NJ
Self Esteem
Elana Blumenthal
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
Self-esteem often comes from feeling a sense of mastery over certain hurdles in our lives, whether with children, socially, our jobs, school work, etc. I work with clients in helping them understand themselves, and gain enough confidence to approach challenges that they may be afraid to take or worry they'll fail at. I help clients talk about the fear of failing and the fear of making mistakes-- which in life are inevitable to some degree for all of us.
27 Years Experience
Online in Irvington, NJ
Self Esteem
Silvina Falcon - Levine
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW, MSW
Are you disappointed with the way you view yourself and the person you have become? Do you frequently tell yourself that you are inadequate or incompetent, particularly when you compare yourself to others? Do you wish you looked different, were smarter, or had accomplished more academically, professionally or socially? Do you feel you have fallen short of the expectations you had for yourself and that others had of you? Do you wish you could carry yourself with more pride and self-respect?
These are signs of self–rejection and low self–esteem. Judging yourself harshly is an enormously painful experience that causes you to distrust yourself and your abilities. The internal dialogue that criticizes you is alive, powerful, and has a profound impact on your mood and the quality of your life.
I believe that evidence-based methods are the key to alleviate symptoms and relieve this emotional pain. The systematic use of cognitive, behavioral, and motivational methods, as well as mindfulness and relapse prevention, can help you manage moments of self - deprecation and begin experience greater freedom and self - acceptance. There are a variety of evidence-based methods that can help you acquire the tools necessary to improve your self–image and develop self–compassion. A life of self-respect and pride is a life worth living; it is actually a very joyful life. I look forward to partner with you in a journey towards better self - esteem and self - respect.
33 Years Experience
Online in Irvington, NJ
Self Esteem
Libby Shaw
Counselor/Therapist, LPC, ATR-BC, LPAT, ACS
Low self-esteem and self-worth is something that can be explored both from the past and present. We can look retrospectively to find the origins of these feelings, while simultaneously focusing on the present and future to find ways to move forward with confidence and self-respect.
13 Years Experience
Online in Irvington, NJ (Online Only)
Self Esteem
Dina Hijazi
Psychologist, PhD, CSAT
Struggling with self-esteem can impact every aspect of life—from relationships and decision-making to personal goals and emotional well-being. In therapy, I help clients uncover the roots of self-doubt, challenge negative self-talk, and build a more compassionate and confident inner voice. Through a supportive and strengths-based approach, we work toward developing a stronger sense of identity, resilience, and self-acceptance.
35 Years Experience
Online in Irvington, NJ
Self Esteem
Total Wellness Center
Treatment Center, We have LCSWs and LPCs providing various talk therapies. It's key to find a provider who fits your unique needs.
Self Esteem: Our sessions empower clients to build self-confidence, embrace their strengths, & overcome limiting beliefs.
11 Years Experience
Online in Irvington, NJ
Self Esteem
Chrissie Chua- Ly van manh
Counselor/Therapist, LMHC-D, LPC
I support clients who struggle with self-esteem, self-doubt, and a persistent sense of not feeling “enough,” even when life looks stable or successful on the outside. Many of the clients I work with are high-achieving, thoughtful, and capable individuals who have learned to be self-critical in order to succeed, but find that inner voice of criticism difficult to turn off.
Low self-esteem can show up in many ways- difficulty trusting yourself, second-guessing decisions, people-pleasing, comparing yourself to others, or feeling undeserving of rest, success, or healthy relationships. Over time, these patterns can shape how you see yourself and how you move through the world.
In therapy, we work together to understand where these beliefs came from, including past experiences, family dynamics, cultural expectations, and internalized messages about worth and value. Alongside this deeper exploration, we also focus on building practical tools to challenge self-critical thoughts and create new, more balanced ways of relating to yourself.
My goal is to help you develop a stronger, more compassionate relationship with yourself- one where your worth is not dependent on performance, approval, or productivity, but rooted in a more stable and grounded sense of who you are.
10 Years Experience
Online in Irvington, NJ (Online Only)
Self Esteem
Celine Linley
Hypnotherapist, Certified Hypnotherapist
The end of a marriage or break up can leave you questioning your worth, your judgment, even how you see yourself in the mirror, sometimes all at once. I work with women in that place, feeling shaken and unsure of themselves after a season that tested everything.
1 Years Experience
Online in Irvington, NJ (Online Only)
Self Esteem
Barry Lipscomb
Hypnotherapist, CHT
Hypnotherapy sessions are very effective in quieting the critical inner voice and restoring self-esteem.
6 Years Experience
Online in Irvington, NJ
Self Esteem
Dr. Cassandra Hutchins
Psychologist, Psy.D.
If negative self-talk or self-doubt has been holding you back, our therapy for self-esteem helps you rediscover your worth. We work to replace critical inner voices with confidence and self-compassion, guiding you to see yourself with kindness and courage. You deserve to feel confident and capable in every area of your life.
17 Years Experience
Online in Irvington, NJ (Online Only)
Self Esteem
Dr. Megie Shean
Psychologist, PsyD
Childhood experiences, previous relationships, and trauma can impact how we see ourselves in the world. I can support you to increase your awareness of yourself and build more adaptive responses.
7 Years Experience
Online in Irvington, NJ (Online Only)
Self Esteem
Dr. Trey Cole
Psychologist, Psy.D., ABPP, DAAETS
I help clients build self-esteem by exploring negative self-beliefs, challenging self-critical patterns, and fostering self-compassion. Together, we develop strategies to increase confidence, resilience, and self-worth. My goal is to help clients feel more empowered, authentic, and aligned with their values.
19 Years Experience
Online in Irvington, NJ
Self Esteem therapists in Irvington, New Jersey Statistics
Self Esteem therapists in Irvington, New Jersey average 16 years of experience and charge around $206 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The most commonly treated issues are Self Esteem (100%), Anxiety or Fears (90%), and Depression (84%).
Average years in practice
16 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$206
Gender ID
| 66% |
Female |
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| 30% |
Male |
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| 3% |
Non-Binary |
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| 1% |
Gender Fluid |
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Session Type
| 55% |
In Person and Online |
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| 45% |
Online Only |
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Top Specialties
| 100% | Self Esteem |
| 90% | Anxiety or Fears |
| 84% | Depression |
| 78% | Stress |
| 64% | Trauma and PTSD |
| 62% | Loss or Grief |
| 62% | Social Anxiety |